He’s read Reddit. Like how many posts do you see especially on this subreddit where a woman passes gas and the man gets pissed, and all of Reddit tells the woman to dump the POS who judges her for farting.
OP has PTSD from those threads and now has to overcompensate by putting himself down before we do.
Yeah no one likes to be just grabbed. Ask her to try testing if you're open to this kind of touch is a more subtle way first, like kissing your neck, rubbing your back or arms, something less aggressive. She would probably not appreciate just being grabbed by the vag all the time.
His main concern is putting his p in your v, not your friendship. If he can’t respect your needs then he probably shouldn’t be your fwb or friend in general.
I agree with you. I don't want him to be my therapist at all, but I'm also not comfortable with him saying he will never give me any emotional support ever either.
On that note, you don’t HAVE to keep it a secret from friends and family. Of course you know your personal preferences and how people close to you will respond, but I just wanted to say that because there’s a lot of stigmatization around pregnancy and when/what you should tell people. But absolutely it is you guys’ choice what to share!
You need therapy. You're clinging on to a toxic and unhealthy relationship because you're afraid of disappointing your dad?
Seriously, this is not ok. This is not normal or healthy.
I'm not a professional, but I'm guessing you don't have a healthy relationship with your dad or didn't form a healthy attachment style in childhood.
You deserve better and your happiness should not be contingent on impressing your father. He sounds like a piece of shit for becoming besties with his daughters old ass bum boyfriend.
Leave and get into therapy. Date you and figure out who you are and why you are attracted to toxic relationships. If you were my daughter I'd cry for you. You deserve better.
Always lead with kindness. You’ll feel better about yourself in the long run.
Always lead with kindness. You’ll feel better about yourself in the long run.
He’s read Reddit. Like how many posts do you see especially on this subreddit where a woman passes gas and the man gets pissed, and all of Reddit tells the woman to dump the POS who judges her for farting.
OP has PTSD from those threads and now has to overcompensate by putting himself down before we do.
Reddit HURTS PEOPLE (okay /s to this part)
Yeah no one likes to be just grabbed. Ask her to try testing if you're open to this kind of touch is a more subtle way first, like kissing your neck, rubbing your back or arms, something less aggressive. She would probably not appreciate just being grabbed by the vag all the time.
This shit is happening exactly because they are young.
His main concern is putting his p in your v, not your friendship. If he can’t respect your needs then he probably shouldn’t be your fwb or friend in general.
I agree with you. I don't want him to be my therapist at all, but I'm also not comfortable with him saying he will never give me any emotional support ever either.
On that note, you don’t HAVE to keep it a secret from friends and family. Of course you know your personal preferences and how people close to you will respond, but I just wanted to say that because there’s a lot of stigmatization around pregnancy and when/what you should tell people. But absolutely it is you guys’ choice what to share!
This is pretty comical lol
You need therapy. You're clinging on to a toxic and unhealthy relationship because you're afraid of disappointing your dad?
Seriously, this is not ok. This is not normal or healthy.
I'm not a professional, but I'm guessing you don't have a healthy relationship with your dad or didn't form a healthy attachment style in childhood.
You deserve better and your happiness should not be contingent on impressing your father. He sounds like a piece of shit for becoming besties with his daughters old ass bum boyfriend.
Leave and get into therapy. Date you and figure out who you are and why you are attracted to toxic relationships. If you were my daughter I'd cry for you. You deserve better.