You want to have a relationship and fall in love. Your actions show that you are willing to put in honestly just a metric ton of effort to make that happen.
Her actions do not say the same, even if occasionally her words do. You've assumed a lot about this girl's life- but even if that stuff is all true, she doesn't really seem capable of being in a relationship at this point in her life. And if it's not, then she is just not that into you.
Try to be her friend, maybe, but expecting her to be a girlfriend feels like asking too much.
Cancel her gym membership then she won't have no gym bill to worry about. Honestly reading that was exhausting and you should of left her at the first sign of a red flag not twenty red flags later.
Dude. Why are you in this relationship? YOU seem like the one who needs higher standards in women. The fact that you think that the problem lies in you is indicative of your absolutley crushed self-esteem. You cannot have a relationship with someone who doesn't respect you or your capabilities.
I know this is easy to say from an outside perspective, but you aren't safe in this relationship, leave. This isn't a fair position for you to be in, especially at your age.
Are you dating my ex husband???? Lol I feel like he has had GFs in the past that are very emotional and I’m not saying anything negative about anyone, but the majority of women (especially in this age group) are very clingy and question everything. Most women are not okay with their partner going out and making plans without them. You sound like you are trusting, you enjoy your alone time, and you are building a healthy relationship but he sees the opposite. There is nothing wrong with how you feel and how you are in this relationship. He won’t change and he will always feel that you don’t love him because you aren’t doing the things that he is used to with his previous relationships. This will not go well in the long run. You probably won’t change your ways and neither will he.
Today seems to be a communication day on Reddit. This is the third post I’ve read that one of the partners has difficulty communicating and it’s caused a break up. So it it is the most important part of the relationship in front of sex. And it could be either way she could be saying that because she holds a grudge, but it also could be saying that because it’s true. I would work on it.
You want to have a relationship and fall in love. Your actions show that you are willing to put in honestly just a metric ton of effort to make that happen.
Her actions do not say the same, even if occasionally her words do. You've assumed a lot about this girl's life- but even if that stuff is all true, she doesn't really seem capable of being in a relationship at this point in her life. And if it's not, then she is just not that into you.
Try to be her friend, maybe, but expecting her to be a girlfriend feels like asking too much.
If you don't want a girlfriend why do you have one?
Cancel her gym membership then she won't have no gym bill to worry about. Honestly reading that was exhausting and you should of left her at the first sign of a red flag not twenty red flags later.
Dude. Why are you in this relationship? YOU seem like the one who needs higher standards in women. The fact that you think that the problem lies in you is indicative of your absolutley crushed self-esteem. You cannot have a relationship with someone who doesn't respect you or your capabilities.
I know this is easy to say from an outside perspective, but you aren't safe in this relationship, leave. This isn't a fair position for you to be in, especially at your age.
Are you dating my ex husband???? Lol I feel like he has had GFs in the past that are very emotional and I’m not saying anything negative about anyone, but the majority of women (especially in this age group) are very clingy and question everything. Most women are not okay with their partner going out and making plans without them. You sound like you are trusting, you enjoy your alone time, and you are building a healthy relationship but he sees the opposite. There is nothing wrong with how you feel and how you are in this relationship. He won’t change and he will always feel that you don’t love him because you aren’t doing the things that he is used to with his previous relationships. This will not go well in the long run. You probably won’t change your ways and neither will he.
Today seems to be a communication day on Reddit. This is the third post I’ve read that one of the partners has difficulty communicating and it’s caused a break up. So it it is the most important part of the relationship in front of sex. And it could be either way she could be saying that because she holds a grudge, but it also could be saying that because it’s true. I would work on it.