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It’s gonna suck for a bit, but I’d suggest backing off and not pestering him for a response. He’s made it clear he’s not trying to answer you, so let it rest. It’s absolutely childish on his end, but stressing yourself out is not going to help you.
Second, if he can’t communicate his feelings to you instead of essentially ending the relationship, is this really the type of dude you wanna be with??
I feel like we're some kind of kindred spirits haha – I find myself relating to your words a lot. Thank you for sharing and I hope you find happiness in life as well.
I feel like we're some kind of kindred spirits haha – I find myself relating to your words a lot. Thank you for sharing and I hope you find happiness in life as well.
Yeah he will be back ?
It’s gonna hurt to stay, it’s gonna hurt to go. You have to choose your hurt. I will say, even if you reconcile, things will never ever be the same and it will fester into resentment and toxicity no matter what you do.
You didn't answer my question.
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Treat yourself & enjoy your days off! You just got the worst part of your year out of the way & have a whole new chapter ahead. Best of luck.
It's awful. I'm glad he didn't write it, but I would steer so far away from him. He will make simple things complicated.
If you are a white guy, you have no business saying that. Maybe it will take you losing a girlfriend for you to realize this.
You listen to him and drop it. Go on yours and let him have his preferred weekend.
You’re marrying the guy…from your post it’s pretty clear he’s not a bachelor party guy. Why are you pushing this so hard?
Maybe he could clean houses
I don’t agree with the generalisations about age gaps argued by many in this thread. Context of the two people involved is very important. However, there is a trope about an older man and a younger woman that points to an established pattern of creepy or predatory behaviour and it is important to look out for red flags.
You are allowed to make your own decisions and part of being an adult is making decisions your parents might not agree with. However, your mum knows you well and she might have a good sense of character about any guy that is taking advantage. I would consider her advice but ultimately the decision is yours.
I think the best you can do if you want to pursue the relationship is tread carefully, take it slow and if you feel like a power dynamic is emerging that makes you uncomfortable, set boundaries, don’t let it continue. Trust your gut about his nature, and don’t ignore any red flags. And keep your support system around you. If he is a great guy then he won’t object to any of that.
First of all, I’m so sorry you and your brother are in this situation; this is a horrible thing for all of you to be going through, psychosis is so difficult for everyone involved. Have you tried contacting NYC WELL (888-692-9355)? They might have resources or someone you can speak to who can help you.
Whose name is the apartment in? Who pays for rent and utilities? There’s might be further legal options you can take depending.
Assumptions and prejudice going wild. ?
Yes, and people would benefit if they stopped eating junk food, started cooking at home, stopped smoking, stopped having kids when they are not ready, stopped abusing substances and we can make a long list of such sins.
This is not what the question is about. Body autonomy extends even if the person makes a choice that will hurt them.
Yea I told him I won't be sending him more nudes, I told him to be completely honest with me and truth hurts ig
My dealer uses phone numbers so not even that
I think those attachment issues are something to work on regardless of how this ends up.
Requiring people to feed those to a level that maintains your well-being is going to overwhelm and drain most people until you aren’t requiring those for that reason.
He’s been a fwb. It’s a situationship.
He’s dismissive of your emotions. It’s not fair, no.
He isn’t your guy, but he hasn’t been for the last 5 months when he was giving the attention, because he never wanted to have a serious relationship anyway.
That’s your sign before you get all the way to here.
She cheated on you and is looking to be absolved of her guilt. This is hard no from me. No reconciliation. Straight to divorce. You deserve better.
Put your belongings in your car and drive away!! She cheated and then she turned to him to talk, and didn't care! You would've been left in the dust if you would have done this! She also found it REALLY EASY to cheat on you. Pack your car, get in and drive away, you will be relieved when you do .
No contact. Good luck.
I’m upset because he doesn’t tell me that I’m pretty.
I see that they’re texting quite frequently as well.
He didn’t say no himself, but he told her that he’ll ask me if we could instead. I declined the invite.
So you are settling for a guy who doesn't give you compliments but certainly does know how to give them. Who if it was up to him would have spent your anniversary on a date with you and her?
I think you need to step back and ask yourself what your standards are here.
To me it sounds like he wants separate jars to be able to shove in your face that he saved more money than you or that he's not fully committed to you.
Why are you still dating a momma's boy that clearly chooses to ignore you?
She's telling you she doesn't want a relationship. What part of that makes yiu think you should keep e?pursuing her? Yikes.
You are ABSOLUTELY not overreacting! PLEASE trust your instincts on this- and read other comments. This is NOT normal!! Unfortunately, we all can have patterns when it comes to the type of people that we pick. This is often related to the type of childhood we experienced, and our self esteem. A really good thing is that you are beginning to recognise when something isn’t right. And you are not just ignoring it. You still haven’t yet come to fully trust yourself, and that’s ok- abusive people often actively work to gaslight, demean and shatter their victims. Leaving them not knowing where to turn. You know this isn’t right at all. You deserve better. Move on from this guy- this is extremely concerning. Give yourself grace to know that you paused to examine this behaviour and to question it. That’s a great thing. You’re growing in confidence. There’s a quote that I often remember in these situations, and I think it applies to any relationship- even friends. “The only people that have issues with you having boundaries, are the ones that were benefitting from you not having any in the first place”. His attempt to categorise what he said as a “joke” is an attempt to gaslight you into believing that you are “too sensitive “ and that you can’t take a joke. You are absolutely entitled to see this as deeply concerning, and to uphold your boundary against this. Don’t doubt yourself, you are coming back to yourself.
Youre in the right, she made this choice she should deal w her own bullshit
Telling him crossed the line in a HUGE way. There was absolutely no reason to do that, unless she was feeling out how he felt.
Apparently he returns it.
So what exactly is she going to do with that information now? How long before they start talking “just to catch up”?
Tf I wasn’t even talking about this shit a while ago. It was something. Get it straight. If you don’t know then don’t say shit at all.
You’re going to just have to be honest, so she can fix things.
If you can be specific about the smell I could help you troubleshoot, so you can pass the more likely suggestions on to her.
Here are some suggestions for her:
-shower every day, at least until she gets a handle on the smell. -use a soapy washcloth to really scrub her body, especially the areas that can hold smell -gynecologist. Is it an yeast infection or bacterial vaginosis? -I’m assuming she has curly, dry hair? She can continue to only shampoo it every week. But every other day she should get it wet and really scrub her scalp with a soap-free shampoo (sounds weird yes.. I’ve bought them at Target before. I don’t think this is mandatory for most people but she’s stinky, so….) and use conditioner. -Does she go to bed with wet hair or put her wet hair up with a ponytail holder? Hair can get mildewy. -Does she have a smelly job where the scent of stale grease or food is clinging to her hair/clothes/body? -Try different deodorants. Prescription strength, Lume, etc. -Distilled white vinegar in all laundry. It’s the ONlY thing that gets out dog smells. -Trim any body hair short with clippers, because hair holds smells and has more surface area for odor to cling to. -Change sheets on her bed more. Does her bed smell like the odor?
Good luck!
My (now ex) husband is a narcissist who was having an affair, and he still managed to take me out of town to my beloved dad’s funeral.
My heart goes out to you on the loss of your father. Your husband’s behavior sickens me. I think you need to tell him how disappointed and hurt you are by his failure to step up as your husband and and as the man in your life. That he is a disgrace and the he should be ashamed of himself. Also tell hi That if anyone asks at the funeral where he is, you will tell them he didn’t want
I don’t know. I think he is being forced to be an adult and he’s in shock of it all.
“You can't share your dreams with me in a respectful way, so that is not a topic I will entertain with you anymore. The next time you get angry at me for something you dreamed I did, I will be walking away from that conversation.”
It seems possible that you letting your porn – addiction? -give you unrealistic ideas about sex that could be intimidating to your partner? Yes women like to please their partners but what you see in a porn clip is acting and its about sex outside of the context of a close, intimate relationship Iif you have in any way conveyed to your wife that you expect a porn like experience (and i don't mean that say that you shouldn't expect kink or love or for her to enjoy being with you) then that may have put a lot a pressure on her to the point where she doesn't feel like trying to perform during sex is worth it…its intimidating.
The edging thing – okay – the concern that comes to mind there is that you're spending so much time again with porn and dealing with your own self that rhat's going to make it intimidating for your partner to be with you because sex with a person isn't going to be an hours long tease, and also its keeping you glued go to a screen and not building intimacy outside the bedroom with your wife thar could lead to sex. I'm not judging you at all – those are just things I thought about that might be things to think about.
I got pregnant spontaneously at nearly 40 and a woman in my prenatal class was 46, her pregnancy was a complete accident. Almost all the mothers I know were 35 or over and most got pregnant naturally. It's not a romcom moment but it can still happen.
Be kind, and tell the truth. You're growing in different directions, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. It doesn't make either of you better than the other. It's not anyone's fault.
So obviously do it in person, and privately.
Don't do it on a day when she has to see you in school the next day.
Stress that this is a growth opportunity for both of you. This is a person you still care for, and who did nothing wrong.
Be kind and compassionate. It's going to be hard on both of you, but it's part of growing up.
For as long as he lives with her and is financially dependent on her, realistically.
why are you even with him
Why? Won’t it just take time?
Did you even read my post? Because none of what you’ve said makes sense
Did you finish reading the top comment this one originates from? Because that’s the premise the comments below it are based upon:
“Two week vacation, fine. Going on an open ended trip of discovery when you have a family is not only stupid, it's bloody selfish. Therapy is cheaper, more helpful and doesn't require skipping out on your husband and child”
Would the possibility of it not working make trying a waste of your time?
personally i would not be comfortable with this. you need to talk with her and set boundaries
Rejected me because of my looks….bwahahahahah. I'd bet the house that I'm probably prettier than you are, as a man.
I just don't like vapid, shallow,disgusting human trash like you.I value people for what's on the inside. Everyones looks will fade one day, including mine…even yours princess. The only dif is the type of heart we will be left with. Yours is ugly AF.
I feel sorry for your bf if this is a legit post. You're an absolute joke. Run along now.
As a smoker, I would be angry with you also. The smell lingers forever and leaves residue on surfaces. As a non smoker it probably smells horrendous to her.
Is this a huge red flag or is it just her being honest? Should I be worried about trusting her or is it just me being insecure?
These are not all mutually exclusive, and the answer is “yes” to varying degrees to all of them.
– Yes, it is a red flag that not only has your GF cheated, she has basically admitted to you that she would be tempted to cheat again, albeit under particular circumstances.
– Yes, she is being honest to a dumb question that you posed. Don't ask questions you don't want honest answers to. But also, she could learn to be a bit more tactful with her honesty.
– Should you be worried about trusting her? I would definitely want some rules in place regarding alcohol consumption. She said even she would be concerned about being around “certain people”. THat's plural, not just the one person.
– Are you being insecure? Absolutely. What she has basically admitted is that she may not be particularly trustworthy under certain circumstances. That doesn't mean she's not trustworthy at all.
I didn’t plan on entering a relationship with him for at least 6 months to feel him out. I’ve known him about a decade, he’s always wanted to date me in the past and I was mainly interested in trying it out for that reason.
I would also argue she should talk to her brother because he needs to know these are not safe people to be around. It's not fair to him to keep this information from him. They believe that he is less deserving of basic human right, just because of something he cannot control. He needs to know that, like yesterday.
Please don’t, you’ll look opportunistic and foolish. Let her sort out her life.
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I don’t think the guy at the bar was David. Tbh, if that was true, why didn’t she just say that off the bat or explained when they got back to the hotel? The red flags don’t match.
Listen man, I know you want to make things work, and you can still make things work. But what you are describing is not normal run of the mill jealousy issues. Your wife is deeply insecure and it you, and especially she don't acknowledge and treat the issue your marriage is not going to last. Moreover, she will model the worst kind of relationship behavior to your children. She can't even take an ounce of responsibility for this debacle, and you are saying this is the IMPROVED version of her? I don't know how you lasted the first year.
Therapy, therapy, therapy! If necessary, tie it to an ultimatum. It has to happen.