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Date: October 10, 2022
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Yeah, we walk away from men with kids, because we are either child free intentionally for reasons that are none of your business, or have already grown children with no interest in our wants and needs taking a back seat to a kids needs.
Tell her, and be prepared for her to walk away from you for being a lying jackwaggon
Yeah, we walk away from men with kids, because we are either child free intentionally for reasons that are none of your business, or have already grown children with no interest in our wants and needs taking a back seat to a kids needs.
Tell her, and be prepared for her to walk away from you for being a lying jackwaggon
Thanks, I don’t think we’d work out anyways but I still want to try. I’m hoping it’s just her not liking to say “no” to people cause she does this pretty much every time she’s gonna say no to something, still I find it super annoying. I’ll ask her about it later this week
Okay this pretty elaborate but pretend to sell your house in a private sale to a friend. Tell her you guys will be downsizing and look at places she can afford. Don't with her to sign the lease, tell her you'll be there to sign later. Hopefully you know a realtor you can get in on the situation. Then say the sale went fast and move all her stuff in for her but leave your own stuff at home, maybe do it while she's at work and say “oh honey I would never dream of making you do that! Just let me handle it, I want my woman taken care of!” Rhat way she doesn't see your shit NOT being packed. And then bam, she's out of your house and into her own place. Then change the locks at your house and make sure you have cameras set up and your dog is microchipped in your name.
How is he supposed to do that if he is your carer? Seems like he has an adult sized anchor around his neck that would keep him from having any relationships. Maybe you should quit getting involved in things that are absolutly none of your concern. Can't have normal friends when someone is holding him back from a normal life.
Same for me, sadly. Lol
Your wife sounds like a piece of shit.
Of course. I did not include everything in my post that happened but I assure you that if I felt as though this was a normal break up I wouldn't have posted.
Otherwise though, do you have any thoughts you would like to share?
The only thing more important than your marriage is your own sobriety. You can't keep that if your partner is using. Care for yourself first. You can't save him, and you know that deep down.
Do not listen to this nonsense above. You were robbed of honesty. You know, that’s why she hid it and you feel this way. They always act like the past is the past. But she’ll always be comparing you to every guy she’s been with, which is your future. If you don’t add up because your not enough or into whatever, that’ll be your fault moving forward. So it’s not the past, it’s history which we are doomed to repeat if we don’t learn from. Plus the lack of empathy for cheating makes her infinitely more likely to cheat on you.
Eviction.
Sue. Him.
She’s not wrong. Babies grow out of things insanely fast. Not wanting to waste money is her goal and she’s not saying never but she’s saying not right now.
The fact you can’t accept that feels entitled to me.
Can he visit you? Why does he live with his mother and not his wife? Did you two ever live together? I think for now you should go back home
Thank you for your advice, I appreciate how reasonable it is, I’ll take it on board, it’s really thoughtful and communicating my intention in this situation would’ve been very wise, thanks a lot.
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Also do you really love him or just love the idea of what you thought you had.
Their is true grief in a loss like the life you were planning. But it’s not healthy if it’s not productive grief.
Reality is these actions he has done. You deserve better. You don’t want someone you can’t trust.
The truth is maybe they got together 6 days later but he didn’t just form that attachment that day. He was provably in an emotional affair with this person. They turned his head and he didn’t even have the respect after 2 years to have a basic conversation with you to break up.
Then he turns to you first chance when he is not happy with oppps karma..
Um no. There are good loyal loving men in this world. Make space in yourself to find them. Spend your energy on developing into an amazing successful person and put yourself in spaces to meet other amazing people.
Well isn't that what all wives do?
Harsh
For the price of one night at a hotel you could buy a really nice vibrator. Invest in your friendships and yourself. Don’t settle for a quick fix.
Several things come in my mind reading this :
Why not simply use condoms until the pills are effective again ?
Maybe you should look for contraceptive you could use instead of her ? This way it won't be an issue if she forget the pill
Also, maybe you could try non penetrative sex : There are a ton of things you could do that are very fun and doesn't involve risking having kids doing so
this has crossed my mind, especially when she says anyone who thinks otherwise about the situation is probably cheating or doesn’t even car ab you in the first place. so essentially i “don’t care” ?
Lol so break up
If it doesn’t matter then why does finding the best way matter? Just tell him whatever you’ve got to tell him. You know it won’t go anywhere and that he doesn’t like you. So get it off your chest however you want, it’s just for you.
If you’re so focused on the game you need her to act like your mother because you play it compulsively, she is right. She’s also completely valid for wanting you to have some discipline like an adult. Do yourself a favor and show her you’re serious about getting your priorities straight before she’s tired of it. Unplug the damn thing and put it away so it’s not right there and you’re forced to go throughout your day being productive. If you can’t do that then you have a serious compulsion problem.
You definitely need to just tell him exactly what your title says ASAP. If you're withholding relations he might get the wrong idea and think thats its because of something he did wrong and at that point the conversation will be forced and more dramatic than it needs to be.
I understand why you're here asking this. Its going to be a potentially difficult conversation. But bringing it up sooner rather than later is best for everyone.
BTW if you decide/ realize that you don't want kids at all for the foreseeable future, then you may need to do the selfless thing and let him go. End things amicably.
Dragging things along and wasting his youth when he clearly wants to start a family is cruel.
Doormat lol
He looked startled and said that he didn’t know he was doing it and I woke him up when I sat up
Bullshit.
He was silent for a bit and then told me that he knew the first time he did it and said he thought it would be a fun and new way to initiate sex, but he swears up and down they he didn’t know this time.
More bullshit.
We talked about it for a while longer and he said that he wouldn’t lie to me like that
This is the most bullshit.
Bottom line, this guy is molesting you in your sleep and can't even get his story straight as to whether or not he was doing it while he was asleep (he wasn't) or doing it on purpose as a way to initiate sex. Either way this is a huge violation of your boundaries and I wouldn't feel safe sleeping anywhere near this dude again.
This is dealbreaker material. If you can't trust your boyfriend enough to fall asleep near him then that is a sign you need to get out of this relationship ASAP.
One good relationship rule of thumb is to never make any big decisions while pregnant or within the first year of a child's life. Hormones are just flying all over the place for many months after childbirth and combined with the inherent sleeplessness no one is on their best behavior during this period. Having a baby is just really, really hard on a relationship. But if you can both pull yourselves together and commit to the greater good (not destroying your child's family) it'll get better. You just can't judge any relationship during the maelstrom that is procreation and its aftermath. If by this baby's third birthday you still can't get things on track that might be the time to reconsider counseling. You'll find that regardless of “against her culture” when faced with divorce most people will at least try it. Good luck
Boundaries are allowed. I don’t want my boyfriend to watch another woman’s body, and listen to her moaning. It’s gross to me, and it’s objectifying. So many studies prove how bad porn is to the brain.
You’re taking this personally when it has nothing to do with your own relationship. Personal boundaries are allowed. That’s why you talk about them in the beginning of a relationship, and see if you’re compatible.
You decide which is a bigger priority: him or having a dog.
Why would anyone hack his Tinder to begin with? Couldn't they just create a fake profile? Not like they can meet up w/ any of the girls in person.
Are you his girlfriend or a journalist writing an article about him? This is way too much on his part. You DO put in the effort to ask questions and take an interest but he is upset that you don't use the exact right words. I am frustrated for you reading this.
You deserve to relax and enjoy a relationship, not feel nitpicked on every word you choose and thought you express. He will never be satisfied and you will never feel good enough. You can do better.
Maybe it's resentment over something else, but I feel like there's definitely more issues in your relationship if the two of you are this upset over bent blinds.
Move on. She is still not honest with you. When you cannot believe what she says, well there is no point.
I think that was your personal boundary and instead of hearing you out, she stood on that hill and died on it. Now you know one of your dealbreakers. Its not that serious. And I'd block her friends, they have no right to try to mediate, they cursed you out n shit, they sound annoying. If my bf says he don't think I should be wearing whatever to a certain place then I'll change depending on how bad it is. Compromise imo. Yall shouldve had that deal breaker figured out before getting into a relationship but life is trial and error so f.i. I'm sure if you were wearing something weird and she told you to change, she'd expect you to change. I've seen women complain about their partners outfits often.
Condoms are a thing, tbf.
Do you feel he is cheating? Do you feel he is being dismissive of you concerns? Do you feel he is being deceptive? Do you feel you can trust him?
If any of these questions give you pause, then is this relationship for you?
If she’s suggesting another guy that she already knows…get out. If it’s just a fantasy and there is no Mr. 2, then decide whether or not you can deal with it. It might be fun in the right scenario.
The problem is I feel like she should have asked me before she did it and put my name on it.
Now, if my dad's wife starts making more effort with me (which I don't really want) it's going to be kind of unwelcome.
If she has asked me I would have probably said no or redirected from me getting the credit and instead told her to put my Dad's name on it and make it not from us at all.
No. However, if he consistently works to get better and you want to try again later, there is no reason you can't. You can reward good behavior.
I had a coworker 25 years ago who came to work as I was leaving. She had been divorced for several years and was finally letting her ex-husband pursue her again as he had finally checked off all the boxes on a lengthy list. Her first several meeting with him were Sunday mornings, in church.
We did see them at a family function this weekend. SIL said hi and asked how I was doing. I responded in the same tone and that was that. BIL was visibly avoiding me the entire time but I still had a good time at the party overall.
Thank you for your input. I appreciate you taking your time to read and respond. It's going to maybe take some more time and self healing on my part but it's doable.
Never said he planned everything, I said he took the initiative before. There’s a difference. & we definitely do take turns planning dates.
The way i’ve been seeing it is that he’s not putting in any effort to celebrate this, nor showing interest. Never said he must plan and pay for everything lol. To me there’s just something lacking from him on this.
You aren't gonna let anyone be friends with anyone, that's controlling. You should just end it if you're uncomfortable with it, because I would. To me it's not worth the headache.
This makes me extremely happy my SO and I separate our finances. Dude wants to golf. Let him get a membership if he can afford it. If he is going weekly anyways the membership could end up saving money.
A question you should ask is what have you done for him that makes him feel appreciated too? My ex wife never did anything par from eating food and leaving dishes around the house and expected royal treatment in return.
Both of you should work on being better to each other and not run to reddit contemplating divorce over a golf membership.
A friend of mine that's a female also ruined her sex life by saying to a guy she was dating that “He doesn't have the biggest dick, she's had, but has the best personality out of everyone she's been with” idk why possessed her to say such shit to a man but they're no longer with the guy. You my guy went and asked this shit… smh Rule number 1 never ask a woman or man a question whose answer you're not ready for Rule number two, always follow rule number 1 no matter what!!
Good luck OP ??♂️ well now that you found out, stop fucking around next time lol
His actual cash flow is probably about 300 a month. He should get a job
For sure, I don't feel it's breakup worthy as long as she stops doing it.
I wasn't blackout drunk, I can remember everything but it's all kind of blurry. The thing is that I do want to move on, but I feel like I can't without knowing what exactly I did wrong to upset him. Maybe I could if we hadn't had sex, but I haven't had enough partners to just think of this as a casual thing and I did tell him that before we did hookup.
Once invidelity, should be gone. Trust is very hard to get back afterwards.
Should I be worried?
Dunno
If this is actually about tweets, yes you need to grow up.
If this is about her not being respectful but asking you to respect her then this is a bigger problem.
You both are supposed to be adults. Mutual twitter likes and friendships of the opposite gender sex is a thing.
Literally no one is worth stressing over.. tweets.
*His partner is nearly 40
And she doesn’t trust him to be alone with another woman.
It seems to me like you both need some serious perspective. Going to Tijuana for a day is not going to put you at any serious risk. Not going to Tijuana for a day will not cost you your individuality. You are both pointlessly overdramatizing this situation.
In the end, you are still right. He is, in fact, being too controlling over an exaggerated risk. But this is not an issue of losing who you are, and jumping straight for the big philosophical arguments like this is not helping your case.
Excellent post! I can’t even believe some asshat came by here to claim this was just man behavior. No, it fucking is not! This is selfish asshole behavior, which many of us women figure out when we date good men, comparable to the (hopefully very infrequent) occasional asshats. My fiancé and I both have pretty high sex drives. Sometimes on a different clock. However, we respect each other and do not push, prod, and coerce if one of us is in the mood while the other isn’t. Case in point, last week I came home from the last 12 hour overnight shift out of three days in a row. I was so exhausted I couldn’t even think straight. Crashed into bed and it soon became apparent that my fiancé was in the mood but I was painfully tired. Instead of being a shithead, or trying to coerce or even whine about it, he put the covers on me, tucked me in, kissed me goodnight on the cheek. He didn’t even ask for me to say no, he just read my body language and felt my sleep took priority over sex at that time. A good man cares about their parent even more so than getting their own rocks off.
I mean pregnancy is big enough evidence you don’t need really anything else just confirmation/proof probably is the only thing she will ask for
I had a BF in college that did this. No matter what I said he kept doing it. It escalated into me becoming violent. Dumping him is the best thing I've ever done.
If going out to “do her thing” means seeing other people, he should just break up now and tell her to have a nice life. No sense in staying together if one person wants a pass to hook up with other people. I wouldn't wait for someone to realize they miss me.
He's jealous and you have outgrown him. He knows it too.
yeah no, you're, again, doing this because he ain't chasing you anymore.
need a train ticket for the Restraining Order Peninsula?
How long has it been since she was diagnosed?
I have adult onset T1, and it was very emotionally hard for the first few months to adjust.
You should read Why does he do that? It'll help you recognize manipulation tactics
Sounds like he broke you down and love bombed you which is a very common manipulation tactic
Wait for her to wake up again.
Tell her she has 1 chance to be completely honest with you about it all.
Failure to do that will result in divorce, he friends and family being told that she cheated on you, and you kicking her out, and destroying her art (if it’s not finished it doesn’t have value, and as she’s not working bringing in any money, even if it did, it would belong to you not her)
Then once she tells you, you give her 30 minutes to pack her shit and leave. When she complains that you said 1 chance, tell her yes, and the concession for telling you the truth is that she can take her art.
You then tell her family and friends.
And then file for divorce.
There is no reason to keep it up. The relationship ended, why none of their business. I would suggest actively working on dropping the habit of being verbally abusive. Get out of this relationship but work one the habit so it doesn't spread to your next one.
Don't gaslight yourself or pressure yourself, he should NOT be pressuring this subject and you might end up doing it just to please him and that will cause you trauma in the long run, this is very concerning OP I hope your okay, do you have a supportive community around you or are you isolated to your husband?
Hoping you are safe and happy now ?