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Date: November 5, 2022
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As a kid—even an adult one, I’d prefer to meet a nee SO at a quiet dinner. Not with the extended family, existing family dynamics, and weighty expectations of holiday traditions
If you are going through a really rough time with depression and he still wants to be with you, you should really talk to him about it, be clear about what you think you need, what you want, and what you could give right now, that's probably not much.
You said it yourself, that's not what you want. Depression is a deceiving thing, sometimes makes you think you need something different than what you actually need. If he does understand and can give you the space you want but still be there for you, might be a good idea, having someone willing to be by your side can be helpful.
In any case, you should really consider talking to a professional and start to work on getting better, it isn't easy, but it can be done.
Getting fat isn’t a result of showing age. It’s a result of lack of discipline.
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You are a bad guy, let me try to explain.
She wanted to go to the game, you didn't want to go to the game but said something stupid and created the issue. Next time say either NO or explain why not but also know what you want at the same time. Have a solid reason for your NO instead of being firm on NO but not being interested in anything else. Your NO was confusing and she probably felt hurt because you excuse was dumb
I'll go anywhere else, do whatever you or anyone else want but just not be at that game that is so important to you and you want to be there so badly. If she goes alone probably it will make her feel like a loser.
Your excuse was stupid, you didn't care to suggest anything else to do so that she can accept it, have a justification for abandoning her plan.
You wanted her to respect your NO for no reason (you don't want to go because you just don't want to go but you'll go anywhere else, doesn't matter where).
You wanted her to change her plans but you also wanted her to choose another thing to do (for no reason because you told her that you don't care what else, asked her to choose whatever except what she already chosen) and then you wanted her to go with you there, pretend to be happy, you somehow being happy and cared where you were going instead of going to the game…
You probably think that you are a good friend because you let her choose another thing to do, (anything else, whatever) but that was the your mistake because you showed that you are uninterested, didn't care about her, didn't care about her NO, didn't care what she wanted but only cared of not doing what she wanted.
She at least knew what she wanted, you knew what you didn't want but at the same time wanted whatever, even if it's worse than going to the game
That's your mistake, it was confusing and probably hurtful to her.
Probably you both need to apologize to eachother.
She shouldn't use your excuse against you but at the same time you can't blame her because your NO was clear but what you wanted to do instead was unclear so she assumed that you wouldn't mind going to the game anyway.
Are you a bad guy? Nobody can make you to be something that you are not!
Do you feel like a bad guy?
The issue isn't that he is into those things and you aren't, the issue is that he isn't making time for you. Ask him why he wants to be with you if he doesn't want to actually spend any time with you each day since it sounds like would rather do that than engage with you. If I was single I'd probably act like he does but I would rather be with my partner than do those things.
Of course we are only seeing one side of it, could be that you are not compromising to make time to spend with him either.
Some friends I went to college with had a mmf threesome and joked about it. The MF couple are still married and have two kids. They’re still friends with the other guy, who is married and his wife just gave birth to their second kid.
Tons of women fantasize about two (or more) guys. When guys fantasize about this it’s considered normal. When women fantasize about this, they get sex shamed.
Your bf is a sex negative, hypothetical, walking red flag.
If, at the outset of a relationship, one party has zero sex drive, I don’t think this is about “the ebb and flow”. While all that’s true, that assume a flow. And if there’s never been a flow, that’s a strange assumption to make.
She sounds like an asshole without any redeeming qualities. How is it that she talks about her ex all the time, compares his dick to yours AND she wouldn’t move in until you remodeled. Where is the ‘sweetheart’ part?
Go to your graduation !
Also excuse me wtf your brother picked the date of your graduation for his wedding? That’s pretty rude of him. He could have just picked the week after – or any other date, really. Some people, man…
“Yeah babe I love the way you feel, the actual tight pussies hurt”
Would you ever say that to your partner? Cause I sure as hell wouldn’t. I know my place and understand that I can’t reverse the 20+ years they’ve lived in a society that tells them one thing or the other.
It’s the same spirit of the “does this X make me look fat?“. The answer is always no, even if it does, and even if being fat isn’t a bad thing. Sometimes you bend the truth for your partner and that’s alright, men aren’t immune to seeking and needing validation.