If your sister was “obliterated” and couldn't even make it to the couch on her own, then at minimum, she wasn't able to give true consent. This is rape.
You don't need to be happy about it, or be the one supporting your sister through being attacked like this, but you do need to put the blame squarely where it belongs: on your husband.
They’re just saying “if it’s not the product of an ongoing affair prior”. In this scenario the sister isn’t at fault at all. If there was an ongoing affair, the sister is at fault for that part.
He claims he cheated on his ex because they weren’t serious (and he told her this) and now he keeps saying he truly is sorry and if he wasn’t serious about making it work he wouldn’t stick around cos he “wouldn’t want to waste my time/ hurt me further” unless he really wanted to marry me. So this is just making me more confused 🙁
What comment history? You’re making stuff up. I’m asking for advice not your drama.
I don’t have money to hire a lawyer. We live in a very small rural area and I’ve checked into assistance through the state. Snap is all I can get.
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If your sister was “obliterated” and couldn't even make it to the couch on her own, then at minimum, she wasn't able to give true consent. This is rape.
You don't need to be happy about it, or be the one supporting your sister through being attacked like this, but you do need to put the blame squarely where it belongs: on your husband.
He's a cheater and a rapist.
They’re just saying “if it’s not the product of an ongoing affair prior”. In this scenario the sister isn’t at fault at all. If there was an ongoing affair, the sister is at fault for that part.
He claims he cheated on his ex because they weren’t serious (and he told her this) and now he keeps saying he truly is sorry and if he wasn’t serious about making it work he wouldn’t stick around cos he “wouldn’t want to waste my time/ hurt me further” unless he really wanted to marry me. So this is just making me more confused 🙁
Normal to feel but get over it. Most large guys never learn how to use it right. Just give it time.
I would not recommend buying a house with a boyfriend
even worse, one that want you to pay 50 percent of his equity. Its not a good financial choice for you
Do not reduce it to every other month. Seriously. He’s trying to control you.