Hi, I remember your post! It sounds like you handled yourself really well, really maturely and I’m proud of you for mustering up the courage to talk about it like this with your ex – his reaction totally proves that you made the right call in dumping him. He doesn’t sound like someone who can handle firmness or criticism – not someone you’d want to grow old with anyways. Good for you! And it’s so sweet you got to meet the baby and his parents!
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I guess I could chalk it up to miscommunication, but I feel as though we’ve talked through many issues and even preemptively avoid issues due to our discussions.
Also I know I shouldn’t have reacted in any way but I feel as though it caught me so off guard with saying it. I’ve already apologized after the initial conversation for how I responded in a raw state.
You couldn’t have done anything wrong because you didn’t actually say anything. You asked if she wanted to go to a work event. That doesn’t really mean anything.
Take your shot man. Say you really dig her and you’d like to go to this thing to spend time together and maybe get some food afterward. Be confident. Pretend you have a lot of courage.
But this thing where you’re doing is a bad look. Even if she was interested, you’re making her think you don’t have a spine.
Hi, I remember your post! It sounds like you handled yourself really well, really maturely and I’m proud of you for mustering up the courage to talk about it like this with your ex – his reaction totally proves that you made the right call in dumping him. He doesn’t sound like someone who can handle firmness or criticism – not someone you’d want to grow old with anyways. Good for you! And it’s so sweet you got to meet the baby and his parents!
Tell her you cheated on her too. You guys are even anyways. You deserve each other
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100%. These types of posts are quite something.
For some reason I will get the notification that someone has commented but any time I go to look at the comments they aren’t there.
I guess I could chalk it up to miscommunication, but I feel as though we’ve talked through many issues and even preemptively avoid issues due to our discussions.
Also I know I shouldn’t have reacted in any way but I feel as though it caught me so off guard with saying it. I’ve already apologized after the initial conversation for how I responded in a raw state.
I have a friend and she is Albanian and it is family first, second and third.
You couldn’t have done anything wrong because you didn’t actually say anything. You asked if she wanted to go to a work event. That doesn’t really mean anything.
Take your shot man. Say you really dig her and you’d like to go to this thing to spend time together and maybe get some food afterward. Be confident. Pretend you have a lot of courage.
But this thing where you’re doing is a bad look. Even if she was interested, you’re making her think you don’t have a spine.