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I understand this so much from your husband’s point of view. I have been in a situation similar many times. Why throw the laundry on the floor when there is a laundry basket that you can throw them into to help make things easier on me? Why leave the scrubber in the sink where we’ll have to throw it out since it didn’t dry out properly and now who knows what kind of ick is on it cause it smells nasty and why would you want that on your dishes? Why empty a shampoo bottle and not just throw it out instead of leaving it on the floor of the shower? When you ask for the other person to do these little things it’s because you want a partner, not an adult child to clean up after. And having these requests ignored repeatedly, you begin to feel like a broken record. You also start to feel disrespected since your requests are small things that should be easy to do. Eventually, you just stop asking and feel upset which also leads to feeling angry. And when that person asks “what’s wrong” you just think about all the previous times you told them the exact same problem and how it wasn’t important enough before, so how is saying something now going to really make a difference? I understand memory issues. But what it ultimately comes down to is, do you love him enough to put thought into how the day to day things effect him? Or are you just living your life how you want without even considering how these little things are causing him extra stress? A partner is supposed to work with you to make things easier, not make things more stressful. He might be questioning whether he even wants to be in this relationship anymore and trying to decide if this reoccurring problem is a dealbreaker. If he doesn’t nitpick about everything you do and he’s just frustrated with these little things that he has asked you repeatedly, you might want to try changing these little things and turning them into a habit before it ends up becoming the thing that ends your marriage… if he can’t trust you to take these small requests seriously and you can’t (or won’t) adapt to them, then what happens when something bigger happens? He isn’t asking you to give him all the answers to the universe. He isn’t asking you to change yourself. What he’s asking is completely reasonable. And saying that you change things for a while and then stop is showing that you’re capable of changing, but then you don’t actually care enough (or you get lazy about it) to make it a permanent change. That in itself (from an outside perspective) shows that you are only doing it to get him to stop being upset with you so you don’t have to hear it. It should be that you change some of the things you do because you love him and care about his thoughts and feelings… people who truly want to change, do. People who don’t, change for a short period of time and go right back to what they were doing before. It’s the same behaviors you see with people who cheat (though cheating is worse and an extreme comparison, it’s still the same concept).
Why do you want to stay with someone who you know lied to you and most likely did have sex with this couple again. The lying itself would have me packing her bags and delivering them to the couples house. They can take care of her
I think OP just phrased things poorly. From what I understand he hooked up with this girl 2 years ago during a period when they had split up so he didn't actually cheat. This hookup just lied about the timing so it sounded like he cheated.
This isn’t going to change. Ignore that and continue or don’t ignore it and move on, but this isn’t going to change. I’m really sorry you’ve invested so much in someone that has trapped themselves into being a sonsband but unless he’s got definite plans to move out and get therapy to untangle the toxic way in which he’s been made to patch the holes in his mothers life, this is never going to change, you will always be the other woman in her eyes and he’s going to be perpetually stuck trying to get you two to get along, often, if not always, to your detriment.
What work is your fiance doing to regain your trust? Has he stopped drinking? Has he taken responsibility for his actions and choices? HAs he apologized? Has he worked with a therapist to understand his behaviours and make different choices in the future?
If you feel like you need to 'test' your partner, that means that you two desperately need to sit down and have a good and honest talk about your future together. You are adults, forget the phone apps and social media stuff and talk to each other. I know it sucks to be suspicious but whenever I hear someone say they put someone through a 'test' indicates to me that they don't know how to communicate.
When did these situations become normalized? I haven’t had the need to date for a decade, but I can’t recall these situations being common before.
Older cats can definitely learn to live peacefully, but with kittens it's a little different.
If a cat meets a new kitten they aren't familiar with, they'll be aggressive towards it to keep it away from them because they know if there's a kitten, then there's a mama cat somewhere, and they don't want to get in trouble with her for being around her kitten.
Once they raise there is no devil mama cat waiting in the wings to strike them down, they tend to chill out.
It sounds like you're trying to be offended over something that probably isn't even that deep.
It's a lot more complicated than that. OP is leaving out a lot of information. Their marriage is very troubled and the Asperger's is the least of it.
You should talk to the people at r/alanon
Isn't telling the truth the right thing to do?
Thank you so much
Therapy is what she needs. If she's in college (you mentioned a quiz) universities have mental health care on campus, normally.
It may be that she has something that heightens her emotions – for example I have ADHD and literally feel like I want to die when I have small setbacks, and may say something like that to close friends because that's honestly what I feel like. But I also have a lifetime of having these feelings and I know that I will logically not do it, and that they're going to pass. But I think most of the time I just want someone to understand just how intense my feelings are in these moments so i can feel understood.
Just remember that the feelings she's having are real and they matter. But also that it's possible to feel one way and behave in another.
No worries (and happy to help!), I wish you both all the best.
… he does not make enough money, you will not be able to afford anything on 53k and when this blows up in your face 5-10 years down the road for some reason be it divorce, you will be screwed, don't give up your job sis, don't let yourself be in a position where you can be controlled because you have to “trust” that he won't destroy your life.
What ChickieD wrote is the only way to go on this one. It sounds like he is at least having an emotional affaire and maybe a physical affaire with this gal. Both are cheating. You have to tell him you know about this and you can also demand to see his phone. Just make sure you he does not make an excuse and delete everything.