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No present is worth opening a door to more abuse
No present is worth opening a door to more abuse
Honestly, this sucks and you're not a bad person for developing a crush on someone you spend a lot of time with. It happens!
But, he's with someone. Full stop. You shouldn't be feeling “so, so conflicted.” What are you conflicted? He's taken, end of story.
I don't fault you for having a crush, but stop indulging it. If you can't avoid him outright, keep the focus on work. Don't talk to him about his dreams or personal life. Every time you start fantasizing about him, actively shut it down.
What about „everyone has right to have a needs”?
I never heard the term gaslighting until earlier this year after that stupid show came out. Now I hear it constantly and far too often used incorrectly. It's a form of psychological manipulation ABUSERS use against their VICTIMS. I don't think it really applies to a husband being less than forthcoming to his wife about a friend. I agree he is being shady but I wouldn't consider that abuse.
I don’t want to sound mean, but it seems like he’s trying to show you how much he values you relationship by not making an effort. I think you should pull back in your efforts until he starts to show you more.
She's 21, surely at some point this woman as the ability to make her own informed decisions. Yes the age gap is old enough to drink in Europe, but 21 is old enough to be treated as an adult.
How am i the controlling one?? Get outta here lmao
Me.
throw them in the bed, place them into position you want to have sex with them, slap some asscheeks, show passion and lust, take their arms behind their back while going doggy.
something like that usually works ^
Let me ask you this: what positive things does he bring to your life?
All of these are negative, and it feels like he’s trying to break your self-esteem. That’s emotional abuse. This will only get worse.
Dump him and move on.
Yeah, this. Personally I think making a habit of that is kinda gross but it's not like there wasn't prior warning this was a possibility.
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Love is butterflies in your stomach, not a knot that forms an ulcer. You have been on and off since you were 17 and she was 19. At that age those two years make a big difference. You were still in high school while she had been out for a year. You’ve only been back together for a few months so why are you talking about marriage, especially if you are still in school and haven’t started a career? And the biggest question of all – why are afraid that you won’t find someone better than the girl who has to apologize for cheating, being toxic “and other stuff”? Do you think so little of yourself that you can’t find a woman who is honest, loyal, faithful, loves you, and makes you feel butterflies? Break up and stop getting back together. You know the definition of insanity is repeating the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.
With the societal norm, you can probably outright ask him and he will just assume birthday or Christmas present.
Alternatively, if he's a heavy sleeper you could measure him in his sleep. The plastic sizing kits are pretty cheap and soft enough that you could definitely put one on me without me waking up.
And a new dad.
You’re dating a child. I would highly advise using as many birth control methods as possible here
Wow, you don't feel guilty for cheating? That's a horrible admission to make about your character.
Break up, enjoy life being single but do not betray your bf like that. You say he is amazing and literally go and fuck dudes behind his back not seeing the problem.
Thanks man. Yeah, I've been secretly using the recorder on my phone in these situations.
Thank you so much!!! I like the idea of channeling his sexual adventurism in other directions as i am open to a lot of things, just not a threesome.
You both should have had the conversation about the open relationship before he made the account and offered to do stuff for others. I have to say that this doesn't look good. I do agree that he is at least bi
I actually sat him down, to ask what we both wanted we both decided we’re open to dating and then he said he wanted to see where it goes .
And him saying he didn’t wanna be exclusive before Xmas is whatever I guess, I just was confused as he kept texting me here and there and said he was curious about my life.
After our talk before I left for Xmas I wasn’t trying to reach out to him, it was him.
That’s why now I’ve left things but I’m wondering if blocking is an option
This and sometimes people just don’t like phone calls and are ok with low contact friendships. Give her space and let her contact you at her own terms to see if the friendship goes both ways. If you keep pressuring you’re going to drive her away for sure. You don’t sound like a bad guy just high maintenance and looks like she’s a low maintenance person when it comes to communication.
Never underestimate the impact your mental health can have on your life, I'm a massive proponent of therapy and mental health care for exactly these reasons. I'm glad for you that you found your happiness brother.
Dad really thinks he’s enough of a prize to outweigh his mistress-wife’s unhinged shittiness when he’s just another cheating homewrecker who followed his dick to greener pastures.
Clearly you have not been married and had small children with a self centered man who paid little mind to them but as a bread winner…..Marriage is to be for life, not a couple of years….He will find some young chick with his body and abandon his family creating a whole new batch of medicated people who can't love and commit….
Good point. I'm kind of hoping for advice about how to proceed though. I'm fairly certain he didn't sleep with her, but I've also haven't been in a monogamous relationship for a long time until I met him. And he chose monogamy. So idk. I'm confused ?.
This is exhausting, toxic and will seriously damage you. Get out now.
This is just some dude you're fucking? Get the hell away and block his violent ass.
It is possible that he might take it as an ultimatum, all you can do is make it clear that he needs to choose what is right for him. If his dream is to move overseas and become a Vlogger, than you respect that and you don't want to stop him.
Again, it comes down to a compatability issue… Maybe you two aren't right for each other, because your career & his dreams are in conflict. And that's ok, it happens.
It hurts, but it happens… Good Luck!
The temptation of who? OP? Who’s clearly stated her thoughts and feelings and intentions here on this post?
he does not respect you or your boundaries. he’s dismissing your concerns and attempting to gaslight you into thinking your the one at fault. this is coercive control and it’s abusive. his behaviour is unlikely to improve, i believe, since he appears to be digging in and not listening to you at all. you’re so young, you should be enjoying your 20s and not wasting your time with people who are going to manipulate and abuse you.