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Date: December 12, 2022
Why does it feel like there’s a lot of communication and…stuff going on between the other three, and not you?
That’s a really bad sign.
You say, “Tell me I'm not trippin' or is that a load of bullshit?” It is a load of bullshit. As you know, deep down. I don't remember is a classic cop out. You still aren't getting the whole story. For your relationship to continue, your wife will have to be totally truthful and open. And trust will take a long time to rebuild, maybe years. If you decide it's worth it. I think I'd move along, though I'm not in your shoes right now. I have been, and didn't, and regretted that I didn't (move along). Best wishes to you.
We don't know the full story. For example OP didn't told us if they use protection of any kind. If he nuts inside her on regular basis I don't know what are his expectations.
It's because there's deep-seated misogyny and when a culture doesn't value girls as much as boys, you end up with daughters treated like servants or second mothers while the boys get to stay boys until basically the parents die.
I can't believe my depression convinced me that wanting to die was part of capitalism.
My best friend is a man and I truly love him. I love the person he is and his empathy and compassion and how he would go above and beyond for the people he cares for. I love his humor and his values. I love his honesty and the way he can admit to making a mistake and forgive others.
And he's objectively attractive. But I just can't see him sexually.
This is what platonic love is. When you love someone more as a family member or companion than seeing a future with them or thinking sexually about them.
By putting on your adult hat and realizing that 1. You're not the end all be all after you're no longer with someone, and 2. An ex doesn't owe you a thing and can sleep with whoever they want, whenever they want, as many times as they want, etc.
You are doing everything to manage his emotions and he is still unhappy with and mean to you. You deserve better than this. Adults don’t get to throw little tantrums just because they’re hungry. You know that you wouldn’t behave like that, so don’t make excuses for him
Personally all that Love-Language stuff has a lot more to do with book sales,
but….OK….. I'll play in Your ball-park.
Play a game with your SO and have a “Switch Night”….or better yet….
a “Switch Weekend”. He takes Your Language and you take his. Or maybe
you both take a language you have not “used” before.
Frankly I think you will find that Love, Affirmations, Validations and quality
time come across in just about Any language……..whether you
speak it….or not.
FWIW.
Honestly, him crying when you try to broach this subject comes off as super manipulative when you add this context. I feel bad for him but this is not your problem to solve.
That's right up there with pissing on your grave.
What we search is who we are.
I think those are two different behaviors. ” I don't like it when you make sexually suggestive comments to my friends vs. I don't like it when you talk to my friends.”
Swimming naked is not sexual. She feels free swimming naked with her male and female friends because it's not sexual. She can't control how other people react to her body. Her butt in jeans might turn some man on, more than body naked turns her male friends on. She can't control this, but it sounds completely platonic.
strip clubs are inherently and intentionally sexual.
When you draw a line, agree on a boundary, does he honor that line, or does he push it and you acquiesce? Watch him closely. If he starts doing an end-around to get what he wants, while still honoring that line, you need to leave. Meaning that he probably gets off more on causing you pain than actually just liking anal.
If he is sadistic, he will start wanting it rougher more often until that is the only way and you will start feeling like his rag doll.
I had a partner like yours. He crossed lines. After a few times of asking (pleading), he told me the truth. That it wouldn't have mattered where the line was, what did it for him was crossing it.
You don't need this. And he doesn't respect you. Don't let him do this to the point that you don't respect yourself.
Unpopular opinion- Paternity test should be legally mandated
Did she know he was with you when he was grocery shopping for her? Did she know he picked you up at the airport before meeting her at home when she returned from her trip?
Does she know you are his girlfriend?
Did she know he was with you when he was grocery shopping for her? Did she know he picked you up at the airport before meeting her at home when she returned from her trip?
Does she know you are his girlfriend?
My 83 yo father is with someone who is 34 years younger than him and you know what? I'm with your family on this one. I know him well enough to know that he prefers a woman he can control. I've seen the way he talks to her and from what I've seen of her, I'm guessing the only reason she's still with him is because she doesn't believe she could do any better.
It is better to be alone than to be with these decrepit old fossils, and maybe, the time you waste with one is time you could have spent developing yourself. You don't mention whether he has adult children, but if he does, guaranteed he won't be leaving you a penny.
You are young and have your life ahead of you. Looking good is the best revenge. Look good, do fun things with friends. Plan fun things to do. Hang out with mature responsible people who live life to the fullest. Take care of you.
He's a 30 year old man, dating an 18 year old girl, and pressuring her about sexual acts that she's clearly stated she's not ready for.
He's a shitbag.
Please, please, please see this and stop this now.
Get a kids hair and send it for testing along with your husband’s.
He has one boundary and you just had to push it, and when he calls you out you call him controlling, lol.
I mean, I wanna shoot you some bail because she pressured you to drink and you did refuse the sex. I don't think your intentions were to cheat.
That being said it's still a fuckup on your part and you should tell your partner, especially with it eating you up this badly.
INFO: are you suggesting SHE should go to counseling or are you suggesting you both go to counseling together?
That is not a thing.
That is not a thing.
That is not a thing.
I have 6 cats, the two oldest are 16 and brothers and spent a majority of their life outside. Another two brothers that I believe are around 7. Then another couple youngins that look like brothers but came from 800 miles apart. They all had to live together after I moved across the country, and at first, they didn't like each other. Over the last 5 years, though, since they all get fed together, they have grown to tolerate each other and actually get along. With little spats like what op describes, one of the senior cats and the middle-aged cats will lick each other until one gets tired of it and the swatting starts. It is never violent, though, just some swatting with minimal claws it seems. No hissin, just swats.
Hopefully OP, this is only a hard lesson about confidential info and doesnt end up costing you your job. That aside, this calls for some serious soul searching about your relationship.
she showed him pictures of me with the guy from the club he's a great guy and super sweet she's the evil one
You sir, are merely a troll.
You had established open communication and honesty and you pressed her to say what was wrong.
She was upset while talking to you so naturally it didn’t come easy to her.
I think her only mistake was the lack of tact and the way she said it. Other than that, she is not at fault for feeling the way she did or being honest after you repeatedly asked her about it.
I agree she should have said it differently though.
I would tell her how I feel and start from there. Say you are over thinking it now, you don’t feel attractive to her anymore etc
Legal doesn’t mean moral or ethical.
I’m in no way stuck, I have a decent job at the moment (working part time) and did go to university. I know I could support myself and my child if we separate and wouldn’t need to depend on family. I also don’t regret getting married that young, I feel it was the right thing for me personally. And to clarify, we met when I was 18, got engaged (religiously married) when I was 19 and moved in to live with each other when I was 20. It wasn’t as creepy or weird as you’ve mentioned
I used to date someone who would trick me into exploding (back when I was younger and with a hotter temper) so I would raise my voice, maybe insult them, and, in the end, I would be the bad person, and would have to comfort them and explain how I need to handle my temper better, never touching upon the actual problems of the relationship, let alone their issues within it.
I personally like to say something simple like “fuck off” or my other favourite “and I care what you think why” ?
Then she can give them her “correct address”
The only way to make amends is for him to pay her friends off? That’s what you got out of this post?
And for them, your system would be doing that, everybody is different.
Well that’s pretty toxic I’ve learned from this subreddit that one should respect himself way more than let things like this slide
It is, but also reality for most (of my friends at least)
Well, her actions are making her look untrustworthy. What does she expect?
I just don't understand why people get so excited about others when their supposedly so in love. That's not really love imo.
Yeah no
The thing is that him and I both changed a lot during the course of our relationship.. to answer your question, at the beginning of when we first met, we talked a lot about our different backgrounds and life. He would constantly tell me about his issues, I would give him advice and he would follow up on it. Same vice versa. I never felt judged by him even if I was just “crying” about having to write an assignemnt or something. I don`t know what went wrong but somewhere along the way we lost being open to each other and I`m not sure how we can get it back.
Regardless, the overspending example you explained is probably true. I realize that just by reading this post he sounds like an asshole but around me, he is actually kind and a “good” person. All of the “bad things” I said he does in this post he never did with or around me but I know that doesn`t mean that they`re not insignificant. It`s probably just harder for me to let go when he`s so nice around me but I hear about him outting himself in danger when he`s with others…