As I explained in the comment you replied to, the thing about the police was silly and over the top. I regret writing that in my original post because it has derailed the comments. To reiterate: there has never been ANY kind of issue between us that would come even close to requiring the police to be called. I should have been more careful in my commenting.
Regarding “apologize for your reaction” and “misspoke” – what are you referring to?
If you don’t wanna get back together then be stern and tell her you don’t care about the book and don’t wanna meet her. Then block contact. It will save you from a world of pain.
Maybe I don't get the context, but to me it sounds quite vague. You could say “great, then we can cuddle more than watch the show” but that will make you seem uninterested in the show, which can be a turnoff.
Just continue meeting her and if you get the feeling she is ok with more touch, try it carefully (get the hints when she doesnt want to). If she is not so open to touch or too hard to read, you can ask. “Aww this episode is so romantic. Makes me want to hold your hand. Can I?”
(Writing this as a separate reply since my initial reply would become too long and this is more towards your first point)
I think the context of what your expectations are as a result matter.
That’s just the thing, I don’t HAVE expectations that I feel are reasonable to ask of him. Like, I’m not going to ask him to be glued to his phone just for my sake, ya know? I could mention that I’d appreciate a “I’ll be checking my phone later” text beforehand but I don’t see a need to be militant with it because I think that would be super unreasonable of me, and probably wouldn’t make me feel better at all.
Or keep fighting and waiting even if that take me more stressed day after day and suffring
It sounds like you already know the answer! No matter how great this person is, no relationship is wroth constant stress and “suffering,” relationships are supposed to be fun!
It's ok but the truth is you are not compatible because of the distance. Long distance relationships with no end in site tend not to work for reasons you clearly know!
As I explained in the comment you replied to, the thing about the police was silly and over the top. I regret writing that in my original post because it has derailed the comments. To reiterate: there has never been ANY kind of issue between us that would come even close to requiring the police to be called. I should have been more careful in my commenting.
Regarding “apologize for your reaction” and “misspoke” – what are you referring to?
Lol
Be blunt – and set flight alerts to save for the next trip.
If you don’t wanna get back together then be stern and tell her you don’t care about the book and don’t wanna meet her. Then block contact. It will save you from a world of pain.
Why do you feel weird about this….?
IUI is often not an option for male factor infertility.
What do you want to tell her by that?
Maybe I don't get the context, but to me it sounds quite vague. You could say “great, then we can cuddle more than watch the show” but that will make you seem uninterested in the show, which can be a turnoff.
Just continue meeting her and if you get the feeling she is ok with more touch, try it carefully (get the hints when she doesnt want to). If she is not so open to touch or too hard to read, you can ask. “Aww this episode is so romantic. Makes me want to hold your hand. Can I?”
She’s cheating, I’m sorry man.
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(Writing this as a separate reply since my initial reply would become too long and this is more towards your first point)
I think the context of what your expectations are as a result matter.
That’s just the thing, I don’t HAVE expectations that I feel are reasonable to ask of him. Like, I’m not going to ask him to be glued to his phone just for my sake, ya know? I could mention that I’d appreciate a “I’ll be checking my phone later” text beforehand but I don’t see a need to be militant with it because I think that would be super unreasonable of me, and probably wouldn’t make me feel better at all.
We as in my family at my family’s house. Not her dog nor does she live with us.
Or keep fighting and waiting even if that take me more stressed day after day and suffring
It sounds like you already know the answer! No matter how great this person is, no relationship is wroth constant stress and “suffering,” relationships are supposed to be fun!
It's ok but the truth is you are not compatible because of the distance. Long distance relationships with no end in site tend not to work for reasons you clearly know!