Do not let them turn it around on you. You said multiple times you don't care if they're trans, then for them to get mad at you for not putting out completely regardless of having the parts they have? This is narcissistic. You're not hurting “him” by letting him go, you're hurting his ego because he couldn't bully you into being ok with how they lied and betrayed you. Fuck that!
I hope it goes well. A lot of people will jump on this and say “well what else could she be lying about” but this is just such a bizarre lie that it warrants a discussion at least.
Let's be honest. You are the problem, and you continue to be the problem. Get yourself in therapy and find out what the fuck is wrong with you. And you owe your daughter as much therapy as she wants.
She says that she can’t afford to live anywhere else and likes living with them. Something has shifted lately and she has started being super positive about her bf and acting like nothing bad ever happened. I might be projecting but it seems fake and disingenuous. It’s making me more worried that she’s getting brainwashed or being willfully ignorant.
It’s hard because there is a lot of things she does to show she loves me too. She’ll cook for me often…reassure me when I’m insecure…sometimes buy me snacks I like or treat me to a meal…she is always so excited to spend time with me.
I get worried that if I break up with her, I’ll regret not paying more attention to the good things. And the dating scene is so bad nowadays, especially for short men (I’m 5’7), I worry that there is far worse out there.
Have fun marrying a doormat. Remember this comment, because when your life sucks due to your pushover wife, it will be because of your own weakness in choosing a suitable partner.
You literally have no concept of what love actually is. You absolutely did write the post in your “best language” – you just refuse accept the truth that you do not deserve another chance with her and the only kind thing you could do for her is to get the fuck out of her life and stay out.
This lady is out of line. She’s very inappropriate. I wouldn’t be okay with her acting that way. You need to talk to your husband.
Thanks man, really appreciate your input!
This is manipulation!
Do not let them turn it around on you. You said multiple times you don't care if they're trans, then for them to get mad at you for not putting out completely regardless of having the parts they have? This is narcissistic. You're not hurting “him” by letting him go, you're hurting his ego because he couldn't bully you into being ok with how they lied and betrayed you. Fuck that!
I hope it goes well. A lot of people will jump on this and say “well what else could she be lying about” but this is just such a bizarre lie that it warrants a discussion at least.
You 'think' you're the problem? Really?
Let's be honest. You are the problem, and you continue to be the problem. Get yourself in therapy and find out what the fuck is wrong with you. And you owe your daughter as much therapy as she wants.
She says that she can’t afford to live anywhere else and likes living with them. Something has shifted lately and she has started being super positive about her bf and acting like nothing bad ever happened. I might be projecting but it seems fake and disingenuous. It’s making me more worried that she’s getting brainwashed or being willfully ignorant.
It’s hard because there is a lot of things she does to show she loves me too. She’ll cook for me often…reassure me when I’m insecure…sometimes buy me snacks I like or treat me to a meal…she is always so excited to spend time with me.
I get worried that if I break up with her, I’ll regret not paying more attention to the good things. And the dating scene is so bad nowadays, especially for short men (I’m 5’7), I worry that there is far worse out there.
Have fun marrying a doormat. Remember this comment, because when your life sucks due to your pushover wife, it will be because of your own weakness in choosing a suitable partner.
Surveys find that in this situation tears (male or female) are viewed as evidence that you are evidence that you are too weak to divorce.
And a free pass to continue a relationship that you objected two twice.
Don't be surprised if it ramps up again in 2 months.
You literally have no concept of what love actually is. You absolutely did write the post in your “best language” – you just refuse accept the truth that you do not deserve another chance with her and the only kind thing you could do for her is to get the fuck out of her life and stay out.
Yeah.. sad to say but I do feel a bit disappointed.. as I really do like him. Do you think I should still wait for a few weeks first?