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Date: December 11, 2022
Your boyfriend is right on everything. Im worried for your relationship if you really can’t understand his POV and very reasonable explanations.
Maybe, or it could just be she's low libido.
I don’t wanna throw away almost a decade relationship.
OP there's no relationship to save at this point. HE PUT A GUN TO YOUR HEAD. It's your life or clinging to a dangerous, abusive, rage-filled alcoholic who is on a very short path to killing you.
Please reach out to the police, a domestic violence hotline, a family member, ANYONE who will help you get out of this situation. Your life is worth more than this.
Damn. His own brother?
Had a similar situation with my Ex.
He got what I thought was a vile tattoo- kindly told him my opinion prior to him getting it but naturally, his body his choice.
The problem was that afterwards I was physically turned off by him until I got used to it.
I can empathize with you on this one. The world convinced you that the grass is so much greener on the other side…. Or at least that you’ll be miserable if you don’t roll in it to find out. You broke up with the guy you call amazing for no other reason than you wanted to find out if it was better with someone else. Start with realizing how hurtful that was to him. Then because you are still tied through friends he had to know you were following through with it, more hurt. Then icing on the cake, you picked an absolute AH who is rubbing every second of it in his face with graphic detail. And you think you’re going to fix this mess? You need to get out of his life, right now. You’re the one that did this, you should be leaving the friend group and try to meet some good people. I’d recommend don’t date for a while, get past the good and the bad you’ve experienced so far so you can start fresh with someone new.
So, I think she’s just delaying the conversation about the kids. And most likely when you have the conversation, she’ll move the goal posts and put additional hurdles in having kids, like let’s buy our own house first, let’s be secure in our jobs first etc.
She already told the OP that she doesn’t want kids. So all of this is just you making things up. Why? I don’t know, but it reads like you heard about men doing all this and have decided that if some men do it, all women must do it. Despite the absence of evidence.
I think calling her a manipulator may be hard but not unwarranted given her behavior.
The manipulative behavior in this story came from the OP. His girlfriend spoke directly, without personal attacks. He lashed out, in a way that will certainly change her behavior going forward.
It’s tragic that you managed to write a reasonable first paragraph, but then launched into all this crap for the rest. Are you incapable of accepting that maybe the OP really isn’t blameless for his behavior? Are you identifying with the OP because he wrote the story, or because he wants kids, or because he’s male? Maybe you also feel that you can say anything to your partner, no matter how awful and manipulative, so long as you’re feeling a strong negative emotion in the moment. But of course their feelings are all fake and “manipulative”.
Why casual cheater?
How come they broke up?
I mean, my ex used to come round to see my cat (we fought like divorcees over children over that cat). When the cat was in very bad shape, ten years after I left the guy, I still called him to say, if you want to say goodbye you'd better come this week because he's in pain and I don't want him to suffer any more.
My partner was not insecure about it, he knew I'd left him for a reason, and after all the ex did look after the cat during my pregnancy etc.
The ex would come round after work, because he worked near our house, and we'd have a chat and a drink, and he'd mostly be gone by the time my partner got home, I wouldn't necessarily mention it because it wasn't like anything interesting had happened. If I did mention it, my partner would just say oh right, like it didn't really interest him.
On a side note, if you were sleeping with all those guys to deal with self esteem issues then you should probably get some counseling. Just because you are no longer doing that doesn't mean there still can be some challenges in you life from that, that manifest in dysfunctional issue in your marriage or life down the road if you don't deal with it.
Which is why sex count isn't unimportant like some folks thing, when you are choices a mate, both men and women. If someone is using sex as a gauge on their worth or a coping mechanism, that is unhealthy and doesn't go away just because the get married. Often it is still one of their gotos when they feel down on themselves, or there are challenges in the marriage.
it's wise for both men and women to take these things into account.