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35 usually means he is stable and ready for kids probably already has a stable income and either ready to buy house or apartment if he doesn't already own one. it's not a trap it's just the stage he is in life.
you are 20 not at that stage yet and that's ok too. not everything is a malicious trap. if you think you are ready to be in a serious relationship at 20 and start to build a family then by all means do so, but 20s and responsibility aren't exactly the best combination.
You asked “why would someone not mention this on the first meeting”, I responded with a rhetorical question which implies strongly towards an answer to the “why” you presented.
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I would burn the bridge and tell everyone.
35 usually means he is stable and ready for kids probably already has a stable income and either ready to buy house or apartment if he doesn't already own one. it's not a trap it's just the stage he is in life.
you are 20 not at that stage yet and that's ok too. not everything is a malicious trap. if you think you are ready to be in a serious relationship at 20 and start to build a family then by all means do so, but 20s and responsibility aren't exactly the best combination.
You asked “why would someone not mention this on the first meeting”, I responded with a rhetorical question which implies strongly towards an answer to the “why” you presented.
Find someone who you are compatible with. Him too.