It's really awful to compromise one's personal values because of any sort of relationship. It's really good that you have noticed this and I encourage you to voice this concern to all of them. If they still don't get it please try to seek outside help
She dumped you because you came off as an ass. I've worked jobs where I was driving across country working 80+ hours a week and I still found time to text. You couldn't be bothered to respond for 2 whole days after she told you she didn't want to just have sex? ? she deserves better.
I was definitely immature and I have really worked on myself. Seeing how much hurt I caused was a wakeup moment to learn about consequences and truly hurting someone I cared for. I don't see myself ever doing it again. It is something that causes me shame when I think back on it tho. And lying to my new partner feels like I'm hiding by omission. I think I may be overthinking it too maybe. It was 10 years ago. I'm a different person. I don't want to lose a great future because of my stupid past. I want to do right by him
Sounds like you need to be single to learn to love yourself. If you don't love yourself will always settle for someone that mistreats you simply for sake of not being single. You are setting yourself up for a lifetime of misery if you don't right the ship.
These are questions you should be asking your sponsor, and other folks in recovery. If you’re only a few months in, the answer is going to be no, you need to leave these people alone for now. Stop bothering them. Focus on you and fixing yourself. It sounds like that will be a full-time job.
I question your recovery, since you don’t seem to understand anything about what making amends should involve.
Sounds like a trust issue. People can view sex in their own way.
It's really awful to compromise one's personal values because of any sort of relationship. It's really good that you have noticed this and I encourage you to voice this concern to all of them. If they still don't get it please try to seek outside help
I’ve cheated with my mom and dad.
She dumped you because you came off as an ass. I've worked jobs where I was driving across country working 80+ hours a week and I still found time to text. You couldn't be bothered to respond for 2 whole days after she told you she didn't want to just have sex? ? she deserves better.
I was definitely immature and I have really worked on myself. Seeing how much hurt I caused was a wakeup moment to learn about consequences and truly hurting someone I cared for. I don't see myself ever doing it again. It is something that causes me shame when I think back on it tho. And lying to my new partner feels like I'm hiding by omission. I think I may be overthinking it too maybe. It was 10 years ago. I'm a different person. I don't want to lose a great future because of my stupid past. I want to do right by him
You can choose not to date someone for absolutely any reason.
7 billion people on this planet, hoes (male and female) are everywhere like rats roaches and ants. Some need to be stepped on.
You waited years to introduce your children to friends? Cautious little one, aren’t you?
Always lead with kindness. You’ll feel better about yourself in the long run.
It's 40 fucking days. Y'all behaving as if she said for life
Sounds like you need to be single to learn to love yourself. If you don't love yourself will always settle for someone that mistreats you simply for sake of not being single. You are setting yourself up for a lifetime of misery if you don't right the ship.
These are questions you should be asking your sponsor, and other folks in recovery. If you’re only a few months in, the answer is going to be no, you need to leave these people alone for now. Stop bothering them. Focus on you and fixing yourself. It sounds like that will be a full-time job.
I question your recovery, since you don’t seem to understand anything about what making amends should involve.
Jfc get your head out of your ass. This man is dangerous. You need to leave.
Are you sure she's not using the wrong term for “sleep avoidance”