Is there any chance it is your child? I would consider getting a paternity test first, and then reassessing your decision with a clearer conscience.
If you are the father – you might feel differently about things like even if you want to leave still you might think twice about moving out right away vs. Staying and helping care for your child for the first few difficult months and then getting a custody arrangement.
If you are for sure not the father then I think of course you can leave. It’s still going to be brutal and hurtful for her. But you’re not an asshole. Make sure she knows as soon as possible so she can figure out the father and put him on the birth certificate and get all the child support she is entitled to.
Break up for good. You are just temporary until she can get back with him.
Is there any chance it is your child? I would consider getting a paternity test first, and then reassessing your decision with a clearer conscience.
If you are the father – you might feel differently about things like even if you want to leave still you might think twice about moving out right away vs. Staying and helping care for your child for the first few difficult months and then getting a custody arrangement.
If you are for sure not the father then I think of course you can leave. It’s still going to be brutal and hurtful for her. But you’re not an asshole. Make sure she knows as soon as possible so she can figure out the father and put him on the birth certificate and get all the child support she is entitled to.
This is just how cooperate america
No offense, there is a lot of wrong with how cooperate america does business, maybe be legal, but morally???