Dude you are absolutely a troll or just a disgusting child groomer. Like every single comment you make just makes it worse for you. You say you dated for two years. And she’s now 18 so she was 16 then, but you also knew eachother for a few years prior which meant that you were a 20 year old being “friends” with a 13-14 year old. I think this is all just a joke so I’m done. But if this isn’t a joke I hope you take a good long look at your life and realize how absolutely disgusting you are. Move on, get a life, and start dating people that are actually your age..
I'm so sorry if I'm coming across that way. I have a lot of love for people all across the board. I have ADHD myself, among other things, and share quite a few of those overlapping symptoms, but that's just a miniscule part.
To be clear, I am absolutely not supporting hate or unfair judgement on people with or without some type of illness. I'm saying, illness, disability, and neurodivergence are not an excuse to be a jerk. There are factors that dictate how acceptable it is, and what people should and should not tolerate. There are allowances to be made, but both sides need to take responsibility for hurt feelings and how they're managed. This is what my friend's teaching her kids (within reason).
I also don't think it's fair to assume that everyone thinks autism = Raymond Babbitt. I'm sure that was the case years ago, but so much has changed, at least in my country, though we still have a long way to go as a society. Even where ADHD is concerned.
Please pick the above apart and let me know in what way I'm wrong. I genuinely want to know in which way I'm being unfair to an entire community because that is not my intention in anyway.
This is typical behavior of someone that lacks empathy in general.
He is cold and unatentive towards you, but he doesn't want to acknowledge it. You see… in order for us to grow, we have to first acknowledge the things we lack in.
He believes that his behavior is normal. Which means there isn't going to be much you can do to change this.
We can't change people… And like you said, you already have dated a guy that was really there for you.
And you don't need to accept anything less than that…
Question is what do you value more – the relationship with your girlfriend or getting stoned? Maybe you are just incompatible and you need to date another stoner?
You already left. Your part in this is over. If he abuses his power as police officer, then drop the hammer on him. But you ended it like a decent person after finding out. Clean break for you. His life outside of this is not your business anymore. Let sleeping dogs lay.
Newlywed couple with a newborn. Sex life suffers. Man is clearly just a walking penis.
I mean can one get more misandrist?
But he masturbated thinking about having sex with someone else before he was with me. That’s wrong too.
It sounds like he’s got some trauma around the act of sex. Have you tried having a conversation with him?
Yes, she is trying to baby trap you. Good luck.
Dude you are absolutely a troll or just a disgusting child groomer. Like every single comment you make just makes it worse for you. You say you dated for two years. And she’s now 18 so she was 16 then, but you also knew eachother for a few years prior which meant that you were a 20 year old being “friends” with a 13-14 year old. I think this is all just a joke so I’m done. But if this isn’t a joke I hope you take a good long look at your life and realize how absolutely disgusting you are. Move on, get a life, and start dating people that are actually your age..
I'm so sorry if I'm coming across that way. I have a lot of love for people all across the board. I have ADHD myself, among other things, and share quite a few of those overlapping symptoms, but that's just a miniscule part.
To be clear, I am absolutely not supporting hate or unfair judgement on people with or without some type of illness. I'm saying, illness, disability, and neurodivergence are not an excuse to be a jerk. There are factors that dictate how acceptable it is, and what people should and should not tolerate. There are allowances to be made, but both sides need to take responsibility for hurt feelings and how they're managed. This is what my friend's teaching her kids (within reason).
I also don't think it's fair to assume that everyone thinks autism = Raymond Babbitt. I'm sure that was the case years ago, but so much has changed, at least in my country, though we still have a long way to go as a society. Even where ADHD is concerned.
Please pick the above apart and let me know in what way I'm wrong. I genuinely want to know in which way I'm being unfair to an entire community because that is not my intention in anyway.
also possibly to convince her that he'll love her even when she's unattractive, so that she won't leave him for someone else.
She lied about it, probably cheated. You can forgive her but will she do it again
This is typical behavior of someone that lacks empathy in general.
He is cold and unatentive towards you, but he doesn't want to acknowledge it. You see… in order for us to grow, we have to first acknowledge the things we lack in.
He believes that his behavior is normal. Which means there isn't going to be much you can do to change this.
We can't change people… And like you said, you already have dated a guy that was really there for you.
And you don't need to accept anything less than that…
You did your part. Just use protection so you don’t end up in a worse situation.
Question is what do you value more – the relationship with your girlfriend or getting stoned? Maybe you are just incompatible and you need to date another stoner?
No matter what don't marry, make exit plans in secret, call a help line in your area
You already left. Your part in this is over. If he abuses his power as police officer, then drop the hammer on him. But you ended it like a decent person after finding out. Clean break for you. His life outside of this is not your business anymore. Let sleeping dogs lay.