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Date: December 6, 2022
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You can't help him. You need to save yourself. Stop trying to rescue him and really evaluate what you are getting out of this relationship.
He's getting free housing and maid care.
Good idea
I'm not sure what's considered cheating. Like if we go out for drinks, is that cheating?
No 🙂
Personally, I would always want a signed document for consensual non-consent. Along with a safe word.
A signed document would only prevent you from potential legal consequences. And I get how asking for it is insulting.
He has mental health issues get him to therapy
Dump the leach.
She's controlling
Let put it this way
She was licking some some girl while other dude was dicking her down in both hole, and she was not thinking about you or was thinking about how naive and ignorant you are. you are here thinking how to save “relationship” while she's out there riding on some dick
Good enough explanation for you?
UpdateMe!
The fact that you ask 3 to 4 times before she gives in is worrying. That's coercion. Accept her no.
Do you also gift her with the better version of yourself on her birthdays?
You’re so kind, thank you! After reading everything it definitely has to be over for me.
That hurts….
Absolutely has already started.
Like I said before BF knew they were gonna get loud beforehand. I didn’t exclude music being part of how it got loud, why is it so hard to comprehend that it was inconsiderate of him to plan this all out knowing OP needed sleep for work?
If someone doesn’t make you feel good the majority of the time, the relationship is going downhill. He’s getting off on making you miserable. He knows you can’t change your past, which doesn’t even sound that dark. Even if he had a pure virgin who’d never seen a man before, he would find an issue with her.
Spare yourself the misery. “Since you can’t get over my “past,” it doesn’t seem we have a future together.” And get out.
If someone doesn’t make you feel good the majority of the time, the relationship is going downhill. He’s getting off on making you miserable. He knows you can’t change your past, which doesn’t even sound that dark. Even if he had a pure virgin who’d never seen a man before, he would find an issue with her.
Spare yourself the misery. “Since you can’t get over my “past,” it doesn’t seem we have a future together.” And get out.
your 20 you can have your stepmom in your life whether she is married to your father or not.
Thank you.
This man groomed you. His behavior was massively inappropriate. Tell your parents and your friends – you need support.
Its understandable how he decided to play as the victim, since what he is going through is really hard. But yeah that doesn't mean he has the right to play with other people's feelings.
It doesn’t sound like he was raised with these manners, so he may not be aware that this isn’t ok.
It might be helpful if you can delicately coach him on social norms
You wouldn’t be crossing a line to ask why he was holding on to your girls waist. And to make it clear to him that it’s inappropriate. Now that your girl knows what happened did she think what he did was inappropriate?
I think she needs serious therapy. She has grown up in a family where S abuse is normal. It is not. I do not think that child predators can change. You need to change her mindset. Only therapy can do that. When he gets out you have to report to authorities he has contact with children. You must protect them. It is vital.
I got a crackhead in my very distant acquaintance social circle
in her 40s, just got arrested breaking into the same place twice to steal stuff. People “helping” her with good intentions have enabled her. Even by giving her a place to stay seemingly enabled her worst impulses.
this is your future OP, cops kicking down your door with a warrant to come get your crack addict GF and search through all your stuff for drugs. I mean, your past is already crack addict exgf letting homeless people into your home, to smoke crack. Better check your valuables.
Ok
Have you two been having issues before he downloaded this app? I ask because you said he doesn't seem like a cheater…
To be clear i said no to the cutting board and gave it back
You asked a question – I answered.
Your too old for her. And you need to heal before you start something else.
How can she be your best friend at 19? What do you actually have in common? She is barely out of school and your what? Doing your masters? Phd? In another country? Your worlds apart.
Even if you were not as dysfunctional as your ex, you were in a very unhealthy relationship and need to heal before starting something else. Hopping from one relationship to another isn’t healthy.
Nope
You don’t trust him because you don’t know how to handle yourself in public while drinking? Ok.
Dude obviously needs lots and lots of therapy. I just happen to know first hand how absolutely awful urinary incontinence is. And all the judgements making him a pervert while it quite well might be an awful trauma kinda suck.
Tell her it's now her time to find out what she will do , then get the best lawyer , schedule all the best for talks ( there's a reason ) ,decide the best one , then follow all their suggestions as to how you proceed.
You’ve already met the kids?
Embrace that unicorn
I’ve just read your entire post. At no time did you mention being happy, or what the good parts of this relationship are. So my question is, what are you getting out of this relationship? Because nothing you’ve written suggests you’re getting any benefit out of it.
If she is spending more time talking to these guys than she is spending time with you, then you are not her primary relationship. And if yours isn’t the primary relationship, why are you together?
And she’s told you that if you don’t like it you should break up. So take her at her word. Break up. Don’t take a break. Break up.
When someone truly wants you, they make it clear.
If he wanted to … he would .
You are right to be upset, but you don’t have to tolerate it.
“I’m looking for a man who wants me and is willing to make the barest of efforts. That isn’t you. We are broken up.”
She cheating my man. Sorry. Send her divorce papers for valentine's
Get out and make some friends and stop feeling sorry for yourself. It sounds like a pretty great life to me. If you don't get enough sex, have an affair with Rosie Palms.
Oof, sorry this is getting downvoted. People on here are nuts. There's maybe not a huge benefit to going so if you and/or your husband feel weird about it I think it's a perfectly fine decision not to go.
But I feel like everyone telling you you're not over him and you clearly are more in love with him than you've ever been with your husband and he should preemptively divorce you since you're going to have an affair are just going totally off the rails and projecting all kinds of things that aren't in your post.
In a trusting relationship, this shouldn't be a big deal. I'm not saying your husband is a bad person for admitting he was slightly uncomfortable but he should be able to trust you to get coffee with an ex.
Well yeah you're right. You already know this is wrong. You know you need more time to grieve and heal from your previous relationship. Being with him just so you won't be alone is neither helpful to you or to him, on top of being massively selfish
nah you need the phone # connected to the owner
Your boyfriend is acting strangely. Like, what if you had a kid with someone else? Would he make you feel bad and hate your kid?
She hung out and danced and cozied up with a guy who was taunting you in front of her. Why do you like her? She was actively disrespecting you while you sat and watched. Then she asked you what was wrong. She's pushing your buttons and letting other people push your buttons. You don't do that to people you love.
You could always just take the phone back if she’s complaining about having to pay for it. No phone = no bill!
This is rape. Break it off with her. You don't even owe her an explanation.
Clown.
Then let her figure it out herself, if she’s gonna get burned while doing it then that’s on her. But you can’t dictate who they are friends with. Warn her nicely, then move on. There’s not much else to do at that point. The more you get agitated the more they’ll pester you.
And pls drop this friend if you don’t like them. If their friendship is causing this much anger then it’s time to let the friend go. If he’s really that bad your sister will find out eventually
It's getting on you from some where.
Seems like a RED FLAG. I understand it might be the heat of the moment or she prefers it raw. Save the date in your mind & talk to her about it like adults. On the safe side get yourself tested.
I wonder it might be a trap too. I said save the date in your mind incase it turns out as surprise pregnancy moment or she might attempt to stick that baby on you. Just be careful Bro.
THIS! I was looking for this comment in here about how a dirty dick and balls leads to UTI, vaginitis, yeast infections, and so much more. Even in cats, they get UTIs and pyometra if their mate has a dirty dick.
If you've got kids they probably don't speak to you and you can probably find them on r/raisedbynarcissists. Poor parenting is absolutely traumatic to children, it shapes the way their brain develops well into adulthood and contributes massively to poor mental and physical health outcomes in ways that can be managed and mitigated but can never truly be undone.
OP, it’s not you who’s throwing away the 6 years of relationship that you’ve had. She already threw it away by cheating on you and getting pregnant all the while acting around you as if nothing is different.
Please take screenshots of all those conversations And save them where she can’t get her hands on them. She has shown her excellent capability of lying to your face with you being none the wiser. So, when you break up with her, I would’n’t put it past her to lie and tell everyone that you were the abuser in the relationship etc. or you were the one who cheated. It’d be better if you talk to your friends and family about her cheating. That way, she won’t have the opportunity to get there first and spin a false narrative about You. She cheated on you. At this point you don’t owe it to her to lie in order to cover up her infidelity, especially when it’s not in your best interests.
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I don't know much about actially dealing with the system… but what country are you in? Here in the USA, every time I talked to people struggling to get their kids out of the system, it took months of court dates, years of frustration. A coworker spoke of supervised visits and how she hated the worker who was slow dragging things. I knew that mom for 2 years, she had been trying to get her kid back for 6.
In the USA, there are probably 100s of different rules as each state and each locality would have different rules. Your country may be different.
Have you seen a court document? Have you spoken to the aunt and uncle? Have you seen the child in question? Is there any evidence that this isn't entirely in her mind?
Yup!! I would tell him again NOT to waste his time and money with the clown suit bc you WILL have the venue staff turn him away
That is certainly one approach. However, I was trying to explain why someone might be uncomfortable about it.
Girl, don't fight that feeling. This is a reality check. It's your check that he is a selfish spoiled brat. You don't have one baby, you have two. He's an immature child, not a man. A man would stick to his wife and son and take care of everything you would ever need and more. You owe it to you and your baby that he deserves a good father figure in his life. His sperm donor isnt it. It's better you decide to cut ties now and get used to the idea of taking care of him solo because at least then you're not taking care of two children. Your husband sure as hell won't.
thanks for the validation. I’m looking into seeing a therapist, for this but mainly other reasons. In the meantime I guess I feel like I might have made a mistake ending things with him IF it wasn’t really assault. Meaning, I ended things because the minute I heard assault I panicked and ended it. I’m just really conflicted. I probably wouldn’t have ended things with him if it was more of just a miscommunication or him misreading the situation
Im 23f and always prefer lube. Bodies change. It shows he actually listens to your body. I consider that a compliment. Its okay, you don't have to be defensive. And if you're that concerned I reccomend an OBGYN to ease your nerves.
If this really happened your father sexually assaulted you.
If this is completely out of character your dad needs an urgent brain scan because he’s either a sexual predator or he has brain damage or a tumour on his frontal lobe.
He hurt you and your girlfriend should end things with you because you’re under-reacting. Your father shouldn’t be around any children – especially your own because he sexually assaulted you.
Bro wtf is that family dynamic. Makes me wonder what other weird stuff your dad did over the years.
Your additional income is funding her spending habit essentially.
I think you should just cut your loss man. Even if it’s not a big deal now you’re saving yourself the headache if it comes up again later.
She screen shot it and drunken text me it probably by accident because it was in my texts when I woke up to check on her.
Except that doesn’t make his choices to be a shitty father to one child and then turn around and show her that he is capable of being a good father when he chooses to be ok.
Until you are settled in a committed and trusting relationship, each of you should be using protection.
It’s just best practice to reduce risks for all sorts of things.
People do what they want to do regardless of if they are stressed, busy, tired, etc. Keep that in mind. She knows how to get in touch with you.
I literally said from the beginning that it's reasonable for OP to feel fomo and anxiety. And to be fair he should get a month off at some point in the future too.
Its pretty clear you've never been in a successful long term relationship. The division of labour can't be exactly 50-50 every minute of every day. Sometimes one partner takes on more. Another time the other partner takes on more. That's what it means to be in a happy, healthy relationship where you're a team.
OP is more upset because of fomo than anything else. He's said so in his post, he's bummed that his husband will have a month of relaxation, quality family time, cheap booze and beaches while he's working and caring for their kid. Which is understandable we are all human. But his husband isn't selfish whichever way you wanna twist it.
Turning this into a me vs. you and calling his husband names is not going to help anyone, it'll just cause bitterness. Its them vs. the problem. And the solution is for OP to take an equivalent vacation some time in the future where his husband handles the responsibilities or work and their kid.
To put it bluntly unless he has brain damage he knows it is wrong. Literally anytime you are not able to clearly tell him that you want to have sex, you are unable to consent. Anytime that he does anything sexual to you that you have not consented to is assault or rape.
Even a child understands you don't pour water down a sleeping person's throat. So it should be rather obvious you shouldn't be doing anything else to a person who is not awake and aware.
If he were sorry he would be freaking out because he raped you. If he is not freaking the f*** out then he is not actually sorry.
If you’re taking A&P, I assume you’re studying to go into the medical field. Why are you dating and taking medication advice from someone who is anti-pharmaceuticals?
That said, while his chocolate milk drinking habits are unhealthy, and convincing you to get off your insomnia medications was wrong, he’s not an AH for making his chocolate milk in the middle of the night when he was clearly taking several measures to minimize the noise (turning on the fans, going into the garage). He’s unhealthy and anti-science, but the milk drinking at least isn’t malicious.
You don’t need to get her agreement. It only takes one person to want out to end a relationship. Tell her it’s just not working out for you, you wish her well, but this is it, you’re breaking up.
See you at the gym brother
I really hope you are not that shallow. There are things to live for, people to love, a life before you that you have no idea what it may bring. We just buried my 84yo Grandfather. I needed him everyday. I loved him. I would have been broken if he thought I wasn’t worth living for.
So it’s okay your wife to put her son first but it’s soooo wrong when you put your kids first just the exact same way with her. Why is her son should be more important than your kids to you?
But she never told me that she was messing with other people. And idk if I believe that she was just trying to get the tickets. I mean, they fucked! I have no idea what they were actually talking about. I cut off everyone I was messing with immediately and she should’ve did the same thing.
My friend, you are a bit of an idiot in this particular case, which is alright. One can learn from these experiences
She, on the other hand, CHEATED on you, verbally ABUSED you, physically ASSAULTED you, and I highly doubt that's the end of absolutely unacceptable behaviors she's shown.
My man, you don't deserve this.
To me, it just sounds like he wants to try something new. After a couple years of the same ol’, I might want to broaden my repertoire, too.
It’s cool that you don’t want that, but are there other adventurous things you might try to draw his attention away from that?