Comparing shaving your chest hair to losing your manhood is a bit much but no way should you shave your chest if you don't want to. Just say no and if that's a problem for her then definitely don't get married.
If you're still not sure, may I make a book recommendation? I read a book called “Living with the passive aggressive man” by Scott Wetzler. Maybe it will provide a little more insight into your husband.
I mean he's married. He can stand up for himself and get in a big fight but they will keep doing what his wife tells him to do until he gets out of the relationship if she is abusive.
there is no way the wife would see me as a delusional student
Interesting statement for you to be making about the thoughts some one would have about you when you don’t even know this person, or even their full name.
Girl, flush this turd. Anybody so laser focused on controlling your emotions (lecturing you because you had the “wrong” reaction is emotional control) I can't emphasize this enough, dump this guy as soon as you feel safe to.
Comparing shaving your chest hair to losing your manhood is a bit much but no way should you shave your chest if you don't want to. Just say no and if that's a problem for her then definitely don't get married.
Get Plan B or other emergency morning-after pills. Depending on where you live, it should be available over the counter at your pharmacy.
Keep in mind that for many women, plan b makes you feel sick, like having PMS x 10. So get her some chocolate and be supportive.
There’s not really such a thing as “safe days.” You know what they call people who use the fertility awareness rhythm method? Parents.
And now he's not your friend. He assaulted you.
I think you should leave too. He sounds awful.
If you're still not sure, may I make a book recommendation? I read a book called “Living with the passive aggressive man” by Scott Wetzler. Maybe it will provide a little more insight into your husband.
I mean he's married. He can stand up for himself and get in a big fight but they will keep doing what his wife tells him to do until he gets out of the relationship if she is abusive.
Desperate or bold? Make the move to ask him out.
there is no way the wife would see me as a delusional student
Interesting statement for you to be making about the thoughts some one would have about you when you don’t even know this person, or even their full name.
Of course we're only getting your side of it, but she does seem prickly, maybe even manipulative.
Girl, flush this turd. Anybody so laser focused on controlling your emotions (lecturing you because you had the “wrong” reaction is emotional control) I can't emphasize this enough, dump this guy as soon as you feel safe to.