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She'll find a way to justify it. If her precious boy 'cheated' it was only because OP wasn't meeting his 'needs' as a man or those 'nasty women' took advantage of him. These people are like that–if there is ANY mental gymnastics they can do to blame anyone other than their golden perfect child (especially if they can blame a woman) they will!
He is entitled to his opinion. He might feel the same way you do about your opinion. It's more about how he carries his opinion. It doesn't sound like he's trying to force you to have the same opinion so as long as both of you can converse respectfully I don't think it should cause issues.
Definitely tell him. Allow him to see how upset you are about it. I know if I had lost my ring I’d be inconsolable and my boyfriend would be trying to comfort me. If he’s a keeper he will understand. For next time try to remember to leave your ring at home or get a ring keeper for it, it’s dangerous to take a ring or any jewelry to the gym. And if the ring is over $1000 you can try and get it insured so that you don’t have to replace it from scratch.
For the sake of your health, I’d reduce the stress by deciding the marriage is over. You don’t have to tell him now and you don’t need to move now. But you have the peace of mind in knowing you’re done with him. Consult with some attorneys and get your finances in order.
I think that’s an unfair judgement. It’s about values and principles and they clearly don’t share the same set. Wanting to prioritise safety, retirement and success is not judgement. It’s just how some people are wired.
No. I'm not saying cheating is ok. I'm just saying if we could work through that then it makes no sense that he would drop me over this unless it isn't his idea. We've always been friends or partners but never nothing at all
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She'll find a way to justify it. If her precious boy 'cheated' it was only because OP wasn't meeting his 'needs' as a man or those 'nasty women' took advantage of him. These people are like that–if there is ANY mental gymnastics they can do to blame anyone other than their golden perfect child (especially if they can blame a woman) they will!
Same thing similar but is the dudes ex wife lol. I told him I'm outtie. I don't need that crap in my life.
You just described my MIL ? overbearing to the point of suffocation and wanting to control every little detail. Had he always been like this?
He is entitled to his opinion. He might feel the same way you do about your opinion. It's more about how he carries his opinion. It doesn't sound like he's trying to force you to have the same opinion so as long as both of you can converse respectfully I don't think it should cause issues.
Definitely tell him. Allow him to see how upset you are about it. I know if I had lost my ring I’d be inconsolable and my boyfriend would be trying to comfort me. If he’s a keeper he will understand. For next time try to remember to leave your ring at home or get a ring keeper for it, it’s dangerous to take a ring or any jewelry to the gym. And if the ring is over $1000 you can try and get it insured so that you don’t have to replace it from scratch.
Good luck!
Are you in therapy for your narcissism?
For the sake of your health, I’d reduce the stress by deciding the marriage is over. You don’t have to tell him now and you don’t need to move now. But you have the peace of mind in knowing you’re done with him. Consult with some attorneys and get your finances in order.
Break up with her dude…. She doesn’t give a fuck
I think that’s an unfair judgement. It’s about values and principles and they clearly don’t share the same set. Wanting to prioritise safety, retirement and success is not judgement. It’s just how some people are wired.
You're going to hell for making that comment. I'm coming with you for laughing out loud ???
Exactly she is gaslighting the crap out of him
You heard me.
No. I'm not saying cheating is ok. I'm just saying if we could work through that then it makes no sense that he would drop me over this unless it isn't his idea. We've always been friends or partners but never nothing at all