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You said you confronted him and you support him but you were angry about the clothes being stolen? If that was your number one issue then why didn't you ask him where your clothes are? Maybe that's where you should start…
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and it’s perfectly okay not to “respect your partner’s boundary”
I wouldn't bother with her anymore
Leave. Find someone less draining.
She SAYS she has zero interest sexually in him, but that's an easy thing to tell you. If she's normally been somewhat open about having met and communicated with him and the one time she didn't tell you about meeting him indicates that she's not telling the truth about something – or she's effectively lying by omission.
The fact that she was with him for 4 years means she's invested to some degree whether she's honest about that or not. I wouldn't waste anymore time on the relationship if I were you.
What if he's stepped out on his marriage with other women besides you?
I think the wife deserves to know.
You said you confronted him and you support him but you were angry about the clothes being stolen? If that was your number one issue then why didn't you ask him where your clothes are? Maybe that's where you should start…