You shouldn't be upset. You know he's a cheater and if you follow him it will add stress to his dating life. You want to be with him so respect his boundaries whilst he tries to find his wife.
You're the one choosing to be with him, this is the man you're with. Stop expecting him to change, he's not interested.
Rent a small studio for your jam session or look on the internet in your area for bars or session time that allows people to rent by the hour. Go to the park to read and draw and paint and anything else you like to do. You don't have to give up of yourself and your passions…just find a way to work for you. If you don't it can cause you depression so please find a way to be yourself while in a relationship.
I think it's clear you establish boundaries that you want to work and don't want to be a SAHM. If he wants a housewife then it's clear you're not the one for him.
You shouldn't be upset. You know he's a cheater and if you follow him it will add stress to his dating life. You want to be with him so respect his boundaries whilst he tries to find his wife.
You're the one choosing to be with him, this is the man you're with. Stop expecting him to change, he's not interested.
If he leaves it, you'll clean it.
To me it sounds like his whole “stew” thing is just laziness.
It's incredibly disgusting, unapologetically selfish to others, and disrespectful.
Rent a small studio for your jam session or look on the internet in your area for bars or session time that allows people to rent by the hour. Go to the park to read and draw and paint and anything else you like to do. You don't have to give up of yourself and your passions…just find a way to work for you. If you don't it can cause you depression so please find a way to be yourself while in a relationship.
OP she cheated on you. If you stay with her, don’t be surprised when she does it again.
This. Use your doctor as the excuse. You're the priority here.
I think it's clear you establish boundaries that you want to work and don't want to be a SAHM. If he wants a housewife then it's clear you're not the one for him.