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Date: October 18, 2022
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Ah. He wants to Kody Brown it! That could never, ever backfire for the kid.
Girl, why are you even entertaining this? He’s asking you to become a single mother on purpose.
Ah. He wants to Kody Brown it! That could never, ever backfire for the kid.
Girl, why are you even entertaining this? He’s asking you to become a single mother on purpose.
So most of the relationship? He showed you who he was a long time ago. He sucks, that much is clear, but at some point we have to hold ourselves accountable for accepting this behavior, you could’ve not married the person who for two years at that point was not doing what you thought he should. Make different choices now.
You will move on, this feeling won't last. You will love again.
Take the dog to a vet asap if it’s still shitting badly. Its been 3 months and you’re only just seeing these signs, it’s possible something toxic was fed to the dog for too long and it’s dangerous to leave it unattended
Well she got you my dude
I agree that age matters as well as how long they've been together.
„Some conversation have been very intimate and heated up“ sounds like cheating to me.
I trust my husband 100% but being around people having sex is a no go which is the same for most couples I know. It's perfectly acceptable to trust your partner not to cheat but have the boundaries of not drinking to excess when you make bad decisions and not going into brothels to watch your friends have sex.
“Honey if you don't let me peg you and use fake cum I'll stop doing your favorite position, maybe even sex all together.”
That's called blackmail.
As an European, I am outraged you had to work your ass off just to get proper insurance for a CHANCE to be seen and yet got rejected.
Sorry fellow Americans, but that's fucked up.
Does she know about the ring? The woman will often go ring shopping with her future fiancé.
Either way, do you really think she’s upset about that stupid random message from six months ago? Or is it a trigger for something deeper?
I just looked up the comic. Thank you for the reference, I totally see this. Women now work as much as men, but most men have not picked up half the mental load or chores.
It’s funny because it seems the little girl has more sense than OP
Depends what part of the world one lives in.
If you still love her, I think this is something that’s forgivable. Especially knowing that she has a past with anxiety.
You guys should elope! I can’t stress how much fun and chill eloping is. It’s about the two of you and nobody else.
I feel like it’s your and her own parents that ran her off.
Also, prayer and meditation. Meditating using an app or YouTube has meditation can relax or enough to go to sleep. The other thing is make sure to drink enough water during the day. Headaches can be caused also by not getting enough water.
UpdateMe!
1) I am not valuing my house. I am valuing my comfort. I am valuing ease, perhaps. (Leaving takes actual work and a whole lot of stress) Perhaps it's the “easy” choice. (I want to be clear that this is not AT ALL a shallow choice. My house is not big or grand. But it's mine. It is not about losing psychical possessions)
I will admit that I am pretty passive and my go to response is to compartmentalize and, well usually I remove myself from the situation entirely, but this situation is on a much larger scale and removing my self would be the non passive choice. But I honest think that I don't want to leave this life. Not him in particular, but everything else that comes with it. I am not a soccer mom with a pretty house, as I assume is your perception (I don't blame you for that, I can see why that assumption was made based on what I said)
2) I also don't think I'm negating my diginity and certainly not my self worth regardless of what I choose. I'll be drawing my own lines, that have nothing to do with anyone outside of this family. I'm simply considering choosing an atypical response to the situation. It is not degrading to choose to live in the same house as a man I was once in a relationship with.
3) I don't think I'll be teaching my son anything. If I choose to stay, we will be his parents. He will not know about the private conflicts for many years when I would explain things to him.
I am not a doormat. This choice is not being a doormat. Sincerely. You can judge how you'd like. But it is not at all an accurate reflection of what is happening.
You know, I read another post like this that was almost from the opposite perspective. Sometimes I feel like these things are done in tandem both people to see how people respond. If women can say no to sex, soak in men. I think couples should make sex a really big part of their lives, or their relationship will end. Especially when you’re young nobody wants to have a sexless life when there’s a world full of sex out there. So I guess you have some decisions to make but I will tell the same thing to a woman that she needs to work out your sex life with her boyfriend or their life will come to an end together and nobody wants to go through it for a long period of time when you’re dating.
You should get a separate joint account you both put money into for the shared expenses, then everything that would be split already is.
The presents thing is messed up though, what have you done when talking to him directly about how you feel?
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How often are you buying your boyfriend gifts? Is score-keeping normal in your relationships? I think you need to take a long, hard look at yourself and figure out if what you're stressing about here is even worth it.
Fucking hell… and then there's a child in the middle of all this?
Go to surviving infidelity.com. It helped me with a cheating wife. Even if he has a disorder you are risking your physical and mental health. He could give you hiv
Yeah! Same for cops too! ?.
Don't get matching tattoos unless you plan to stay with her, even my own faince who I've been with for like 5 years keeps denying wanting to get any sort of tattoo with me ( his body, his choice).
I’m not, unfortunately. That’s part of the clarity I was hoping to gain tbh. If it’s still happening after setting clear guidelines I have no choice but to believe that’s the case
I’m a 24 F and two years ago, my dating limit would’ve been at 26-27. No 30 year old has business with a JUST legal woman
Well not surprisingly alcohol dulls your senses.
She's asking too much of you. I have depression, I understand, but she needs a therapist. You are not her therapist. One person cannot be her only source of happiness, that is not fair on you. She needs help but you are not her therapist and she should not treat you as such.
No probs. Yeah, it didn't look particularly fun for the men to have to face rejection at every turn. It's even worse when the person you live with is getting literally hundreds of messages a day.
Yes…but I can understand her position having not experienced her full sexuality. She may decide it's important to her. Also seeing the divorce rate the answer to your first question is no?
The IRS is actually surprisingly flexible on payback plans for individuals. I'm sure they would have worked out a great plan, back in 2016.
Holy hell
He was open and direct with you and is actively trying to fix things but not when he’s exhausted and it’s over something you say was stupid. Now you’re mad about being mad and you’ve shown absolutely ZERO interest in his wants and needs in dealing with this argument
You sound absolutely exhausting to be around and I don’t even know you
Tests are toxic. Any tests given in a relationship is a sign of lack of trust. Even if you “pass” a test, you should should leave.
Do you have a question?
I do get that. But it’s hard for anyone to wrap their head around this level of pathology. Is that the one and only question they shouldn’t ask? I’m guessing there’s a lot that would bring on a strong reaction. I strongly recommend that she gets therapy.
Yup, he’s definitely blocked!
Look, she asked for a break, and then said you shouldn't text anymore. I mean, that's pretty clear cut, bro. And now she's starting and stopping conversations with you, sending mixed signals. It's time to just let it go, man. You deserve someone who's gonna treat you with the respect you deserve, and clearly she's not that person right now.
I know it hurts, but try to focus on yourself for a bit. Spend some time with your friends, pick up a new hobby, and just do you, bro. And who knows, maybe in a few months she'll realize what she lost and come crawling back. But don't hold your breath, man. Just focus on being the best version of yourself and the right person will come along eventually.
Don't slap people
Don't drive while high
ESH
So I’m a huge animal lover, and I also love my husband. But if my husband tomorrow told me there would be no more pets in my life with him, I honestly may decide to leave in that scenario. You don’t have to accept this dealbreaker from him, but if you go down this route it’s also valid for him to terminate the relationship. Neither of you are being unfair, but you aren’t seemingly compatible long term due to this.
Don’t forget to tell everyone, including her family and work colleagues that she is cheating on you.
She will find out that society is still against “open marriages” especially when it is one sided. And watch the backlash.
Controversially I think hospitals should have mandatory pay tests but that’s a different convo
I logged in them all and none of them had any recent activity. I even asked one of them his last recent time online
This is more than a bit naughty, this for many people (me included) would be an instant break up. You breached his privacy in a huge way and even messaged a total stranger who probably doesn't need a random 3rd party seeing messages they assumed were private.
No reason to not trust him and you've already confirmed that messages weren't sent.
Whether he gets a trust issue from this with you is down to him, but I'd recommend he takes a big step back and re-evaluate. If this 6 months in, what about a year, 2 years etc…
This probably isn't the kind of answer you're looking for but you did something really awful here and for your own sake you need to realise just how bad it is.
Honestly, the clay paw print I got of my cat a couple years ago I kinda hate, it looks weird and claw-like (I mean, beyond her having actually had claws).
I don't have a tuft of her fur, but I know that's not uncommon at all. I'm surprised at how many people have never apparently heard of this.
Thank you so much for your advice. I really appreciate that. A calm conversation once things have settled down again Will hopefully help.
Doesn't know what to say so stays away. You have to explain that there isn't anything to say, just the requirement to continue just being friends.
Him hiding your birth control pills for „joke Haha” is complicated ?
Right, she isn't consenting to any of this. It may be possible these guys are unaware that they are being used as instruments of rape, but that's what they are, tools the predator is using for sexual assault. That might be another thing that is getting this pig off, him knowing that the men have no idea they are being used as tools for rape.
I am so sorry but it does look quiet suspect. Tho i do think there can be multiple reasons for that behaviour.
he cheated once (kissed her, or had a full on physical affair) and immediately regretted it. But she started planning their future, freaking him out and causing him to terminate her. And now he's buying her silence. Nothing happened, but she wanted something to happen, got too physical with him. He fired her, and she threatened to “expose their (non existent) affair”. Now he's buying her silence. She is his daughter from way back when. Her posts about waiting for her love are about someone else and he is “supporting” her in silence.
Whatever it is. His behaviour is suspicious.
Don't under any circumstances, confront him now.
Take screenshots of his transactions and of her instagram account and save them to a cloud account where your husband doesn't have access to. Then maybe write down any dates that your husband might have had time to cheat. Any overtime, any “business trip” any ” business lunch” he's had.
Instead of looking for a PI yourself you can also contact a (very good) divorce lawyer and talk about your suspicions. They might have a PI on hand that works with them, and that way you can get information on how to proceed, should your suspicions be true. And if nothing comes out of it whether because they can not find anything, or because nothing is happening. You still got valuable information from the lawyer and at least know of a good divorce lawyer if you ever have to recommend one.
It should be obvious that if you retain a lawyer, that you shouldn't pay him from any joined account with your husband.
Oh shut up, if you read the post carefully, you will realize that he isn't blaming anyone. They just both got upset and to me this looks like a fresh relationship, where the boundaries haven't been explored fully. I'm not even sure why OP decided to post this here, as the bf himself said “we'll be fine”.
You need to do what is right for you plus you told him you didn’t want to get pregnant and actively went against your wishes for prevention. Get the pills and you just had a miscarriage. Also, if you don’t leave him he will do this again and you will be pregnant again. His behavior is dangerous.
The question isn’t how can you let them be friends after this, the question is what else has she lied or omitted to tell you about him or other people that she is in contact with.
So end the relationship.
Tell her that as she can’t be honest with you, that you are not interested in continuing the relationship with her.
UpdateMe!
I mean… she could also say that wearing socks is the same as cheating. Or using salt, or using a comb. The thing is, words mean things – no amount of crazy bull from her will change the fact that those things are not like cheating xD
What would you do if she told you wearing socks is like cheating? Would you ever discuss this further? I would not. I would consider her quite insane, and reasons are only for reasonable people. I dunno what you can do here, other than just disengage from the crazy.
Ask your gf if 3 hours a week is accurate. Set a timer and be real.
You are correct ,we both discussed that as well saying to each other we could be rebounds but some how it did get serious so have no clue why we let it get that far but we did .
No, it's gross bc they are basically still a child.
He knows she's in pain, and that should be enough.
And frankly, at 27, the “I don't understand woman's bodies” excuse, doesn't fly. If he's mature enough to get women pregnant, he needs to be doing some research into it all, so that he can properly support his partner. Instead, he's only thinking of his needs.
A predictable yet just as insufferable response
I can say so many cliches about how you acted.
“play stupid games, win stupid prizes”
and
“well, well, look at that, the consequences of my own actions”
come to mind first
Everyone needs to stop playing games and communicate what they want, which in her defense, she did.
He sounds massively insecure if he’s so upset you’re the one to have purchased the apartment. Do you want your whole relationship to be you catering to his fragile ego?
He’s not cheating and there’s no need to be jealous of the friend – BUT- it sounds like he’s been pretty clear and straight forward about what his priorities are. And it sounds like you’re not going to be one of them.
My question for you is- WHY do you want to continue to date someone who told you straight to your face that you aren’t on a list of his priorities?
It’s ok to be proud of his progress! It’s ok to mourn the relationship you had together before his studies
But you said it yourself: His priorities were gaming and nothing else Now his priorities are school/studies and nothing else
It sounds like you haven’t been one of his priorities in 2 of the 3 years you have been together.
The problem here isn’t the girl coming over to study. The problem is that you are seeing yet again how he had the chance to spend time with you, and yet again put you on the back burner with no apologies at all.
This isn’t going to change. He’s showing you who he really is. He isn’t the same person you started dating years ago, and he’s not excited or seemingly even interested in the relationship ship anymore.
Do yourself a favor and find someone who doesn’t treat you like the worst chore on their list. It will be HARD to do, but you deserve someone who doesn’t repeatedly ignore your needs and emotions.
You don't get to decide when a partner is ready to get rid of their memories. No matter how insecure you are about it, that time and friendship helped shape him into who he is today. Telling him to ditch them is a bad idea.
If he is anything like my previous partners, his wallet is a black hole, with things he hasn't thought about in years. It's possible that he forgot they were in there, and the memories hit hard. Instead of giving him space, you demanded he sooth your ego..
You're next move???
Out the fucking door, mate. Look, she may be cool and all, but this shit should convince you of one crystal clear thing:
She.
Ain't.
The.
One.
She ain't the one, dawg. You and I both know it, I think you've just come here to hear other people say it.
Sounds like he didn’t have time for you and you didn’t have time for his ambivalence. Put this one in the win column, dear. Lose his number and move on.
Sounds to me like she’s using this as an excuse to divorce you. It’s something she wanted anyway. Please get your custody sorted before she leaves the state OP, I suspect a boyfriend will be reading his head shortly. I doubt she’ll be keen to keep the kids in close contact once she sods off.
She’s being incredibly nice to keep u sweet
They are not your friends. They are just trying to get their turn. They are going to ruin any relationships for you in the future if you keep them around. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.
Better be! I linked the Pinterest in the comments because apparently you can’t dm links
I’m unclear – did you go to the bar with him (and other friends) or did he just happen to be there?
You are just drawing out the situation and should just separate.
It’s only 8 Months – hop off and leave
Do you know how hard it it to actually find someone who is still a virgin in America? Beggars can’t be choosers. I’ve also had my share of fun. I’m not a virgin either