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Date: October 13, 2022
Well i have friends that have different points of view of mine and perspective.
And if I fuck up, they said to me hey you fuck up, i would listen, at least
Men hate to hear this type of thing, it is classic. Sort it out on your own, I wouldn't even talk to friends about it. This is where dramas come from and I see no upside to anything other than letting this go.
No. He went quiet.
You ASSUMED he did not care.
“we had a fight” and you're not mentioning perhaps the most important detail, which is the reason for the fight. If after 3 years she suddenly doesn't trust you any more, then the relationship is over.
Another option is that she wasn't comfortable from the beginning due to her own issues which aren't related to you. In that case, if she hid such a crucial detail for 3 years, then it's also a reason I wouldn't want to stay in such a relationship. Not everyone would agree to a relationship where you have to verbally ask for permission to make contact, so you can't just bring it up after 3 years.
Either way, even if I would agree being in a relationship like that, I'd just tell her that if she wants contact, she should initiate it. I won't put myself in a ridiculous position where I have to ask for it like it's some sort of raward.
By any chance, are you struggling financially? If so, could that be why he’s telling you not to spend money on your nails/hair/waxing?
She should definitely get an abortion. You're both way too young and too early into the relationship to raise a child together. And also, it's clearly not a solid foundation for a relationship.
Though I personally wouldn't jump to the conclusion she's a pathological cheater, there's no harm in taking a paternity test before signing anything, if it comes to that. I'd strongly advise you to talk to her about getting an abortion, though.
Listen best case scenario is that he’s the type of guy that takes advantage of other people to make himself feel good. If he knows his ex is still hung up on him then he’s choosing to live with her for either financial gain, an ego boost, or both. But no matter how you slice it he’s taking advantage of her. M Worst case scenario…well, he’s taking advantage of YOU.
But you have not had a child before. You had an abortion. So unless he wants to be your first arbortion (yuck), this is not about the abortion. The abortion is the guise he uses to bring another topic forward. Stop arguing about the abortion and start finding out what this is really about.
Random it’s always sunny references are gold
I’m confused why you’re asking strangers on the internet if your relationship can be saved when you should actually talk to your fiancé and ask HER. Seriously, you’re a grown assed man and you can’t have an honest conversation with her about this? Shit or get off the pot.
You seen that show Catfish, right? I know it’s mostly bullshit but they do have some lessons in there.
You sure he is who he says he is?
Time to lawyer up
I’d like to make a move. But I don’t know how
She hates snooping because you’re going to find out stuff she never intended you to find out.
It’s pretty obvious you chose your mother over your wife for years.
You may not think you did, but everything you wrote is pointing towards protecting mommy over your wife’s feelings.
I think you and your wife would really do well in couples therapy. That right now is the only thing I can think of to try to salvage this relationship. You may also need to go low contact with your mom when it comes to involving your wife and even your kids until better boundaries have been set by YOU for your mother. And that your mother actually sticks with them.
When you get to university, look into activities, meetups, groups, or other ways to find people you have things in common with. Don't overbook yourself, but maybe there's a book discussion group, gamers group, movie trivia group, whatever — something that will help you meet people you can have conversations with. Don't worry about “friends” at first — just seek out like-minded people. Friendship will come.
You talk about kids.
Imagine your girlfriend hovering over the kids. Would they be allowed to go on sleepovers? How about sports? Would they be able to go away for college? Would they be able to play computer games with their friends?
I think you need to work out what is going on. It may be that she needs support away from you to break this fragility in her.
Good luck
Do the same thing when she complains about something you did or didn’t do. Make a tape on your phone and memorize her tactics, repeat it word for word if possible. If she gets upset (and she will) play back the tape of her.
Then say something to the effect of “now can we sit down and have a real discussion without any attempts at manipulation?”
Just a regular couple, bought a house together, first mistake, no sexual intimacy, man, you're being used. What she's not giving to you she's giving to someone else.
If you don't want it then get your name off the deed and move on. Make sure you are made whole financially first of course.
You'll either need to sell it together, or she'll need to qualify in her own right to buy you out.
You can contact a realtor and put it on the market pretty easily. I wouldn't move out until it's sold. It would be easy to delay sale and leave it messy so buyers are out of.
I mean, I like if my guy checks in every once in a while but I don't need an 'update' I also don't message them much when they go out.
Why do you want to stay with someone you fight constantly? It’s exhausting. Love isn’t enough of a reason. You can’t love your way through incompatibility.
What's the point in booking another room since you broke up with him anyway?
I work in psychiatry and he’s worked on that field for a very long time until recently. I think he’s rather burnt and we’ve both suspected ADHD with him. He’s very headstrong while I’m definitely on the timid side. At times we balance each other out, other times I feel like I’m being steam rolled.
I wonder why he's single at 50.
I bet he'll wonder in about a week too.
Dump his ass.
Tell him you're worried about his weight and arrange to go together to see his primary care provider. While there you can mention he seems depressed. Hopefully this doctor will figure out what you already know and make some suggestions. They may also do some blood work or other tests.
The reason I suggest this approach is many people who won't go to a therapist will go to a general doctor. Plus, you don't know that it's only depression. He could have something else seriously wrong with him.
You’re fixated on the cheating question but your whole post is about how he consistently makes you feel like shit about yourself.
Please tell me how you view that as a “thing that can be solved”.
If a six-year relationship is a shitty six-year relationship, why on earth shouldn’t it end? Please google the ‘sunk cost fallacy.’
Look, your whole post describes an immature, selfish, and misogynistic young guy who goes out of his way to hurt you. Repeatedly.
Honestly? Who cares if he intends to cheat or not: the relationship sucks, he treats you poorly, and yet you’re still trailing after him like a lost puppy.
You’re attached, that’s all. It’s blinding you to the reality of the situation.
Aw that sucks. Mistakes happen tho. Learn from your mistake and pay your dad back. That's all you can do. Car insurance exists for a reason and they are called car accidents for a reason. Ease up on yourself cause beating yourself up now won't help. Make sure your dad don't keep beating you up about it either. It feels like maybe he rags on you kinda hard for mistakes. You may need to make some kinda written agreement with him. But would be good to talk if you can and work something out to ease the feelings. You just gotta work w those feelings and forgive yourself regardless if you dad does.
I did tell her I don’t like texting, I rather call and talk, which I did. Why is it so hard for her to pick up the phone and just say “hey”?
If you ever allow her to behave like this, she will completely dismiss any emotional feeling you could have. This could lead to big troubles for your future together, if somehow you two have a future together which I highly doubt.
Ding ding ding! We have a winner!
Your wife may think that doing it with a trustworthy friend will make it better-it won’t.
Yeah, that only makes it worse. SOOO much worse…
respect the dead and move on
This right here. She brings nothing to the relationship and clearly doesn't consider you a priority. Be cordial for your parents but don't make it a romantic relationship.
Right now, concentrate on you. Set alarms to eat, drink water, and bathe. Take time off work, and just be for a while. If you can, try doing one thing a day to stay productive, like dishes, trash, etc. If you can't, that's OK. Don't be afraid to ask for help with these things. Remember, it's ok to not be ok. I'm sorry for your loss.
Never could get it up on ol mdma
Loose lips sink ships brother. Keep your secret. I am a 62 year old woman telling you this.
Its really none of his business anyways. The past is the past and we all have one. If he doesnt believe you or keeps pressuring you to disclose private information then hes a jerk.
This ❗️there’s no accountability unless u confess
Bruh
Leading up to the trip, he seemed very concerned about his appearance. He whitened his teeth, applied sunless tan and tried on everything in his closet.
What did he say when you were like, WTF MY GUY
because in my household, a conversation would be had. TF?
I was about to book a hotel room for him close to the airport when he told me that his female colleague has a family friend that they could stay with. I told him it made me uncomfortable but he said then didn’t have many other options.
He literally could book a room at a hotel. You even, was going to do it for him.
IMO If he hasn't already stuck it to the work homie, he's planning too.