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Date: November 2, 2022
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This is sooooo important. My biodad who ducked out like the druggie VIP he was( being called a biodad is never a good thing, you pretty much failed at the point progeny calls you that) he didn't mention his autoimmune disorders or the fact that he was high masking autistic before he disappeared. We got to struggle for decades trying to understand what was happening to me in a culture that thinks girls are perpetually healthy and normal and are being dramatic if they don't meet certain societal expectations. Now I'm a 35 y/o Austin woman with multiple autoimmune disorders that took forever to diagnose and it's definitely his fault.
sounds like he cheated, grass was greener now he's still only thinking about what he wants. You don't ask a divorced ex to get back together then keep pressuring them, look into a co-parenting app.
His yo-yo'ing isn't in the childs' best interest, he hasn't resolved the immaturity/me-me-me syndrome that lead to him divorcing in the first place so it'd be a second divorce that unfairly yanks the kids' chain.
Think about it, why would the ex feel uncomfortable with you going? If he and your gf has truly resolve their issue and now only see each other as friends they wouldn't have a problem with you coming to this party
If your gf was respectful of her relationship with you she would've either declined going or insisted you come, but instead she agreed with her EX that it would be uncomfortable if you went, ask yourself why would both your gf and her ex be uncomfortable with you there? What were they planning to do that if you go they can no longer do it? If they truly don't intend on doing anything, whether you go or don't go to the party wouldn't have anyone feeling uncomfortable.
The simple fact she puts aside your feelings of you being uncomfortable with her going to a party with her ex and instead puts her ex's feelings of him being uncomfortable if you came as her top priority says alot, she literally care more about her ex's feelings than yours.
You may hate me for saying this but when she does infact cheat on you at this party, will you continue to look on as “I'm not gonna leave her cause it'll just be a massive waste of 10 – 11 months”?
I don't have much advice, but I commend you for trying to take care of your sister
As someone whose wife was discovered to be gay after 20+ years: check out [http://www.ourpath.org](Ourpath.org).
They have meetings and a support forum for people realizing what’s happening. It helped me get through the divorce.
You wife is not being honest with at best, and you deserve happiness.
I'm not walking around naked. I have either shorts or boxers on. How is that different than seeing men at the beach?
I’m not sure why you really want to be with someone who thinks so poorly of you.
Please take this with the compassion with which it is intended, but you need to let this “it’s complicated” situation go. This girl seems like she has her own issues and is keeping you on the back burner.
Don’t reach out to her anymore. Focus on your mental health. Put effort into your IRL friendships. If she messages you again, I’d advise a very casual response with no expectations.
No, don't tell him. Why hurt him even more?
At first I thought – maybe she's trying to do things differently than in the past because she's trying to have a more serious, secure connection with you. But after reading the whole thing, I'm pretty convinced she just isn't that into you.
I would not marry this person unless somehow you're able to resolve these issues which, frankly, sounds unlikely.
Amazing how many women equally hate giving bjs as those on these sights who claim to love doing it
sometimes being honest and hurting people is the best way to go.
say you’re not comfortable with where the relationship is, and wish him well
Lot of ignorance on OP's part haha. Shocking.
It’s lovely that you want her to feel comfortable, but at the end of the day, if she only wants to do certain activities under certain conditions, that’s her choice. Her boundaries are not for you to decide.
Right. A huge mistake.
I really do love her. We really connected when we met in school. It was a really rigorous program and getting through it together meant a lot. I was so proud of both of us. We struggled hard to get where we are today and I always appreciated our journey. I was well aware from the beginning that I was doing the heavy lifting. Call it optimism, idealism, foolishness or whatever, I disregard the negative signs and married her. In the deepest parts of me, I want nothing more than to be with her and see it through, but it’s really hard sometimes.
I mean, you can still go on the trip. You’ll just be single. If you value your girlfriend then you should have shown it before – now she’s giving you another chance to prove you value her. Time to decide whether you want the relationship or the trip more.