Thank you for your input. I understand the importance of discussing the specifics of our prenuptial agreement before my fiancée moves here. We will work on this together and make sure that we have a clear understanding of the terms and how they may apply in different scenarios, including relocation.
My concern is he quickly got involved with you so soon after a break up that he never gave himself time to heal and move on from. This dangerously sounds like you were a rebound. Then when he saw her again, some of those feelings he wasn’t over came flooding back. If I were you I would let him know what I saw and that I will be ending the relationship because I don’t find relationships built on the foundation of rebounding as healthy and secure ones. I would tell him maybe waay down the road we can try again if I am still available, but not any sooner and not until he has worked out his issues and feelings about his ex the proper way.
Thank you for your input. I understand the importance of discussing the specifics of our prenuptial agreement before my fiancée moves here. We will work on this together and make sure that we have a clear understanding of the terms and how they may apply in different scenarios, including relocation.
My concern is he quickly got involved with you so soon after a break up that he never gave himself time to heal and move on from. This dangerously sounds like you were a rebound. Then when he saw her again, some of those feelings he wasn’t over came flooding back. If I were you I would let him know what I saw and that I will be ending the relationship because I don’t find relationships built on the foundation of rebounding as healthy and secure ones. I would tell him maybe waay down the road we can try again if I am still available, but not any sooner and not until he has worked out his issues and feelings about his ex the proper way.