I’ve asked about the birth control but she says she hasn’t changed anything. But tbh I wild have no idea if that’s true or not. I’m going to have one final talk with her tonight
But if he was truly a beloved son they’d respect him wanting the note to go to OP. They have everything else to remember him by, including things OP voluntarily brought back to them.
I mean, I’m originally from a very small village. And when I was there it was impossible to avoid my ex’ exes and fwb (and similarly for my ex it was impossible avoid my exes). I’m talking about 5000 people in the whole village. Everybody knows everybody. Honestly? I didn’t care.
And I’m not sure why having an ex fling means “having a totally different set of values” unless you are some really religious person. But this isn’t about your girlfriend. It’s about you.
Dumb putaaaaa ?
Oh girl.. You are about to hit your 30s. Dating in your 30s is so much different than dating in your 20s.
Definitely get into therapy and find peace with your decision and actions. Otherwise it will eat away at you.
Bite the bullet and talk to her. Don't ask her for money.
See a debt counselor to work out how to pay it off
I’ve asked about the birth control but she says she hasn’t changed anything. But tbh I wild have no idea if that’s true or not. I’m going to have one final talk with her tonight
But if he was truly a beloved son they’d respect him wanting the note to go to OP. They have everything else to remember him by, including things OP voluntarily brought back to them.
I mean, I’m originally from a very small village. And when I was there it was impossible to avoid my ex’ exes and fwb (and similarly for my ex it was impossible avoid my exes). I’m talking about 5000 people in the whole village. Everybody knows everybody. Honestly? I didn’t care.
And I’m not sure why having an ex fling means “having a totally different set of values” unless you are some really religious person. But this isn’t about your girlfriend. It’s about you.
While definitely weird… I'd get over it if she made my dad happy.
That just gave birth. What an AH. He’d be on probation.
You need a fucking psychologist.
No, it was not like anything I would have ever expected from her. She is not typically a very promiscuous woman.