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Date: October 21, 2022
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and reward her cheating hoe of a bf. riiiiiight. what she should do is sext other guys since apparently that's okay in their relationship if she says jk after.
Went through a similar scenario but different age 30.
But my sister’s overseas wedding was coming up.
My dad was texting me and the other woman and accidentally text messaged some love text. I confronted him about it because I thought it was coworker. I was wrong it was a lady from church.
So I had to tell my sister because I didn’t want to ruin her wedding on what she wanted. She said to hold off telling my mom.
I told my mom after the wedding when I went to pick her up from work.
My mom suspected something.
So my mom was going to hire a PI to get evidence but the private investigator said we might/might not catch him.
So my got a divorce lawyer and we moved out right before my mom confronted my dad as a family.
My dad wasn’t sorry… he was sorry he got caught.
My mom forgave him and took him back.
It was very stressful
*don’t blame yourself for your dad’s wrongdoing. Talk to your mom *
My mom did so much for my dad she would always spent her money on him. She paid for a trip back home.
While we were on that vacation I overheard my dad talking to some next chick on the phone.
I was really stressed. So was my mom.
My mom passed away on 2019 even though my dad was awful to her when she was healthy he was really there for when she got sick. He did the laundry, made dinner, and took care of my mom going to the bathroom.
My dad obviously regretted the way he treated my mom and now he’s lonely. He never got back with that lady.
SJWs have been triggered. Where's my popcorn
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I’d suggest being cordial with this person in terms of group hangouts, parties, etc.. You don’t have to jump back into trusting this person on the same level of the relationship or even friendship.
Have you guys been in contact or seen each other since the breakup? The first step to moving over the hurdle you’re facing is tolerance like what was suggested. See if you can stand to even be in the same room as this person and go from there. Trust is a major leap.
I’m happy to share my thoughts. It is important for partners to understand one another and learn to give each other the benefit of the doubt. I will admit though, I’m confused as to whether you’re the OPs girlfriend or this commenter?
He had absolutely no obligation to tell you what he did when you were broken up. I'm curious if you found out by going through his phone or computer. Because you don't say he told you, you say you “found out”. The fact you can't deal with your bf having more than one partner, at 36 years old, is ridiculous. He didn't do anything wrong, stop treating him like he did.
You never been super into a game then. Like have you ever played a game that just hit all the happy spots in your brain and you don’t want to stop? Or ever player a game that takes full focus and you lose track of time? It seems like you never have and won’t relate.
You are just sounding bitter and want things your way and wont compromise with him. So he’s going to say “fuck you” and focus harder into his games to mentally get away from you.
You never been super into a game then. Like have you ever played a game that just hit all the happy spots in your brain and you don’t want to stop? Or ever player a game that takes full focus and you lose track of time? It seems like you never have and won’t relate.
You are just sounding bitter and want things your way and wont compromise with him. So he’s going to say “fuck you” and focus harder into his games to mentally get away from you.
You are both still very young and haven’t been together very long. If you both want something different instead of convincing the other one to give up the life they want accept that your future plans aren’t compatible and move on.
You sound like an ass.
It looks like you’re still into him despite his behaviour and actions. You’re relying on the few words he says that imply it isn’t what it looks like(it is). Your brain has decided that the only proof it’ll accept is either catching him actively cheating on you or if he utters the exact sentence that makes it clear that he’s insanely all over the place with his attraction over her. You can choose to sit and wait for either of these things to happen but here’s what’s happening in the meanwhile : your mental health is getting screwed. You’ll develop trust issues from this that will bleed into future relationships. That’s what happens when you stay in bad relationships well past their expiry dates. Take a moment and forget about him and his existence. Think about yourself not as yourself but as a friend you’re in charge of helping. Hopefully that’ll help you see the damage this is causing your person and make the necessary change. I’m sorry if this is harsh to read. The writing is on the wall, all that’s left is for you to read it. You left him before so I know you can do it again but this time don’t look back.
I pee in the shower all the time, with or without wife . You should piss on her next time.
It depends on how forward you guys are with other things. If you talk dirty frequently… then no, that wasn't too forward. But if you usually have light flirtation, it could be a little shocking to jump right up to deepthroating.
It could also be that he doesn't have a big dick, and you saying that you are going to “deepthroat” him made him feel nervous about your expectations.
Everyone is different, and I don't know your husband. But we often assume that all men are a hive mind – attracted to the same body types and clothing styles, sex on the brain all the time, picturing themselves having sex every woman they see at a baseline. To be fair, it's not a completely baseless assumption, but for the men I've gotten to know very well, none of that could be any further from the truth. They're mindful not to view women as objects that exist for their fantasies or enjoyment, and they are committed partners who – while able to acknowledge the objective attractiveness of people they see – are most “turned on” by the person at home who knows them intimately.
If you know, love, and trust your partner, can you really see him actively comparing you, his wife and mother of his unborn child, to a bunch of scantily clad strangers at his job? If you think he's like that, then he will be like that no matter where he is or what he's doing, so the real question is, why are you with him?
If you don't think he's like that, then isn't it a little unfair to both of you if you allow those baseless fears to affect your relationship or your feelings about him? Wouldn't it be better to tell him about the negative feelings you're having about yourself and how they're bleeding into your feelings about this job?
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Honest question, hats more important to you, not getting married, or keeping your relationship. If it came down to it, what are the benefits you see in being single, vs being married to a woman you love? (I should add, I’m not particularly pro marriage myself, I’m not against it for others, but not for me). I just want to make sure you’ve thought about whether not having this woman in your life is worth it to you, if it’s something that is important to her. What are the downsides to being married to her, vs not. Because at some point, your gf is likely to ask these questions, so having solid answers ready will be useful.
You’re a monster.
If you need a good excuse then all these DNA companies are just building a massive database of everyone's DNA. There are plenty of reasons not to do it.
Not sure how she can forbid you. You can listen to her, appreciate her concern, then go to the bar with your friends. She is being quite controlling.
when they are in your name your provider can get them on request.. and expect the worst… if there is nothing to hide why delete…
As long as it wasn't beastiality nor necrophilia, you can probably fix this.
But he will now be happy with the girl?
Go to a therapist and work on your issues with men.
Yes He is indeed Not wealthy. His answer to that is, He will figure it Out…
Agreed. This is nonsense behavior.
What? No. Go back to church and get off Reddit with that BS.
Get your balls back and tell her. Outside of hospital if you have to.
Sounds like you need therapy
Conservative family too – probably has been repressing a lot of feelings her whole life. Choosing to marry OP “because it was the right thing to do” rather than what she truly wanted. In this day and age it's amazing they lasted this long.
How is your math, mathing? I need you to show your work
He is showing you his true colours. You move on by not moving in with him and finding new bf that is not abusive.
i didn't read the ages an thought you were 19, this post can't be real, you can't be acting like this at almost 50 yrs old. Gross
I don't know. I just woke up with her calling me a loser, a useless PoS, a few other insults and then kicking me out of bed.
End it. You will never get over this. Your partner has betrayed you in an unforgivable way. She cheated. And she lied about it.
You answered your own question……how do You find it? Start by believing you’re worthy… if you don’t think your worth it nobody you meet will.
This is manipulation, he wants to “keep you on your toes”. He thinks you'll do more for him, be more submissive, insecure and anxious if you think he has many other options in the world.
The best thing to do is tell him that he is free to take up with those women as you are out.
Or – you can reply back: Jim at the gym, Barry at work, 3 guys from college are still circling. Give him your list of “options”.
It could be possible that he is just clueless. A lot of guys are. He could have just been talking out his ass.
She’s just looking for a way to do this with your permission so she’s not the bad guy
1). Any guy can have a change of heart at any time, there's always risk 2) 12 years isn't the gap you think it is, or you guys wouldn't be together to begin with 3) he's too young to have thought about kids, but that doesn't mean he doesn't want them, just that he hasn't thought about them 4) it doesn't matter how handsome he is, it matters how important you are to him, and it seems you are very important to him.
This is a decision only you can make. But you are thinking in black and white. The odds of being together for 10 years and then breaking up are very low. Most likely things will get really obvious in less than 3 years. So it is not REALLY likely to be a lot of wasted time if you don't work out. But you don't want to risk throwing away something that could work out, either. So I lean towards sticking with him.
I think you’re living in fantasyland here my dude. Did you ever once have a conversation with her about starting that kind of dynamic? Doesn’t seem common and I’m just not getting where or why you think she’s, like, your new threesome seeking sex partner lmao.
Do you think you’d like her feet better if she had a pedicure? Or is it more structural?
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One thing you learn as you mature is that a lot of men are insecure as hell and make you pay for it with their controlling, misogynistic, overly sexualizing BS.
She’s gonna keep the kitten, you will have to find another. And she has driven another wedge between you and her. It isn’t like you found the kittens, she got them through her own contacts?
Uhm, it is possible that he was not aware.
I have been woken up at times thinking my wife initiated. Only for her to tell me that I had done so.
That being said, you just need to have a conversation with him about what your boundaries are.
When foes your lease end?
If it's taking a toll on you, your probably gonna have to accept that she isn't going to be able to be a friend and preferably for your overall wellbeing, stop talking to her or at the least treat her like a distant friend…
How am I supposed to not feel weird about it? I feel inadequate now.
No, dude. They are saying this happens way more frequently than you are understanding because you’re young and inexperienced and that’s okay. Girls, even your gf or in the future wife, not just hookups don’t always orgasm from sex. It’s not as big a deal as you think it is. It’s cool, enjoy having sex with your gf.
Were you not invited? If not, why? This seems like yhe spry of thing most people would include their partner in.
You won't win with a narcissist. That's the bottom line. But you have to decide whether what you want and what get from the relationship is worth it all.
Either way, I really wish you good luck with it.
I’m fed up and I want to file for divorce.
Tell him!
Being passive and waiting for him to do anything is a waste of time, so tell him that you are going to see a solicitor and you are going to file.
I appreciate the encouraging words! But yeah i felt like it really cheapened my experiences when he said that about my business bc I did try really hard to make it work!
But yeah I really hope that he can move on from this and see me as I am now
NEVER allow yourself to be added to a mortgage without getting added to the deed.
Apparently you’re not allowed any boundaries in this arrangement?
This girl sucks, my dude
Yeah, I see what you mean. We have had moments like that. Where we talked about what we want, where I asked her what she wants. It’s difficult to get an honest answer from her, she said she doesn’t want to disappoint me. And no matter how often I tell her that she doesn’t disappoint me or that it doesn’t matter, it doesn’t seem to have an effect on how she feels. I don’t think I’m making her feel like I’m disappointed. Every time we talked about it, she said that she’s ready, but the few times we got to a point where I asked her if she wanted to be intimate she just says nothing and then moves on to a different topic. And it’s honestly really strange when she’s sitting on top of me, we’re making out (something she initiated) and then when I ask her if she wants to go further she just changes the topic to something totally different and we talk about work or something.
I think what I’m trying to say is that I feel like she isn’t being honest with me. The last few times we made out it didn’t feel like she was really into it and looking back at the two times we were intimate it sort feels as if she wanted me say no. Like she offered to do it, but maybe she was hoping I’d say no because she wasn’t really into it. So when we talk it feels like she is just saying what she thinks I want to hear even if that doesn’t necessarily align with her desires. Maybe she isn’t being honest with herself as well
I hav a feeling she will have an excuse not to meet in person.
You never did trust her. It seems maybe she lies because you blow tiny little things out of proportion. You need to get help for your insecurities.
That's not growth. He will not change and if you don't leave you likely end up dead. You should seperate and you both need therapy.
Quality often seems to decline when restaurants are dealing with large crowds.
Um… she's MARRIED. You're not allowed to be jealous of that, Jody.
There’s no compromise here lol. It’s either “get the government involved” or “don’t get the government involved”. No middle ground.
For what it’s worth, I feel similarly to you about marriage. If I were to have a long term relationship, and that person wanted a legal marriage, we either wouldn’t do that or the relationship would be over. That’s a pretty major fundamental difference.
This is over. I would have loved to see that therapist his face. If she slept with one it would have been tough to get over. But 30? You deserve better.
I understood, I just didn't agree.
Yeah I would never go back to her if I was you .. imo, there’s no such thing as “breaks” in relationships, you are either together or you’re not because of what your wife did typically happens ?
Tell them no. It’s not rocket science. They’re taking liberties
The fact that he was using a friend finder women was enough to leave. This is not normal at all.
You might need to rethink this thread of comments. Grooming behavior is not nearly as rare as you make it out to be, and it is specifically this type of rhetoric (“she's an adult, she can make her own choices, let her be an independent woman”) that groomers use to get young women to fall for them. As a 25 year old woman, I absolutely did NOT know everything I thought I did at 19 and it would have been completely inappropriate for me to be with a 40 year old man in any capacity. But ESPECIALLY someone who I'd known for years and grown up around…. yikes.
He seems difficult and an egoist.
Why are you with him?
You have a lot more things to try. Getting her on disability, getting in home help, etc.
Have you considered changing your lifestyle to accomodate in some ways? Shuffle bills so you have a housekeeper. Move to a bigger city with reliable public transit and support networks for her condition. Identify ways you can disengage and refill your own meter – maybe every Sunday you go a hike or something.
But honestly? She does most of the cleaning, she cooks frequently, she works part time…what do you want?
She is sticking with him for one very important reason…the story isn’t real .
I mean if he didn't want a hug or to be touched she shouldn't be hugging or touching him.
I agree with you 100% that friend brainwashed her in to thinking that it is OK if she did it too. And beeing so easily influenced is even bigger red flag in my book.
You very well may get rejected and that sucks so mentally try to prepare for that. But it's better than sitting there doing nothing hoping the other person just magically makes a move.
Tbh you can just start by saying something as simple as hey, I like you and think you're cute. Would you want to go on a date?
Now again he may say no but at least then you can start movin on or just being friends or w e
You’re in denial. Sorry. Many on this thread have experience with coke. The signs are all there. Ask yourself why he hasn’t acted this way before (blowing his nose and constantly sniffing). The fact that he got defensive right away and went back downstairs to cut-up with the boys while you’re left crying is very telling. Open your eyes.
You can ask her about the “hot and cold” behaviour without confessing your feelings. But also, are you continuing this relationship that isn't working for you because you think some day she will magically fall in love with you? Don't. If you want to date her, ask her out. Don't pretend to be her friend when what you want is to date her.
I don't think they mean it's OP's problem in his case either. What they mean is, if a few pounds are enough to make your SO unattractive to you then the problem is not theirs but your own.
Bob is just trying to stir up more drama by doing this.
What an evil, horrible, manipulative person. I went through a similar incident to this. It took me several times to leave the abuser and when I finally did after he went to jail, he bailed out and broke into my new house I moved into while I was gone and stole my belongings. He threatened to kill me, something I never thought would happen. I called the cops and they FAVORED him because he photoshopped his name onto my mailing address. You got lucky. This was in a different state. I ended up getting a temporary restraining order and then a permanent one. Looking back, I know why you are torn, but I’m five years past that incident and I feel lucky to be alive and I can tell you that you need to get the fuck away from this person and get a protective order.
Tell your friend not to cheat, and he won’t have this problem. Frankly, he’s a grown adult man and he doesn’t really need help from you unless he asks for it.
This!!!! Like, how disgusting. My fiancé has great dental hygiene and I still require a brushing within an hour before oral sex. Not trying to get BV or a yeast infection
She’s my closest friend and we have a rich history together I would go through a heartbreak
So, you'd still have her as a friend if she chose to seduce your future husband, effectively wrecking your relationship with him? Or would you solely blame him for not being able to resist?
Thank you for confirming I'm not crazy in thinking she should seek further medical attention.
I do ask what she wants/needs and the answer is always nothing. Hence my frustration eventually leading to this post
Your husband has no right to punish you for what he feels are Henry's intentions.
Honestly. You aren't a princess in a tower. If he can't believe that you are capable of saying *no” if things got inappropriate, he needs to respect you a bit.
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This is hilarious, poor dude. Please give us an update!
Men can have that preference but my god, what a stupid, fragile ego-serving preference it is.
Out of all the hills to die on, that one is the weirdest to me
Here insecurities aren't yours to work through. You've accommodated her insecurities about as much as possible and she demands more.
If you want to stay together, she needs to work through her issues.
She is dismissing your concerns undoubtedly she enjoys the attention… dude if she even considers going I would tell her not to come back… this is unacceptable
I would do things like this expecting nothing in return.
And yet you complain about lack of reciprocity.
Your reasons for contemplating a breakup are weaker than most of the people posting here have. I think it would probably be a mistake if you do ditch this relationship. You could end up with a partner who was much, much worse.
But wait! She’s progressive! Lol….
Im not invalidating anything, that's your assumptin of of what Im saying.
Im telling what I think that should be done, and of course there are crazy mofos out there, and they should be in a cage, not roaming around free. Unfortunately that's far from happenig… but entertaining them for sure WONT help.
Still that's not my point, but you cand make it go around as much as you want, trying to portrait me as a bad guy. You wont be the first, neither it will matter much to me, neither to my feelings.
You can choose being cautios as mucha s you want, you do you. But in the case that OP's explaining, the guy will see her gf again in the gym, so for evadin a confrontation, she's probably made it worse. And I repeat, not EVERY guy in the world is a crazy rapist, and I repeat, if you act like every one is, its a YOU problem.
Oh my bad in that case. I should have done more digging. Yeah I'd do that, it'll probably be the best solution.
Basically she’s mimicking what an angry teenager did. A teenager that was forced to attend her father’s wedding to the woman he cheated with. A teenager who was forced to have a relationship with father and his AP. She’s an immature arse. You would be well within your rights to cut her out. You’ve given your father a choice and once again he’s chosen her.
Ok.
IKR? Can you believe his wife cheated on him and is now doing this? She's a real mess and needs help!
Still sounds one sided with you caring more but you know her better. Just take care care of yourself and don't let your heart make excuses for her lack of consideration. She needs to step up. Full stop.
He is verbally and mentally abusing you, and he eventually WILL hit you. It's just a matter of time. Run and don't look back.
Bruh
I'd feel awkward about this, since it seems you're already kind of in a relationship. Are you seeing him before the date? I think I'd bring up that I thought we were heading toward an exclusive relationship, so this date threw me off guard.
I got it from the Psychology in Seattle vlog on YouTube. He tries not to swear and has the best words
Yes! For god sake – if he is violating the restraining order – please do!!!!!!!!
I started cooking family meals at 11. It wasn’t an ideal childhood , but it’s certainly plausible for kids to be more capable than this dude.
That comment doesn't suggest she modify the meals she makes it suggests she stop making him a whole second meal because he eats meat. She's ALREADY modifying the meals she makes because she makes herself vegetarian food and him meat food. This advice suggests she stop doing that which is good advice.
First, you switched where the dollar sign is located on the digits, unless you're French Canadian in which case that part isn't wrong. You also state that some random woman gave you $25 to kiss you. That's not going to happen. Also, you seriously wondering whether or not it's cheating. It's obvious that it is. That's why. Any other way I can help with your pointless trolling?
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