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Model from: za
Languages: en,nl
Birth Date: 1993-05-11
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Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
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Date: October 26, 2022
You aren't making the time. But it gets easier, children grow up fast.
Wow, a 15 month old and a 3 year old… come on – you are both running an exclusive restaurant for two of the fussiest and most difficult customers in the world, and they never leave.
Your work hours are of course shutting down most random activity. I can relate to that.
No details required, but when was the last time you dressed up – like the full hot-girl make up and cheeky hold-ups and push-up bra and all the things men lose their minds over?
I don't mean to be crude but men are shallow, mostly, and a surprise steak and blow-job night when you have arranged babysitting for the little ones might be a cool thing to do.
Even if it doesn't end in sex, it's a radical thing for a woman to remind their man just how awesome they are, and how your persona is not now default “mom-mode” but that you are also a wicked good lover, and you need to express your sexuality.
Intimidate him with your awesomeness and elegant ways. He might have forgotten them.
And maybe you can then arrange something regular, where you can take a break from that stressful restaurant life, and just hook up, like it's an affair. Make it fun. Get away from the home/restaurant for a bit. Go someplace where nobody knows either of you.
Make it sexy, and the rest will happen naturally.
Are you more mature now or when you were 19
She did and she's lying and gaslighting you about it. So what else is she willing to lie to you about?
You are most welcome ? Happy Friday
Okay. His problem is you ignore him but when you try to open communication with him, he tells you to figure it out alone.
The problem is this isn't a problem you can solve alone. The problem is his need for attention not being met, but then he rejects your attempts to solve it in the most petulant way.
It's a feedback loop and you literally cannot solve it without him.
Both of you need to change behavior. Not just one of you. It's okay for him to be upset. It isn't okay for him to throw a tantrum.
You spelled “ex-boyfriend” wrong. That is all.
Accept the fact that she is this way . Love her . Hug her . No reason why you can't try to work it out so that she can be who she truly is . Share , if you can . If you can't , move on .
I see what you mean. I guess it's because I associate Reddit with hobbies and special interests, so it was a bit jarring to me. You're probably right though.
Be honest, be yourself, have fun and make sure to not lose yourself in the relationship. If you don't feel comfortable, trust your gut. Don't exchange nudes. Don't set unreasonable expectations.
And your entire response is about how you feel?
You do understand that this impact her life as well, yes? Dumbass.
Yup. Probably does lol at this point I have no idea why your continuing this conversation but I’ll bite
Girl I hope you keep us updated
Ask your mum.
Reaction could go either way.
And often on reddit you would see it’s the ones accusing all the time that are cheating.
My neighbor makes and sells expensive shoes and was lamenting that she needs more feet than just hers in her pictures.
“Do you have nice feet?” Sees my raised blue veiny feet
“Oh…”
Do these steps. Break up with her and get tested. If you want tell your parents or what party's matter what she did because if she did it to you she well do it again.
I'm not sure if the gender part is sarcastic, I'm pretty sure that she is a woman.
About the catfishing part, I have to talk with her.
You reap what you sow. Why the hell would you think he would invite your AP to his wedding, he's already told you he doesn't want to know anything about her or her family. She will never be welcome in his life or his children's lives. You just have to deal with it, you are lucky he has even invited you.
Yea this is way too fast especially when you haven't properly healed from a bad relationship and.to jump into a new one not even a month later sorry but thats bad news … also you barley know this person you both need to.take a step back and reevaluate..hang out less talk less give this time ..and if something feels too good to be true it probably is ..love you after only.a.few weeks.feels like love bombing to me
I might have just figured it out.
Maybe say we’re planning a going away party for Daisy and all the people who helped take care of her and if she wanted to donate to that we would very much appreciate it, but if not no worries
It actually is – you should read descriptions from people who've been through it – it's really scary, in bad cases, people are completely detached from reality and can have delusions that lead to abusive and violent behavior. Like the delusion that their spouse or child has been replaced by an imposter/ robot.
Him threatening to break up with you should tell you everything you need to know about him. Get the abortion, dump him. Date someone that you are aligned with on important issues like this.
Yeah it’s really unfortunate. Thank you for your input.
Yup, after my divorce I went through several of them. They started that bs and I was gone. I always say if a man really wants to see his kids, there’s not a woman in this world who can stop them! And if ALL their exes are “crazy,” they’re the common denominator!
Wow. Does she have any emotions for anyone other than herself. You lost your grandmother too here. Imagine when it’s one of your parents and you are the one beyond devastated. Will she be like get over it because I need attention. You need to really take a hard look here and decide is this the relationship you want. And know this those true colors shining through.
You're right. It's not. But you also need to realize that this isn't her parents getting in the way; this is her choosing to not see you ever.
I totally expect some rules to be broken. I mean, we survived almost a year without any rules and we still talk to each other, so to just be able to voice out loud some rules is an improvement. I don't care if at some point I come home and find she didn't wash the dishes – I just don't want this to happen every single day.
I would like for it to play out that way too, but I truly don't think he realizes how serious it is for me. After that happened, I didn't hang around him much and I was mostly with our other friends who were also there. He has sent me regular text messages as if nothing happened and I haven't said anything back to him.
Well, thanks for sharing. I’m happy for you both. My wife fully supports me currently and it has not been an issue at all.
I agree with you but I think you're wasting your time with this guy. He came here looking for validation from people and is upset that not everyone takes his side. I highly doubt he agrees with “99.9%” of what his gf believes because if he did, he wouldn't be here trying to get strangers to back-up his behavior. If he agreed with her views/opinions, then there would be no need to come to reddit because he would understand *why* he agreed with them. He is feeling sorry for himself because his gf lumped him in with “all men” and he “isn't like all men” in his mind. Now he wants us to take his side so he can show his gf and make her feel bad. Zzzzzzz
He obviously thought that you were exclusive FWBs and now his whole perception is thrown off. It's likely that he now believes that you don't place any value in him or the relationship that you have. He thought that you liked him and now he's not sure. It's also likely that he likes you more than friends and you sleeping with other men is now a sudden problem.
Thank you for your unbiased input. I’ll think on this some more. I’ve just been in very controlling relationships in the past so it could be me try to be overprotective of myself.
What you should do is stop playing teenage games. You are both old enough to be beyond this shit.
Block him and move on. Why are you playing mind games with someone that said they don't want you?
Same. 50 year old male and have been to dozens of weddings. Never knew this and honestly don’t remember what anyone was wearing at any of the ones I attended. Except my wife at our wedding.
Sorry for rainin on your parade.
But your description gives me the feeling that we don't know the entire story.
Obviously OP is in Denmark. Which is no random underdevelopped country, hospital wise.
But THE European country with THE no. 1 healthcare system.
Even providing free of charge hospital care and operations. Highly skilled medical staff.
That's for one. We can't check if there IS an actual NEED to go to the UK.
Or if OP is just seeing a UK chirurgist as his only possible savior. Where in fact he could have gotten his intervention without having to travel at all.
Next thing: OP states, she is supposed to come over. For just one day.
As if his intervention could be done in just one day?
That's not possible. Flying involves the risk of blood clotting in your leg veins.
No way a chirurgist gets people operated on the day they fly in! And let them leave the same day.
When it's an operation supposed to enable a non walking OP to walk back on his way home.
Also: there are specialised flight attendants seeing people in wheelchairs on and off airplaines.
So what the heck would OPs girlfriends role be? Donkey? Nurse? What?
There seems to be quite a big part of the story OP hasn't told us.
i got therapy tomorrow after work ? we did start dating when i was 16, my friends all warned me about him but i was very dumb and thought it would be fine. obviously not all things considered.