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She's emotionally holding you hostage. If she's suicidal then you need to call the police and get her into treatment her emotional wellbeing is NOT your responsibility
Get therapy to overcome your paranoia and get a job. Lots of work from home jobs as well. Stop whining and handle business
The last woman I saw who badgered and coerced her boyfriend into having a threesome with her and a girl she wanted (She is bi), came running here crying about how the girl was better at sex than her and pleased her bf much better; and she will never get the site of her man, eyes rolling and moaning as that girl rode him out of her head. It's all fun and games til some one gets hurt.
Psssh. What a joke. That's a horrible sub, it doesn't give the full picture of people with BPD. Not everyone's experience is your experience. But thanks for trying to write everyone with BPD as the same.
I don’t think this is worthy of ending my relationship over. We truly have a great relationship so I just want to explain aftercare to him more and find a solution but it does make sense about what you said about his phone. He spends far more time on it than me.
Bye bye
I'd venture their marriage never even really started. Dudes been sleeping around their entire time together likely.
Unless you are the one to cut him, he'll be the one making the decision. And as far as I can see, he'd be doing the world a favour.
If they can manage honesty and respect with just one person then they should probably keep the condom on either way
I mean yes. I do. If he was upfront from the start she really has no ground to stand on here.
Just divide the place into an area for you and one for him. Keep yours clean and only share rent. If he comes whining than he can shove it.
This strikes me as overly clingy (especially the love song), but not necessarily malicious in the absence of any other concerning behaviour. It does sound like there is an interest level mismatch here, and it's a perfectly valid reason not to go on a second date in and of itself.
The birth control thing is unremarkable, as others have said.
Oh I know the change hasn't happened yet but I have taken the steps to improve. I never said she couldn't be annoyed but the way I see it, starting therapy is a big deal for me and it shows i'm attempting to improve.
With reference to the train v coach, my logic isn't irrelevant if the trains are not running. How would it be right to just agree with her and book a train that won't go ahead because of strikes so we miss the event we have tickets for?
So you ghosted your girlfriend a whole day while om a trip and have the audacity of calling her clingy????? No dude she was worried about you why you treat her like crap? It takes 2 second to send a message telling her that you're okay and want to forget about the phone for a day. You messed up
I call BS. This lie is to stupid for words.
Damn. Well you are one tough cookie!
Not worth the hassle.
Anyone who can’t love you for you and requires you to join a cult isn’t worthy of your time or respect, let alone your love.
End it with him, and find someone else who will treat you with the love and respect that you deserve.
Did he?? Source please.
This is incorrect on both many moral and legal ways I won't even bother directing it.
Maybe he's gay.
He excessively drinks when he's sad and it's hard to have a serious conversation.
Huge red flag. He should be on his best behavior this early in the relationship, but he's getting so drunk he can't communicate effectively.
and start a business with him on the side.
Red Flag #2. It is way too early for him to be suggesting you go into business together and tie your finances together.
He offered to support me as he sees a future with me and wants to start a family together one day.
Oh no no no. It is 2 months in and far too soon to be talking about marriage and family and relying on him as your support. Red Flag #3. Girl, GTFO today…now. This guy is bad news.
I haven’t looked far enough to see if anyone else is suggesting this but… once you have your ducks in a row regarding this inevitable divorce, if you emotionally feel you can stomach it… consider reaching out to this woman, with absolutely every single bit of the information you have.
Your husband sounds unhinged regarding her and I think she should at least be armed with the knowledge of the full scope of the situation. I don’t want to push dramatic true crime narrative here but you just really never know with men who are behaving this way. Always better safe than sorry.. and tbh, serving him the embarrassment he deserves is a nice bonus.
Do you really think he wasn’t in on that? That he didn’t call and get them to plant such a good story of him saying he won’t go with out you in TEXT message?
Well it's clear that I can see she doesn't respect me.
Nah put her in a hotel. She either doesn’t love you or wants someone to fool around with because of the “thrill”. Either way—time to let go. She already cheated on you and I honestly don’t believe it wasn’t more than once. Her BPD doesn’t warrant her to cheat. It really doesn’t. You don’t just cheat on accident. Either way number 1 is the option.
Bet his friend said bro I have a date so i got to cancel
So….I don't want to tell you what to do but my SO and I also took a year long break and I didn't date nor sleep with anyone. If your plans are to try again with that person then dating and sleeping around is not what you do. I'm a very antisocial person and after putting up with his bs honestly I couldn't even fathom trying to date anyone. I enjoyed my peace while it lasted honestly. My point being is that your wife wasn't working on herself and just simply wanted to sleep around. I'm sorry this happened to you.
It’s amazing how many creepy older guys manage to get involved with young women and almost straight away completely ruin it for themselves by being.. well, themselves ?. Glad to see you’ll be leaving him
I’m the same way. You’re not alone!
You don't know that. A short week could mean anything. Also, there is no response from OP related to any parts of my comments.
As I said, fish and guests stink after three days. I love my parents a lot, but I'm an introvert, and three days is my absolute max for them to visit.
I'm confused why OP doesn't just solve this problem by going to visit her parents. Why do they have to come visit her?
If you can afford it then a therapist would be very helpful to work through this with, so you can divorce her.
This can’t be real
I guess we'll just agree to disagree, personally I find that level of insecurity as a red flag in and of itself.
Hey at least you get to keep your house and ur money. Later on if you found her cheating and u divorce half of ur shit would be gone to a dirty Cheater.
Send them the videos.
Many people dont like taking medications for medical conditions but they do it. Refusing to do something which is medically necessary is just stupid. This is no different, poor hygiene can lead to a plethora of medical issues
I’ll honestly just tell you what you’re asking for because it’s the truth. You’re being crazy and everything will be fine.
Shit happened a few years ago based on petty nonsense. She won the fight but there’s nothing to be embarrassed about now.
Now, if you get together and she’s an asshole, then that’s that. If you’re both mature, you move on. You could even break the ice with self deprecating humor and then tell her you want to clear the air and be cool, because if things continue as they are, you’re going to be seeing a lot of each other.
Think realistically: if you go down the path love, marriage, and kids, the sex life she wants is going to be the compromise you make. It's likely to get way worse, just end it and find someone that matches you.
Oh look… it’s the consequences of your own actions.
If you behave like a despicable & terrible parent, you don’t have the right to get mad when your kid hates you for it.
Was she with them, when she cheated as well? If yes, then you should ask her to stop. You know, words alone have little meaning. Especially from a liar
“Remourse” should be shown by doing something inconvenient to repair damage she has caused by her actions. Otherwise she is not remourseful, and she will cheat on you again (though next time she might be better about hiding it).
No, your untreated mental illness is scary.
Oh honey… ?♀️ If you don’t see the red flag waving in front of you then you shouldn’t be dating
It really is so stressful. Pets are a huge part of our lives. I have told him multiple times that I will leave him if he keeps threatening my cat but he says I’m being unreasonable. ?
I cant find it.
It shouldn't be about who is doing more. He doesn't have to deal with side effects from the pill or other hormonal methods so he shouldn't be trying to push that on you. He doesn't have to deal with IUDs, either. From a medical standpoint, a vasectomy is easier with a quicker recovery than tubal ligation. I do find it ridiculous that he refuses to wear a condom but expects you to deal with things that have side effects.
Dude this is why so many people hate on trans. I’m biasexual and what the trans community is doing is fucked up. You tell people that shit. If you don’t then in my eyes you’re sexually assaulting them. You’re not a woman if you still have a dick.
This
Ok. You, OP, say you want new insight. Try this. Your bf said to you “You're so ungrateful for everything I do for you. I guess I'm not allowed to treat myself. Sorry you think I'm a horrible boyfriend.” This is a manipulative statement, in my opinion, that is designed to shame you for what you feel and shut down your communication of your needs and wants. It’s an example of gaslighting.
His childhood with lots of money is not an excuse for refusing to adult as, you know, an adult. There are free services, websites, and apps that teach and help make a budget. You have tried to help him notice where he exercises bad judgment when it comes to money and been ignored or criticized for your effort. And, come on, take out
I'm sorry. It might be because English is not my first language. When I said I don't want to be alone, it means I still want us to be together. I want to be with him, and no one else. I'm really sorry for the confusion
Angel trust me you have nothing to feel insecure about. Small ish boobs are much more of a blessing than a curse and if he wants to behave like a juvenile then let him. Do NOT stay with a man who has lied to his friends abiht your body and also shown a picture of your sister to try and con them.
It's very gross cringe behaviour and you really seen to deserve much better than this whole situation.
Let me put it this way, if you had a little sister who's boyfriend had just done this to her, what would you say to her?
Why do you tolerate your father? Pretend he died in a bus crash and write him off.
Send your brother to get the bike.
I have. It's heartening to see that you're taking advice on board and have the intent to remedy the situation. Good on you.
As an Indian Mom myself, if there's one thing i can state strongly it's that firm boundaries are a necessity in one's marital life. My husband and I set them with our families when we got married (quite rare in Indian families, I know). We are slowly stepping back from our kids' lives and letting them enjoy their independence as young adults now.
This OP. In either of these situations, the punchline is how you react and the stress or grief it brings you. So while it's generous of you to suggest that she had no ill-intent with this joke, I hate to break it to you that she did.