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You need to just come out and say something before he pops up with a ring.
There’s no rule on when to have sex. Some people have sex on the first date. Some people wait until the 5th or some random number of dates. Others do it in the moment and don’t discuss it before hand.
You didn’t do anything wrong. Sounds like you guys need to discuss your preferences on sex and what it means to you.
Based on her reaction I would guess she’s had very few if any partners and it probably means a lot to her. Some people consider sex more casual and don’t wait long. You just need to make sure your values align sexually.
If he truly feels the need to talk about it and he’s still that hurt then he needs to get into therapy. This is going to take a toll on you and your relationship to constantly listen to him talk about his ex. This sounds like he wasn’t ready to move on when he did and he’s using you to work through his past.
This is HIS fault lmao. Tell him to fuck off with his pathetic guilt tripping
you’ve never had really horrible mental health before have you, it’s extremely easier said than done ?
Sounds like you don’t need to do anything for him to regret it really. The money sucks but it’s far from a trust issue. According to mostly all the girls here he is deceiving you or whatever else. Stfu. He was out in the cities with friends, they peer pressured him into it and he regretted it before you even had a hunch.
You now know that you can spend 800 bucks on something dumb and if he says anything you can remind him it’s no worst than a couple of strippers to shut him right up.
Both you and this guy are a POS. You knew he had a GF and slept with him anyway. Tell her so she can get as far away from both of your as possible. You both deserve each other. You’re an awful person.
Something isn't adding up here, but going from, “They offered to drive me home,” to, “They took me to jail because I couldn't find my phone,” is a massive gap in the story. What made them suddenly change their mind?
Is your friend Brit? by any chance… his name is Harry??
We’re only 19 so he’s at a call centre job but the reason it’s unstable is they havent paid him for 6 fucking months
How do you know she feels this way about you and that it’s not just platonic?
It's absolutely not gay- women who have anal sex with men aren't gay men.
If this is a hard no for you, fine. But relationships are about compromise and caring about what both partners want and need, not just one partner.
my sincere condolences. one way that has helped with trauma for me is to actively prioritize making new memories (without replacing the old). take a trip, join a class, start volunteering. do something you’ve always wanted to do. and moving homes or towns or jobs—while being cognizant of maintaining access to your support network of loved ones—could help with the feeling of a new chapter in which time will move forward rather than stand still. there are also some amazing books about grief that could help you process. best wishes to both of you.
I was about to say the same. No armchair therapist or quick anecdotes are going to be anywhere nearly as effective as a professional therapist.
Nah, but if she puts herself in another situation where she’s blackout drunk and vulnerable. I would not want to be with her
People lie about small things. It is not indicative of whether they'll lie about important things.
Sounds like assault – if her friend stopped them she probably wasn’t raped. If you were long distance and she cheated, why tell you about it? It wouldn’t be to get rid of guilt – then she’d just have more guilt for lying to you about something so serious.
He's allowed to feel good about himself but holding the opinions of strangers in higher regard than his girlfriend is weird! If my boyfriend complimented something about me and I didn't believe him and acted insecure but as soon as other men complimented me on the same shit I got confident that's weird af.
Same here, first kiss/relationship at 21.5 y old
Thank you, I just really hope he doesn't resent me for everything.
Exactly! When somebody show you who they really are, believe them.
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But you don’t understand, that’s her best friend!
I’m sorry, OP. If he really was your best friend, husband or not, he wouldn’t make you feel that way, treat you that way, and place you in situations that upset you. Your daughter watches you and by allowing your husband to walk all over you like this, you’re teaching her to emulate this in her future relationships. For her sake, he needs to be a better husband, partner, and person. And you need to step up for yourself.
Oh you know but he's male, it's not his job to do stuff in his own house, where he eats and leaves his mess behind. /s
It wasn’t nasty, but it was very messy, we tried being friends and that failed horribly, but when we began non contact again we did mention let’s be civil when we meet up in groups. But I personally don’t want to see her or speak to her, but I think I could say hi how you doing and that’s about it
Did she tell the truth about you?
Because they wanted him to reunite with his ex
Girl….. the same thing happened to be. These women are so stupid. And teaching their daughters that its okay for men b to be cheaters. Makes me sick to my stomach.
r/casualconversation for that.
Don't need relationship advice if it's working great
If he’s a good boyfriend, shows you he loves you and makes you feel loved then why does a few extra words matter? Like you said you have a loving relationship, something a lot of people envy but your fixated on the one little thing you don’t have.
Maybe it’s cultural. If he’s of certain ethnicity then some don’t speak affection or have ever received that type of affection at all so it’s uncommon.
Now you had closure that you wanted. Block her and enjoy your bday!
You need to keep her away until you move on! If you let her text you then you already know (probably hope) what will happen…
Came here for this comment. Yeah. Yer wife is gay, sir.
I just don't understand what makes me the bad guy, when I was almost the only one who even cared enough to talk to her in school. So what I did not keep up with her after high school. I don't think that makes me a bad person.
A lesson that drinking and driving drugs never ends well. Your fortunate to have a sympathetic boyfriend but next time when you have a curfew, do not drink at all.
Slobber isn't semen….
He's way too selfish to kill himself he's manipulating you.
You indicated that “you decided to go to the bar with your bf and his friends”… So did he have plans with his buddies and you came along? If that's the case I think you might be completely wrong here. If he went along with you and your friends, would it be ok if he did this?
Like you and the girls are going to the mall and he tags along. Then you guys decide to stop at Starbucks to get your caffeine pregame on and he's like “you said we were going to the mall at noon”, but y'all are like “chill for sec, we're getting there”.. Then you guys get to the mall and all of a sudden he's like “Dude, service sucks here at Spencer's, let's head to Hot Topic” and you tell him we will in few, an argument ensues shortly after.. Then he just gets mad and Ubers home
If he didn't give you his jacket while waiting in line he's definitely kind of an AH though!
Also, in an action like this, the intent to scare someone is enough to be considered assault. If she reasonably feared she would be hurt, which seems obviously did given the jumping up and pretending to hit, then that’s assault even if you don’t actually make physical contact.
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I'm dying 🙂 That shit's hilarious.
We did basically everything that makes someone a part of a relationship and, at least till last weekend, that's what I thought we were in: a relationship.
This is what we call a “situationship” you never once asked her to be your girlfriend nor did either of you have the relationship talk. Sarah is/was right you are just friends.
Ok, I believe that's not what you meant.
Yes, I did read the post and disagreed with it as well.
To a specific coworkers house that's been a concern? Odds are slim.
Still… phone support from your partner when you have a shock is better than nothing. You don’t live there, so phone support is the best you can do. I’m sure she knows that.
Hopefully the worst won’t happen anyway. Not every scummy creep puts the photos on the internet. And even if he did, they might not go viral and be seen by her friends or family or work colleagues.
But she deserves to be warned about the possibility, and comforted by her bf over the phone from far away.
Because that’s literally what he should do. He doesn’t deserve, respect or even love her.
Your boy is very immature. The language he uses to you SHOULD be unacceptable to you. I would suggest you make this communication a hill to die on.
Your sister’s role in all of this is very suspicious. Is she often jealous of you, or do you regularly have conflicts? Does she tell other people untrue things about you, or just your boyfriend?
Didn't want to spoil her birthday discussing it on the day she was in a generally happy mood went out for a nice meal ect she seemed happy.
She shouldn't be pushing at all.
Thanks for the reminder about anger, or just heightened emotions. That's why I came here first.
I was thinking the same thing about her not being ready — but she was the one who proposed it, and then excitedly told all of her friends in the first week. I was content to keep waiting for her since we were already exclusive anyway.
So, he's being a petulant jealous little b*%*tch because you've found something that gives you joy. Can you tell him to grow the f up, in no uncertain terms? Defend your future and demand respect for your profession! Don't back down. It matters. You matter and your expression of that joy matters.
His thoughts about it are solely his own and did you ask him for his opinion? I'm so happy and I chirped for you as well! Congrats on finding a skill that gives you joy, satisfaction and pride. You're may be yet one of the privileged few who loves what they do so it never feels like a job!
adults in long-term relationships usually don’t have close friends of opposite sexes
This is a sad bubble you've found yourself in if this is true in your social circles
Look. Sometimes cheaters can be forgiven and you can repair things – it’s an unpopular opinion (for good reason) but it does happen.
HOWEVER. Usually in these cases there are mitigating circumstances – chronic stress or problems that neither individual caused and someone cracks. New jobs etc making someone feel neglected. Substance abuse, all sorts of things. But again, usually the cheating itself is a one night mistake after drinking too much or feeling low – and the cheater feels just as crushed as their partner they betrayed. Even despite all this, there is no guarantee someone will be able to forgive and move on, but it can happen.
But a six month long concealed affair? While you were ENGAGED??? No. This was never going to be reconciled – she does not respect you, you are just the safe option. I’m sorry if this sounds harsh but honestly OP you are just setting yourself up to be walked all over and used. Get out of there, heal, enjoy your life as a single person, and then one day find someone who actually loves you and will treat you as a priority
You are a bitch.
He does not contribute anything. Overall, it's a net loss for him to live there. And now you're implying you do most of the housework.
Seriously, this is not worth ANOTHER conversation. It's time to start the eviction process.
Dude, he asked her out, how many dates have you gone on that you never had a 2nd date with?
He didn't declare his undying love and live long fealty to her, he asked her out, that's all. Not a single commitment was made, for all she knew the date could suck and it was a one and done date.
Wtf is it with this irrational assertion that if you agree to go on a first date you know can't even look at another
Sounds like he has porn induced erectile dysfunction. Healthy porn use is one thing, but to the point that it interferes with the inability to perform in bed it’s probably time for him to reevaluate his porn consumption. And your sexual relationship to be honest. It takes heavy porn consumption for this to happen, so for him to equate this as equal to a vibrator would only be fair if you were blasting yourself multiple times a day for years on end.
It’s also not fair because only about 30-50% of women can actually orgasm through sex, so it’s not the same. Some women can only orgasm with a vibrator and that is of no consequence of their own. Men on the other hand can become their own worst enemies.
It wasn’t your name. That’s what matters.
Bro you are deep in denial and I don't mean de river.
That's a bit unfair. None of us know what came first and we can't tell from the post. I have been in extremely controlling relationships where, instead of standing up for myself and getting out – I have ended up telling really stupid lies to avoid the abuse that came from telling the truth. Not saying it's good but it happens. Once I had to lie about going to work (I said I hasn't)!
Each of us has been in opposite situations. We don't know what this one is but I can't assume it's the same as mine anymore than you can.
What IS clear is this marriage isn't working.
He was doing the same thing tho, and four times over! If you were not exclusive, there is no cheating.
Now he broke up with you and slept with someone else to get back at you? Man's trash, let him stay gone.
Lol okay well there’s a reason why I’m asking advice . Please don’t belittle me !
This!! I am a literal giant whale rn. Pregnant almst 9 months and i still get cat called and harrased which is the weirdest shit to me because i feel like a damn led balloon. My husband is the worlds most protective dude i feel so bad for anyone that will try to do this shit to our daughter when hes around but he's never ever tried to tell me what to wear.
He's the weirdo that encourages me to wear things i feel insecure about because i dont think I'm pretty or skinny enough to wear anymore. Like sundresses. I've been dressing like a damn overweight dad for most of my pregnancy. And he constantly tells me I'm just pregnant i shouldnt be so hard on myself and my body because I'm carrying a whole human.
And he's a sweetheart. This is the kind of dude u want OP. One that tells you you are beautiful while laughing at you when ur stuffing your face with cream puffs at 3am!
He's a far cry from who i dated before… trust me.. that's the kind of guy your bf is.. the opposite of this…
End this relationship.
He is not being respectful to your needs andd you are being physically abusive toward him.
No one should be leaving bruises on their partners without their expressed affirmative consent. If you're lashing out physically because the two of you are not communicating verbally – then you need to end this.
Literally every new thing you said was another red flag. There’s honestly not a thing you said about this guy that’s not a red flag. He’s a red flag parade you need to run away from.
He’s trying to control you and isolate you and is trying to mess with your birth control. All hallmarks of an abusive partner.
The problem with the nickname is you may call him that, but everyone he knew before you will likely still use his old name so you will be triggered. So, definitely therapy.
I’ve been reading posts on this app trying to get to understand him because he asked me to it. but he fails to see how this affects me, and refuses to. I thought there could be a “we” in this matter for us to fix. I guess not. Thank you for your comment 🙁
2 to 3 times a night?? Farrrkkkk that. Roll over tell him to quit it or head to the bathroom. If he needs to get one off. But stop waking you up. Tell him you are sleeping on the couch if he is going to keep going at it. But just be blunt. If you are uncomfortable talking about sexual acts you shouldn't be sleeping together.
How was he an idiot – he didn't do anything wrong?!
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