I find it to be incredibly disrespectful that she repeatedly turns it back up and doesn’t turn it down upon request.
It’s also a bit of a dick move to turn off the music, but also what choice do you have at this point when she is using your property to actively make you uncomfortable?
A normal person with any common courtesy or concern for another person’s comfort would wear headphones if it bothered someone.
I would not listen to loud music in a way to disturb a stranger on the street, let alone someone I loved or was friends with
Does she habitually show you less concern than you would a stranger on the street, or is it just with hurting your ears?
“Make a reaction video for his followers.” Nope. F him. And not in the good way. Toss this human trash to the dumpster and go get a M who respects you.
NTA. GF has become a fake friend. Your role as the whipping girl has to end. How you do it is your decision, but IMO it's best if you just avoid her. No need to have it out with her. That's your decision, though. Last but not least, when you are out drinking with her and she becomes dependent, you become responsible for her safety. Legal issues can be attached if the meeting results in harm to her. Your happiness is what you should be concentrating on because it's what you deserve. Best wishes.
Yea, if you don’t have time to be with her, it’s better that you break up with her. When you have time and more balance in life, you can find gf.
I find it to be incredibly disrespectful that she repeatedly turns it back up and doesn’t turn it down upon request.
It’s also a bit of a dick move to turn off the music, but also what choice do you have at this point when she is using your property to actively make you uncomfortable?
A normal person with any common courtesy or concern for another person’s comfort would wear headphones if it bothered someone.
I would not listen to loud music in a way to disturb a stranger on the street, let alone someone I loved or was friends with
Does she habitually show you less concern than you would a stranger on the street, or is it just with hurting your ears?
Get as much evidence as you can, take screenshots of everything. Put it on a USB. Use it in court. Fuck that dick and his witch.
thank you
“Make a reaction video for his followers.” Nope. F him. And not in the good way. Toss this human trash to the dumpster and go get a M who respects you.
NTA. GF has become a fake friend. Your role as the whipping girl has to end. How you do it is your decision, but IMO it's best if you just avoid her. No need to have it out with her. That's your decision, though. Last but not least, when you are out drinking with her and she becomes dependent, you become responsible for her safety. Legal issues can be attached if the meeting results in harm to her. Your happiness is what you should be concentrating on because it's what you deserve. Best wishes.