Diamonds are a scam. On that note, I still disliked my engagement ring immensely. I love black hills gold and it's a family thing. His first ring was nothing I wanted but he tried. I picked my own out years later, just this last summer after 14 years. It's ok to dislike it but you're marrying the man, not the ring.
OP could try telling him she suffering from a generally female reproductive ailment like PCOS or endometriosis. I’d like to find out what he responds with…
It’s not (about) you! You’ve done nothing wrong. Your parents lesser treatment (at its fairest) is likely a result of being wildly unprepared to be parents to you so young. It’s not about you, or your fault. Be confident in your self worth!
You’ll likely be an “auntie” more than a sister. Ensure it by not letting her make you into a surrogate parent with much of the work, but none of the credit of parenting. Shorthand for develop your independence and create separation now in this regard to avoid the issue in the future.
I consider it being an ambassador for your partner, so you're doing your best to make them look as good as possible.
It also shouldn't be a very hard thing to do if you truly love them.
The only exception would be if you're becoming unhappy for one reason or another, then it's perfectly fine, frankly something to be encouraged, to speak privately about your feelings with someone you trust.
I consider it being an ambassador for your partner, so you're doing your best to make them look as good as possible.
It also shouldn't be a very hard thing to do if you truly love them.
The only exception would be if you're becoming unhappy for one reason or another, then it's perfectly fine, frankly something to be encouraged, to speak privately about your feelings with someone you trust.
I guess I’m just more looking to find the peace of mind that he didn’t, because that would have been the last person I ever expected to cheat on me, and his loyalty was a big part of why I loved him. Especially since I had told him the immense pain that I had from my bf before him having cheated on me, and he had said he understood because he had also been cheated on.
“Throw away acct so it doesn't ruin the surprise (he doesn't know).”
This is a very bad idea. Do not surprise someone with an unannounced visit – there are so many logistical elements in play that this is far more likely to go badly than well. He may make other plans (especially since it's his birthday), he may not even be around (maybe he decides to take an impromptu trip himself).
The Gift of the Magi is not a heartwarming tale of love and sacrifice, it's a cautionary tale about how a lack of communication and a fixation on surprise for its own sake can cause serious, entirely avoidable harm. You still get to give your boyfriend a fun surprise: it will be an exciting surprise when you tell him you're visiting rather than when you show up. Plus he gets a couple weeks of excited anticipation, and can plan on his end so that things can be even better for your visit than showing up unannounced. There is literally nothing to gain and everything to lose by trying to engineer this as more of a surprise.
As for your parents, you just tell them in a matter-of-fact way. Because you're telling them about a fact – you're going on a trip for these days in April. It's not a request for permission nor a negotiation, it's a boring recitation of factual information. If they say you can't go, apologize for being unclear and sounding like you were asking for permission; you're not, you're telling them about what you will be doing. If they try to pick a fight, exit the conversation.
Yeahh we did go outside to think of smth we could do , he told me he’ll see when a guy he works there ( they r friends ) he’ll ask him about it and he could tell I was bumped out so he hugged me which was nice but yeah we’ll be fine it was nice until then I picked him up made him up and we listened to some music on the way.
That's not what love looks like
Diamonds are a scam. On that note, I still disliked my engagement ring immensely. I love black hills gold and it's a family thing. His first ring was nothing I wanted but he tried. I picked my own out years later, just this last summer after 14 years. It's ok to dislike it but you're marrying the man, not the ring.
Good luck. I hope you find healing and are able to create a good healthy life for yourself and your baby.
OP could try telling him she suffering from a generally female reproductive ailment like PCOS or endometriosis. I’d like to find out what he responds with…
No great answers, but my thoughts are:
It’s not (about) you! You’ve done nothing wrong. Your parents lesser treatment (at its fairest) is likely a result of being wildly unprepared to be parents to you so young. It’s not about you, or your fault. Be confident in your self worth!
You’ll likely be an “auntie” more than a sister. Ensure it by not letting her make you into a surrogate parent with much of the work, but none of the credit of parenting. Shorthand for develop your independence and create separation now in this regard to avoid the issue in the future.
Hope that helps!
I consider it being an ambassador for your partner, so you're doing your best to make them look as good as possible.
It also shouldn't be a very hard thing to do if you truly love them.
The only exception would be if you're becoming unhappy for one reason or another, then it's perfectly fine, frankly something to be encouraged, to speak privately about your feelings with someone you trust.
I consider it being an ambassador for your partner, so you're doing your best to make them look as good as possible.
It also shouldn't be a very hard thing to do if you truly love them.
The only exception would be if you're becoming unhappy for one reason or another, then it's perfectly fine, frankly something to be encouraged, to speak privately about your feelings with someone you trust.
I guess I’m just more looking to find the peace of mind that he didn’t, because that would have been the last person I ever expected to cheat on me, and his loyalty was a big part of why I loved him. Especially since I had told him the immense pain that I had from my bf before him having cheated on me, and he had said he understood because he had also been cheated on.
“Throw away acct so it doesn't ruin the surprise (he doesn't know).”
This is a very bad idea. Do not surprise someone with an unannounced visit – there are so many logistical elements in play that this is far more likely to go badly than well. He may make other plans (especially since it's his birthday), he may not even be around (maybe he decides to take an impromptu trip himself).
The Gift of the Magi is not a heartwarming tale of love and sacrifice, it's a cautionary tale about how a lack of communication and a fixation on surprise for its own sake can cause serious, entirely avoidable harm. You still get to give your boyfriend a fun surprise: it will be an exciting surprise when you tell him you're visiting rather than when you show up. Plus he gets a couple weeks of excited anticipation, and can plan on his end so that things can be even better for your visit than showing up unannounced. There is literally nothing to gain and everything to lose by trying to engineer this as more of a surprise.
As for your parents, you just tell them in a matter-of-fact way. Because you're telling them about a fact – you're going on a trip for these days in April. It's not a request for permission nor a negotiation, it's a boring recitation of factual information. If they say you can't go, apologize for being unclear and sounding like you were asking for permission; you're not, you're telling them about what you will be doing. If they try to pick a fight, exit the conversation.
It's anti social deviant behavior. Yes, wrong
So you never went to his house?? Weird.
Yeahh we did go outside to think of smth we could do , he told me he’ll see when a guy he works there ( they r friends ) he’ll ask him about it and he could tell I was bumped out so he hugged me which was nice but yeah we’ll be fine it was nice until then I picked him up made him up and we listened to some music on the way.
Dude you're in a relationship with an abusive cheat, you need to leave asap.