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I would tell her. “Hey, on XX/XX/22 I slept with so-and-so who was my ex at the time. I did not know you were together until afterwards. He told me afterwards and specifically asked me not to tell you, and that made me uncomfortable so I am telling you now. Me and him were over at that point and are still over, so I am only sharing that information as I would want to know if it were me.”
Yes, it's true, you don't have to tell her / you don't owe her. But if it's weighing on you, I think you should do it. It would be nice for her to have that info. If you don't want to be involved in the aftermath, you can block both her and the guy. But if it were me, I think I would just block the guy and stay in contact with the girl in case she had follow up questions.
You didn't do anything wrong. You haven't done anything wrong. It's REALLLYYYYYY SHITTY for him to put this on you as if he's not the one who cheated. I also suspect this is him testing your ability to keep secrets for him – like if he messages you again after he's in the relationship, will you keep that secret too? You need to stop messing with this man immediately.
I know but it’s just hard because I do genuinely love him and have a connection with him. I’m a pretty weird person and he’s the only person I’ve met who accepts everything about me :/
I am not from the US either (i'm from europe), do you think that the opinion abrut age gap may be a cultural question?
She's never met them. They are strangers. Most are probably married or loosers.
She's enjoying the attention from multiple men. However, the sad part is it's not real.
She sounds like someone with incredibly low self esteem and an insatiable desire for attention from men.
At 25yo she should be past this behavior. I suggest She's not life partner material.
You can't change her and love is not a solid reason to tolerate emotional abuse.
Ultimatums don't work long term. Don't settle. You deserve a better partner.
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Abusers don't change. They promise they will but they don't. They escalate instead.
It's all going to be OK. He's three so he will settle into his routine without you soon and going around to see him would just make the break up harder for everyone… including him.
It's likely your ex got him worked up before the video. She wants you to feel guilty for ending things and you shouldn't. He deserves to grow up in a home where a healthy and loving relationship is modeled and if it was going to be a healthy and loving relationship you'd still be there
This was my thought too. He sees her as a walking womb, not a life partner. What a horrible relationship to settle for.
He's disrespectful and crossing your boundaries!
Are you afraid to tell him coz he'll contact your ex husband and try to ruin the relationship?
Set him free. The tighter you hold on, the more likely he’s going resent you. Divorce while it’s amicable. It’s you who is using your children as weapons. Grow up.
Yep. This is a similar story, only fast forward a few years in the future. This is also clearly the worst fear of that father, who, if I recall correctly, got pilloried.
First few months is still the audition phase. He failed spectacularly. If you need to “heal” from a relationship that new, then it's not the right relationship. Move on.
It's a cake and eat it too shituationship. What would you say to a friend that you cared about very much if she was in the same situation? Would you tell her that as much as it hurts to walk away and block this guy, that she has a better future in front of her, possibly with someone who care about her and makes her a priority instead of an option? How does his baby mama feel about it? Does she know? Will you be able to be a part of this life he wants to make for his children? Or forever on the sidelines?
Just be more specific and say you are covering the bill for her.
Just be more specific and say you are covering the bill for her.
This is a really disappointing question. I made myself clear in my original answer.
That’s an awesome way to say it, thank you. I appreciate your input
Surround yourself with people who aren't complete assholes.
You should have left as soon as they got weird. By staying, you co-signed their behavior