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Date: December 3, 2022
The fact that you felt the need to say she is being ridiculous is part of the issue.
She told you that she is uncomfortable with it. You need to correct it or find a middle ground. Maybe you don't text them but you still work out together. Maybe you have your wife meet them.
Calling her names isn't fixing the issue. It is fighting her. At this point it sounds like you decided talking to these other women and having a relationship (even friendship) is more important than having your wife be comfortable.
You are fighting her instead of resolving the issue. Listen. There is some underlying reason why she is uncomfortable. Even if she says she's not sure it just makes her uncomfortable, you need to respect that and correct. If you are not willing to stop doing something that she is uncomfortable with then you don't care enough about her.
How people handle situations when their partner tells them it makes them uncomfortable is very telling.
So I think the better balance is equity vs equality.
I don't need 1/2 a pizza I usually eat 1/4-1/3 so we split it in 1/2 and he eats whatever I can't once I'm done. Same with the house work. I do the things I can and ask for help with the others based on energy and physical limitations a given week (I've got a few disabilities that make things difficult at times). Stairs are hard for me so he does the laundry but I collect, sort, and fold it when it's done. We used to split bills based on income when I was working (I'm in school now so we'll go back to that again when I'm working again). So for an easy example, if he makes 50,000 and I make 25,000 he pays 2/3 and I pay 1/3. He still has more money left over when we are done with bills but I'm not left with pennies while he's left with dollars like it would be if we just split everything 50/50. I help diagnose the issues with the cars because my dad's a mechanic and I've picked stuff up over time. I also find, order, and pick up the parts from the store, but he does the manual labor part with help when he needs it. I still try to do most of the stuff on my car myself if I can, if I can't he has no issue doing it for me even if I normally do it myself.
We try to split work based on what we each excel at and what the other has limitations of. I handle money much better than he does and so even with his money I used to help manage (before we ever got married) because it's easier for me than it is for him. I've handled the health insurance, 401k contributions, and savings choices for years before we got married. He still gets a say and I make sure he understands it but he doesn't manage those things because its just not his strength.
Perfect 50/50 would mean we each do our own laundry. It would be harder for me and a much larger burden. What he needs help with and what I need help with are very different things so we complement each other and play to each other's strengths.
Ugh, you can divorce your charity porn, attention seeking wife. People who form acts of charity for clout are the worst.
I’m the only one who checks the Roth and checking accounts. I pay all of the bills she never checks them
Date out
I think this is the question OP you haven't defined what explicit content he is accessing. Is he using a lesbian orientated pornographic website to watch videos and have 0 contact with any real people? Because that's just like watching porn hub, its business it isn't cheating. You can decide your own feelings about porn but for the girls on the other end this is business (as much as it can be, not a place to debate to porn industry).
Or is he using a lesbian dating site, chat rooms arc and asking innocent women for pictures after forming a connection. Because this is crossing a few lines and makes him a deeply horrible, creepy, perverse person. Doing this says something about him, he isn't just on a website for straight women looking to chat, he's specifically going after gay women. He's conning them, it's a power move. The reason I say that is because theres lots of straight cheating websites/forums/apps out there where he could probably get nudes from consenting women who are aware of the situation. If he's doing something like this, conning gay women, that's dark. It's part of why he's doing it.
So if it's the first, just chat to him about his porn habits, see if you can understand it. If it's the latter, you really need to ask yourself is this a good person or not.
Tell her you do not want to. Tell her you are happy with your relationship as it is. You do not want to sleep with another woman, and definitely do not want to be pressured into sleeping with another woman.
How would she feel if you chose a 5/6 bloke with kids that you pressured her to have sex with?
Even just oral sex with. Would she oblige you?
It's none of your wife's business what the friend does to get off, and given she's got kids she knows how to get some, if she wants it that badly.
You are not for hire.
I know a woman whose abusive boyfriend got her pregnant and threatened to kill her if she tried to get an abortion ? I know it's an extreme situation but it does happen
We don't have health care. So we don't have a pcp either. We are both self-employed and this last year wasn't so good to us.
I’m wondering if she perhaps was doing it out of love, like she felt she’s communicating with you and felt like she just got ridiculed for it? I can see both of your points because I’d also just prefer a text, but I mean… she likes you and wants to hear your voice. I think you could have worded it better to come off a little gentler, like “I am always excited when you come over, and of course love hearing your voice on the phone saying you’re on your way. But sometimes it’s a bit repetitive when you call me three times, so do you think you could just shoot me a text next time?”
Shit friend. Nothing of value was lost.
well then therapy is the way to go. it won't get better until you work on it
Yea you dont compromise on kids unless both parties are 100% on the same page. Plus its her body that will go through all these changes she is the one gonna end up carrying it for 9 months
Holy crap grow a backbone. Take her off of your gym membership asap. Do whatever you want. Go wherever you want. You’re an adult so start acting like one. She’s a manipulative, guilt-tripping crazy person and you’ve wasted enough of your time and effort with her as it is. Ghost her. Block her. Move on. You deserve someone better than she’ll ever be. You shouldn’t have dated her in the first place. She clearly has too much baggage (a kid) and she’s nuts.
Do you want her locked up or something. Are you 14?
Exactly what I said. As far as his “problem” I’m not sure, it was about 4am and I work HVAC so we ended the convo so I could go to bed for a couple of hours. I’ll be asking when I get home though for sure
It's a few nights a year. That's another compromise. I'm guessing he wants to “compromise” down to nothing.
Ya, it all fell into place nicely didnt it? The mom calling, the coach. Him all of a sudden being affectionate.
It would be more believable to find out she caught a case of amnesia and forgot the last 12 months. Id watch that romcom.
I'm a woman in her 30s:
This makes me feel uneasy. You can't see I'd when you're young but there's a significant power dynamic difference between your ages.
She has her preferred method but you can also have yours too, luckily they are perfectly compatible! Wear condoms if you don’t want the joys of pregnancy.
Oof that’s a real swift kick in the nuts metaphorically but hurts just as much. There’s not much you can say or do right now. Give him space and let him come to you. For some this can actually be a dealbreaker so be prepared for that.
Lool you planning to give someone, that you daily break up, half your assets while going into marriage?
Sounds like suicide.
Yeah. I could see a well adjusted, rational guy wanting this type of test from whomever he was with. That's not outside the realm of possibility.
And that guy is not this guy!
I’d prepare for divorce. She’s pulling the “don’t worry about him, he’s harmless” maneuver and that opens things up for an emotional/physical affair. ?
This is a hill to die on and I really hope you guys don’t have kids.
Nah this dudes an asshole and is trying to use one minor mishap to manipulate you. Definitely leave
I knew he wasn't going to get any better; you can usually tell my the post when someone was a garbage can all along, but they had a mask at the beginning. Poor OP. So so thankful for her lovely discord friends, and that she got out.
Imagine being a useless baby AND violent. That guy is a huge loser
Won't let you?
I can tell my wife what I like, what I think suits her, make suggestions but I never have the right to tell her what she can and cannot do with her hair.
I’m confused. Is this your boyfriend? You are describing your father. I’m wondering which one this guy is.
He does see a therapist and he has gotton super far with his depression, but over 4 years, still not far enough to make me feel desired
There's a good chance that's she's exploring her options??…may be she's going on a few other dates as well, but don't want to completely drop you and tether you along to see which one suits her requirements??
May be??