Let's not pretend that you don't know that your girlfriend is going to cheat on you wait a minute I made a mistake your ex-girlfriend. She tried to make a deal so that she can get a hall pass you said no so she said okay do not fucking believe her. She's going to cheat she is just going to try to be better at hiding it
Simply say: “I'm going to do what you forced me to do but wouldn't yourself. I need to block my ex again” then block her number. After that, just leave.
We didn’t talk it out in detail, but it seems for her the idea of buying a house (if affordable) seems to be a life goal.
After 3 years together and in your 30s I would seriously expect a couple to sit down and talk it out, in detail! Neither of you is right or wrong. You are happy with the way things are? Good! She wants more? Good! But at the end of the day you need to sit down and discuss what you want to do long term and see if your plans are aligned.
That’s great. And please thank you brother. Good luck OP. I’m glad you’re putting yourself first, let this loser smoke all the weed with his home girl and her kids without u.
You could always discuss things changing when you move in BEFORE you move in. Set an expectation, offer to split utilities 50/50, just make sure he knows what makes you uncomfortable and that if you move in you’ll need it to be different ?
You are allowed to say “this is a complaint you should air to a friend or therapist but not to me. I got the information I need already and to put your emotions on me about my thing, is not fair to me. I get it. No need to remind me. “
Dude. Nobody deserves to be abused. Kick that shit to the curb. Do you live together?
If you guys can’t work this out on your own better start prepping for the breakup now.
Honestly though she should have given you more notice for this request and you should be able to talk about it without throwing a temper tantrum
The age gap isn’t big enough. Def go for someone in their 50’s next time and report back.
Let's not pretend that you don't know that your girlfriend is going to cheat on you wait a minute I made a mistake your ex-girlfriend. She tried to make a deal so that she can get a hall pass you said no so she said okay do not fucking believe her. She's going to cheat she is just going to try to be better at hiding it
Girl what are you doing? Do you have a mission to ruin every relationship you’re in? Your current boyfriend will have every right to hate this idea.
£7 or £10 depends on the size
Simply say: “I'm going to do what you forced me to do but wouldn't yourself. I need to block my ex again” then block her number. After that, just leave.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Pull your friends and family close around you and call all the lawyers.
Didn't you get the memo that being married means you're tied to that person for life? Lol!
We didn’t talk it out in detail, but it seems for her the idea of buying a house (if affordable) seems to be a life goal.
After 3 years together and in your 30s I would seriously expect a couple to sit down and talk it out, in detail! Neither of you is right or wrong. You are happy with the way things are? Good! She wants more? Good! But at the end of the day you need to sit down and discuss what you want to do long term and see if your plans are aligned.
That’s great. And please thank you brother. Good luck OP. I’m glad you’re putting yourself first, let this loser smoke all the weed with his home girl and her kids without u.
You could always discuss things changing when you move in BEFORE you move in. Set an expectation, offer to split utilities 50/50, just make sure he knows what makes you uncomfortable and that if you move in you’ll need it to be different ?
You are allowed to say “this is a complaint you should air to a friend or therapist but not to me. I got the information I need already and to put your emotions on me about my thing, is not fair to me. I get it. No need to remind me. “
What's weird is your judgemental tone. Do you think people just stay inside in winter??,