I don’t have any worthwhile advice. I just want to say a slowed down relationship with someone who genuinely seems kind and into you seems great for you. Good luck.
How long have you guys been together? If it's been a longer period of time (sounds like it's been a few years) – how come you partner doesn't know the basics of your language..? Same goes for your mother.
His kids that didnt exist at that point. They werent born and for all he knew she was lying. She was already cheating so not a stretch to believe. But even taking her at face value its not acting in the best interest of the kids. Period. It was her responsibility because she was the only one that knew she had delivered his kids. He didnt which is my whole point. If he knew his kids were born and chose to walk away thats on him. But he didnt. He had no idea they existed until his mother told him.
If he would be very against it, and he finds out later, it's gonna be an issue.
I don’t have any worthwhile advice. I just want to say a slowed down relationship with someone who genuinely seems kind and into you seems great for you. Good luck.
How long have you guys been together? If it's been a longer period of time (sounds like it's been a few years) – how come you partner doesn't know the basics of your language..? Same goes for your mother.
Someone is ready for a baby and it ain't you. Rethink and then skedaddle.
His kids that didnt exist at that point. They werent born and for all he knew she was lying. She was already cheating so not a stretch to believe. But even taking her at face value its not acting in the best interest of the kids. Period. It was her responsibility because she was the only one that knew she had delivered his kids. He didnt which is my whole point. If he knew his kids were born and chose to walk away thats on him. But he didnt. He had no idea they existed until his mother told him.