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Uh yeah break up with him hes still jacking off to pictures of his ex. Which shebprobably thought he deleted which is another can of creepy worms. Your bf is a creep and is nasty.
There is som much wrong here. A. Your boyfriend is being silly B. Get some surgical grade titanium in those piercings before you have to have your nipple cauterised
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So you basically gave your wife an ultimatum (Talk to me or I give you divorce papers) and she basically told you to pound sand. Not your brightest move.
No problem, I hope it works out and you can get into a better place too.
There is one thing I want to address, looking through these comments from other people.. so I'm going to hop up on a soapbox here, I'm sorry in advance.
We see posts kinda like this a lot. “I'm moving in with my boyfriend, but I don't want to pay his mortgage if he's getting equity and I'm not, how can I convince him he needs to add me to the deed?” And the short answer is.. the OP absolutely does not deserve to be put on the house. Generally, the rule is that you don't get financially entangled with someone until you are married (bank accounts, credit cards, loans, mortgages, etc.). This rule is because of the situation you've found yourself in, where you're financially entangled but don't have any legal protections in case things don't work out.
So I think a lot of people here are getting thrown off, because usually, this goes the other way. OP is being entitled and has no business asking for the thing they think they deserve. To add to that, the solution is really simple – he's saying he'll only do it if you guys get married, which is exactly what we will all naturally say should be done! So makes sense, either marry the guy or accept you aren't entitled to his house!
Buuut they're not seeing what I'm seeing. You have never wanted to get married, for whatever reason. He knows that, so he's dangling a carrot. He has kept you barefoot and pregnant. You're forced to stay home and raise the kids, and once the older one was in school so you could go full time work, you were pregnant again. The timing is very suspicious. You're not on his bank accounts. You aren't allowed to get a job. He's holding you hostage financially, and giving you some bait that he knows you don't want to take.
Add to that you're 36 and you've been with him for 16 years… so you've been with this guy since you were 20 and he was 30. You trusted him. I'm in an age gap marriage myself, I was 21 when I married my 34 year old husband and we're still together today, so trust me I get it! But this very often doesn't work because of the power imbalance you have pointed out. Very often, the older partner is actively seeking a younger partner, because they are naive and easy to control, and can be molded to fit what they want in a partner. You trusted him, and it sounds very likely to me that he has been taking advantage of you since the day he met you.
You shouldn't listen to the people telling you this is reasonable or you should just get married. They aren't seeing the financial abuse or the grooming. You absolutely should not go further into a relationship with him without resolving all these issues (unless your lawyer thinks it's a better legal plan). You're a victim here. You can see now all the things you should have done differently, and people can't get over the fact that you didn't know better – because you trusted him to have your best interests in mind.
What has happened to you is absolutely awful, and you haven't done anything to deserve the situation you're in. I'm very glad you're looking at everything realistically now, even though I'm sure it causes a great deal of pain and stress. Please, please, please don't marry him just to get on the deed to the house. You're right, he has been lying to you the whole time about his intentions and he's only being honest now because he thinks you're trapped.
And one last very important thing to keep in mind: abuse escalates when they think you're going to leave. The most deadly time for you is going to be trying to leave. You need to keep acting like everything is completely normal, and don't give him any indication that you might leave. (I know you haven't decided to leave and you still want to work things out – but in case you change direction, I want you to know this.) If you decide to leave, you should work with a lawyer to cover yourself legally, and also call a domestic violence group to get help with getting an exit strategy so you can be as safe as possible.
I don't know if it means anything to you, but this stranger is proud of you for coming here to ask for help. You have no idea how many people we try to help that can't acknowledge that their relationship isn't just a notch shy of perfect, it was a breath of fresh air to see your responses looking at the facts and really taking the advice into consideration. I really, really hope things work out for you.
I mean were all 19/20 so
Frankly, this is bullshit. The husband could have learned the language of the wife. Why isn’t he learning? Because it’s not that important to him.
My only suggestion is that the wife get a hotel with her parents for that whole week and leave the husband at home. Duck that prick if he can’t even tolerate a well of visiting. What am asshole.
She sounds like an average snob. I'd take you over her any day. Why are you with her?
Yeah kids are the most influenced or fragile 0-5. At 8, he'll be fine as long as there is love in each household
No, I mean, I leave her alone of course, respect is pretty important, but to me is that feeling, like, we're friends from afar, I don't like that and makes me feel like I messed up or something
I have a small circle of friends. One moved with his partner, my other has a flat with his soon to be wife, and my other friend is moving down south, so there was no option.
I did look at getting my own place but can’t afford it on one wage.
I work from home 4 days a week so it hasn’t effected me greatly.
Thank you though – I’m defo an over-thinker