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You’ve been trying for years ? Try harder ? She’s not for you, she made it clear. You’re losing opportunities to live great love stories by always looking back towards her. And she doesn’t love you in that sense. You’re a friend, nothing more, and it’s so clear that even in between her relationships nothing started between you two.
Sorry it’s brutal but I know for a fact that « I can’t stop loving her » is the sentence of someone who deep down doesn’t want to give up on the impossible and can’t handle having thoughts about the person without jumping back to their fantasies. You can. You don’t really want to, it’s been an important part of your life since now and she’s the only one you want a serious relationship with because you know her. You can imagine how marvellous it would be to be with her, being her friend. But these are just fantasies. You don’t know her as a girlfriend, except for the story she tells. Maybe she would end things with you within two months. And even then you’d be like « what did I do wrong, it’s all my fault, she’s so perfect ». Forget all that. She’s not perfect for you. She has a big flaw that you don’t look down into you and accept. She doesn’t love you.
Obviously you tried without cutting ties with her, even temporarily. It’s time to do it. And the idea of writing her a letter, protecting her feelings so that she doesn’t feel guilty is also the thought of someone who loves her too much and give himself too much importance. You’re a great friend to her, so if she likes you, she’ll understand perfectly if you just tell her you have to move on and it’s impossible when you are around her and too involved in her love life. This could definitely be a text conversation or if you want it to be a letter, well it’s 5-6 short sentences. She has friends, she has a boyfriend, she’ll be okay. Worry about yourself first. You’re going to have to work hard on letting her go completely and you have a choice to make for the other friends of this same group. You’re going to have to see them individually from now one, or without her, at least until you actually no longer have feelings for her. Find a solution.
Good luck. Don’t worry. I know people hate to hear it, but literally, a lot of the persons who were so hooked up on someone who didn’t want them at 21 did find their great love afterwards and they are no different than you. The only other option is to develop an obsession and become mentally ill. You know it’s not what you want for your life.
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Yeah man i feel your dilemma. I think we all go through it one day in our lifetimes. It sucks.
All in all i would say your relationship was fairly short man. Only 2 months you barely got to know one another Just take it with your chin held high and use it as an experience for the future
no i get it…i just want them to feel my pain and stop doing what they are doing..better yet go back in time and make things not happen. But it just feels so wrong moving out and basically giving them space to live their best life while i have to deal with my Degree and a breakup a bad one at that. I will have no girlfriend anymore u know. 7 and a half years we did stuff in the evening or freetime and now im all alone . No plans for the future no going out to things only couples can do and more and more things like that. Itwould be easier if we jsut broke up but she still gets to do these things you know`? She got some1 to watch things with,go out and so on…for her it's a step up and for me it's being thrown down the ladder.
Sure, your marriage could have been fixed if the both of you were willing to work on it. He isn’t, so the best use of your energy now is on accepting the new reality and proceeding with the divorce as soon as possible.
That's a risk you run for any SO. Nearly a year is the time you should be bringing your other to events if you take them seriously as a partner.