Very true. The same can be said for a woman, whatever she does with her body is absolutely nothing to do with any man. And the same also goes for people's boundaries, they're allowed to feel differently to each other. If a man doesn't like having a partner who doesn't like porn, he is very much entitled to leave. Same goes for a woman if her partner didn't like porn, she's entitled to leave too. But stamping over other people's boundaries in the name of “bodily autonomy” is wrong. If you aren't compatible with your boundaries, or capable of making common ground, then leave. You can't just disrespect someone else's boundaries and then go: “But what I do with my body is none of your business!”, because relationships just aren't built to have one party not respect the other and visa versa. Instead, if your partner has a boundary you are uncomfortable with then please don't stay in that relationship as all that happens is both parties get hurt.
Very true. The same can be said for a woman, whatever she does with her body is absolutely nothing to do with any man. And the same also goes for people's boundaries, they're allowed to feel differently to each other. If a man doesn't like having a partner who doesn't like porn, he is very much entitled to leave. Same goes for a woman if her partner didn't like porn, she's entitled to leave too. But stamping over other people's boundaries in the name of “bodily autonomy” is wrong. If you aren't compatible with your boundaries, or capable of making common ground, then leave. You can't just disrespect someone else's boundaries and then go: “But what I do with my body is none of your business!”, because relationships just aren't built to have one party not respect the other and visa versa. Instead, if your partner has a boundary you are uncomfortable with then please don't stay in that relationship as all that happens is both parties get hurt.
Or expect any of your kids to trust you around their children when you just kicked out one of your own.