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Date: October 13, 2022
Thank you for the reply.
The issue seems to be stemming from the fact that we have been in the same friends group years. Way before we started dating and ended up in a committed relationship.
So he knows who I've been with and their “reputation” and he's heard me talk about sex and sex preferences in the past.
I just don't understand why it's coming up now after a year? Why not at the beginning?
I'm not married but here's what I do in my current relationship.
Practice self care. If you are happy then that will spill over into your relationship. Spend time for yourself. Get a massage, your nails done, spend a day in bed, etc.
Use softer emotions. To me, anger isn't typically the base emotion. There is something under that (sadness, betrayal, jealousy, embarrassment, hurt, etc. ) but anger is usually easier to express compared to the softer emotions. It is less vulnerable. Try to express the why compared to anger. Say things like I feel… It took me a lot of practice but it comes naturally now.
It's okay to say you need a second during a disagreement. It's okay to take time to collect your thoughts. It's okay to take time to figure out how you feel so you can express the softer emotions.
It's okay to let your partner know XX happened today, so I'll be more short or I'll need more space.
Never get into anything important if basic needs are not met. You guys are not tired, hungry, thirsty. You feel alright.
Stay away from you always, or you never.
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You're worth more than that, my man. Cut your losses here, the only day you're wasting is tomorrow.
So anyone on here can give you their opinion formed by their own experiences and biases but only you know what the dynamic is like between you and your fiance and his dynamic with this specific person. In my experience your intuition about these things is usually correct. Even if there's nothing going on with this person it seems like you know your fiance well enough to know the signs of him having a wandering eye. That being said, I don't think it's necessarily a “bad” thing in and of itself. Imo it's natural for you and your partner to develop crushes in a ltr. Being in a monogamous relationship is a conscious choice, and it doesn't mean you don't find other people attractive. What I think is important is that you and your fiancé create space for honesty in your relationship. Getting mad at him isn't going to change any feelings he may have and could end up creating a self fulfilling prophecy by driving him away. It also gives him no incentive to be honest with you. I think if you and your fiancé respect each other as complex human beings and accept each other's perception of reality you can more easily get to the root of the issue. Consider whether you only care for him in relation to yourself or if you care for him as an individual human being holistically. You don't have to like his truth, but you have to accept his truth and accept that only he can determine what that is. It can upset you, but if you want to continue your relationship there's no point in acting on your emotions in a manner that pushes him away. Your emotions are yours to process. He needs to fully realize these things about you as well and consider you in kind. Once everything is laid out on the table you decide what you're comfortable with, if you need to set a boundary, if you have room for compromise. He has no obligation to agree with you, but if he doesn't and won't respect your boundaries or compromise I don't see how you can go forward in your relationship. Same vice versa. However, he can have a crush and still choose you and you can still choose him even if he has a crush. Truly knowing and accepting your partner can create profound intimacy that deepens your relationship. And with that added depth and understanding in the relationship you may both want to choose each other even more. I wish you the best through this tough situation 🙂
I have a full brother and a half brother, and people often think I'm the half or step sibling, due to the brothers being 6″2 and dirty blonde and similar in looks, then there's me who is significantly shorter and dark haired lol.
It’s his loss. ❤️
If that’s the case, maybe hold off of the kink questions until later on? You raised the issue, if I was her I’d be thinking that you bringing this topic up and sharing your kinks meant you would expect me to do them with you and soon.
While you probably couldn’t consent to what happened, to be honest, you put yourself in that position to a certain degree, you kept drinking.
Best of luck ❤️
I love surprises, but I don’t want to be freaking blindsided by them.
My job is really difficult and demanding right now, and my household also cannot afford to lose a penny of wages. My husband would plan something like by saying, “Can you get the afternoon of X Date off? I’ve got a surprise planned!” That would allow me to take paid leave AND plan my workload around it.
If my husband had walked into my office yesterday afternoon and said, “Surprise! Pack your shit, we’re leaving!”, I would’ve burst into tears, too. I had a deadline I was frantically working on that even my manager wouldn’t have really known about, because I’m the sole person in charge of what I’m doing and am the only one who knows the day-to-day workload and deadlines that I have to set for myself. Nobody but me can tell you if any given afternoon is going to be okay for me to take off at last minute or not.
Idk this whole thing seems really pushy and overbearing, and OP seems to only be focused on his feelings, all pissy that his GF is “ungrateful” and expecting an apology for her crying and getting upset, etc. I’m not impressed or particularly sympathetic.
Giving the facts. Maybe it could be 15 years though. Depends on the state/jurisdiction and judge on that day.
“Tell your friend , I think his wife is gay.” -Rachel Green.
People are diverse. They have a wide variety of values, strengths, character flaws, etc.
That doesn’t mean you’re alone. There are lots of people in the world, so many of them share your values, too. But projecting those narratives onto everyone prevents you from seeing people as they really are. When you let go of that, you’ll gain a better understanding of the people around you. And probably yourself, too.
Thank you for the response!
No socials either, that doesn't bother me because I also don't post on Instagram. I do make tik toks (my own red flag ig lol) and he would send me my own videos to comment and I asked why he wouldn't just comment that on the tik tok itself and he started doing that at least.
Basically people in school would stalk him and harass anyone he was with and that's the main reason. I know how bad it can be to get over these traumas and that's why I always had patience but it has become really unbearable.
I know we see a little of everything these days (like people having complete separate lives for years) but I truly know this isn't a side piece situation. However it doesn't matter since it's still a big disrespect and lack of consideration.
I'm standing my ground right now, thank you for the words!
Yikes he is manipulating the fuck out of you and you’re falling for it. He is incapable of actually caring for you and will only do things to benefit himself. He cannot love or empathize with you and he cannot feel remorse. Are you seriously being convinced to go no contact with your mom because a guy diagnosed as essentially a psychopath is telling you he’s the good one? Really? Girl
Lol. So how exactly does woke fit into this conversation to you?
Also, clothes aren’t a small thing. They’re something you wear literally every single day to express yourself and make you feel good about how you look. You’re so young, take the dress and find someone who will love you no matter what you wear
And also, communicate clearly that if he posts anything else ever again, your lawyer will have him. Because he doesn't sound like a nice person ar all but sounds more like someone to post revenge porn. Just a feeling I have.
He is not going to want to be invited that way. At least I wouldn’t. I think I’d be looking for a new room mate.