Great comment! OP could say something very similar to this because he's really responsibly trying to establish consent and boundaries, while gf is acting immature and therefore possibly not ready for sex ??♀️
Maybe at first, but when a child is clearly in distress and rejecting the woman's interactions, those feelings should be considered. If I did something that made a small child upset, I would feel bad and stop doing that thing. To get enjoyment out of another person/creature's distress is not a sign of kindness.
Are you blind or my English is so terrible? She was sending her nudes, to other guys, and they told me. Nobody posted nothing (cuz at that time I still loved her and I didint cared) +Police didint find no evidence.
Unless you leave your current position or make choices to distance yourself from him. This will be a repeating cycle.
And if/when others in the office find out about the two of you. This will all reflect poorly on you… not him…
You will be labeled the (insert negative adjective here)..
It is not right, or just.. however it is what it is and you are setting yourself up for it if you continue down this path.
I hope you make different choices.. I hope you treat yourself with more kindness than he is treating his current woman.. a.k.a. fiance… a.ka. not you.. you are the side peice.. the women. That allows this person into their life.. he is taking advantage of you.. you are nothing to him.
You should be something to you… because in allowing this.. you are not treating yourself very kindly either.
You are worthy of much more.. please be kinder to yourself.. or otherwise you could be setting the bar for future relationships.
I wish you much growth.. patience.. self discovery. Discipline and love for yourself.
Said every female inner child ever… choose a different path. One that will allow life to flourish in the most beautiful and perfect way..
Nah this doesn’t track…why would he have or need a beard if he doesn’t speak to his family? If OP is his beard to cover up his primary boytoy he’d be parading her around because she’s the cover for his homo-hoein. Closeted men get beards to throw off suspicion…keeping her a secret defeats the purpose.
It's not wrong for you to go on the trip. Telling your girlfriend about it is the right call. If your girlfriend can't trust you to exist around an ex (from years ago, who is currently in a relationship with your friend) without cheating, then that's absolutely something your girlfriend needs to work on. Placing restrictions on you when you're not doing something wrong is not healthy behavior.
If your girlfriend doesn't or can't trust you, your relationship isn't going to work. It doesn't matter how trustworthy you are if she isn't capable of trust.
Great comment! OP could say something very similar to this because he's really responsibly trying to establish consent and boundaries, while gf is acting immature and therefore possibly not ready for sex ??♀️
Maybe at first, but when a child is clearly in distress and rejecting the woman's interactions, those feelings should be considered. If I did something that made a small child upset, I would feel bad and stop doing that thing. To get enjoyment out of another person/creature's distress is not a sign of kindness.
My next thought would be dugs. Something fishy is going on. Talk to he mom who she is supposedly with?
Are you blind or my English is so terrible? She was sending her nudes, to other guys, and they told me. Nobody posted nothing (cuz at that time I still loved her and I didint cared) +Police didint find no evidence.
bro you got mad so she dropped it and tried to satisfy her curiosity with toys and now you've made an issue of that too… I think this one is on you
Think about this for a minute: what reason is there to cheat? None. At all.
SO is an ass? Dump them.
They are too sick? Take care of them or leave. I don't care which.
They cheated on you? Counter cheat, no, wait, just leave them.
In a polygamous relationship and you have clear boundaries and everyone respects those boundaries? Not cheating.
Pre-emptive cheating? That's just cheating.
Say it with me: there is no reason to cheat.
Virginity can be defined in many ways. I think it’s when you penetrate a women and that foreplay doesn’t count.
Unless you leave your current position or make choices to distance yourself from him. This will be a repeating cycle.
And if/when others in the office find out about the two of you. This will all reflect poorly on you… not him…
You will be labeled the (insert negative adjective here)..
It is not right, or just.. however it is what it is and you are setting yourself up for it if you continue down this path.
I hope you make different choices.. I hope you treat yourself with more kindness than he is treating his current woman.. a.k.a. fiance… a.ka. not you.. you are the side peice.. the women. That allows this person into their life.. he is taking advantage of you.. you are nothing to him.
You should be something to you… because in allowing this.. you are not treating yourself very kindly either.
You are worthy of much more.. please be kinder to yourself.. or otherwise you could be setting the bar for future relationships.
I wish you much growth.. patience.. self discovery. Discipline and love for yourself.
Said every female inner child ever… choose a different path. One that will allow life to flourish in the most beautiful and perfect way..
Nah this doesn’t track…why would he have or need a beard if he doesn’t speak to his family? If OP is his beard to cover up his primary boytoy he’d be parading her around because she’s the cover for his homo-hoein. Closeted men get beards to throw off suspicion…keeping her a secret defeats the purpose.
It's not wrong for you to go on the trip. Telling your girlfriend about it is the right call. If your girlfriend can't trust you to exist around an ex (from years ago, who is currently in a relationship with your friend) without cheating, then that's absolutely something your girlfriend needs to work on. Placing restrictions on you when you're not doing something wrong is not healthy behavior.
If your girlfriend doesn't or can't trust you, your relationship isn't going to work. It doesn't matter how trustworthy you are if she isn't capable of trust.