OP, I agree with the other respondents that the abusive behaviors you describe (e.g., her lack of identity and emotional instability) cannot be explained by endo. Was she ever examined by a psychologist and given a diagnosis for a particular mental disorder? Did she exhibit such behavioral problems before her endo started acting up and before she started on the hormone injections?
I really like this idea. Thanks so much for taking time to type this out.
She had some VERY dark trauma from her past before we met (SA) and never would talk to her family/me/friends/counselor about it and I know it affected her in ways I clearly couldn't see or help with. Since we've broken up she told me she got help and worked it out.
I also grew exponentially and changed myself as a man 100%.
She has also expressed there is no rush at all, and she is willing to work it out slowly with me until I am comfortable “trying again”.
If she can't be even somewhat OK to be around, then refuse to be around her. Just leave and let her yell at herself. I'm a woman, and having PMS is not a license to be shitty to someone you care about.
Just remember, you are not a punching bag for anyone. No matter what. This is her problem. If she wants the pleasure of your company when she is feeling shitty, she needs to stop being so awful.
He had promised me that he would, but now I feel he us not making effort. And I just think he lacks the minimum commin sense to not do it infront of me. And he was acting like he DGAF. He wss trying to dismiss my emotions.
Is he getting too comfortable displeasing me ? He says it is my fault that I ruin things when he comes to visit me.
He likes you. If you like him back, stop thinking about “what ifs” and call him!
Her mental health is struggling.
OP, I agree with the other respondents that the abusive behaviors you describe (e.g., her lack of identity and emotional instability) cannot be explained by endo. Was she ever examined by a psychologist and given a diagnosis for a particular mental disorder? Did she exhibit such behavioral problems before her endo started acting up and before she started on the hormone injections?
I really like this idea. Thanks so much for taking time to type this out.
She had some VERY dark trauma from her past before we met (SA) and never would talk to her family/me/friends/counselor about it and I know it affected her in ways I clearly couldn't see or help with. Since we've broken up she told me she got help and worked it out.
I also grew exponentially and changed myself as a man 100%.
She has also expressed there is no rush at all, and she is willing to work it out slowly with me until I am comfortable “trying again”.
Cali is always an exception state. They actually care about protecting people.
If she can't be even somewhat OK to be around, then refuse to be around her. Just leave and let her yell at herself. I'm a woman, and having PMS is not a license to be shitty to someone you care about.
Just remember, you are not a punching bag for anyone. No matter what. This is her problem. If she wants the pleasure of your company when she is feeling shitty, she needs to stop being so awful.
He had promised me that he would, but now I feel he us not making effort. And I just think he lacks the minimum commin sense to not do it infront of me. And he was acting like he DGAF. He wss trying to dismiss my emotions.
Is he getting too comfortable displeasing me ? He says it is my fault that I ruin things when he comes to visit me.