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Date: October 17, 2022
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You fucked up. You need to let go dude. Your friend probably didn’t tell you because he was scared it might trigger you. They aren’t dating to get back at you or as some hidden vendetta, you literally say it here that you introduced them and got them to be friends. They know each other, they like each other.
Plus it’s not like they started as soon as you broke up. If it started in the summer, that’s a 5 year gap from when she dumped you for cheating. You should be over this by now.
This will destroy your marriage and cause you so much pain and hurt. I know this from first hand experience. Do not agree to do this.
She sounds like someone that self sabotages all her relationships and destroys them from within
You're powerless to change anything as normally people that do this have a personality disorder
When a PD is in play that person can hate you one moment and not the next
Problem is neither you or them have any control over it, so to be blunt, they become undatable as the ground your relationship sits on is always moving
I always pull put even with a condom on psycho women who I suspect may have sabotaged my condom stash
Maybe the missus already is aware of the potential.
It's just an inherent bias. Unfortunately we are more se siticr to jias against women than men because of the rate of abuse of women.
But that makes it much worse for men when they're in these situations because they get thrown completely under the bus.
My friend told me a similar story: his gf found a shirt that she thought didn’t belong to her. He immediately said “Alright. Here’s my phone. You can check immediately and I’ll wait” just to ease her mind lol.
He just looks out for me. When I’m sick he always tells me what to do and stuff and spoils me just by buying me random things. If we met up we would stay at my parents apartment thats not being used. We live on the opposite sides of the world. I’m actually not sure why he was interested in me? I think when I asked him before he said it’s because I looked out for him or something
Seems like the friend was looking for a reason to stop being friends.
It could’ve been anything else too. It seems like a manufactured reason to stop being friends.
I would suggest giving her the cold shoulder. She’s probably feeling vindicated as you are reaching out to her. She is making something out of nothing. All I can say is that she is not your friend.
All the best. Take care. Onwards and upwards.
I know you blocked them but you really should send someone a copy of this post. They aren't brave and I want to point out they ALL had the audacity of coming to your wedding to support you ? What a bunch of hypocrites. I would have turned it back on them and asked if they felt so strongly why didn't they say anything to you before the wedding? Maybe it's cuz they don't really care about you and want to ride a long on their high horse. You'll find better friends. Good luck on your new job!
There's a four letter word I can think of that describes you to a T. Hey that's even one of the letters
Thanks. I know I acted as a coward ;(
Nope bruh
Unnecessarily condescending comment.
How about…stopping?
Unnecessarily condescending comment.
I am so glad the entire comments section went to exactly where my mind went to. Good job reddit, you never disappoint
With allies like you, I don’t need enemies.
I’m so sorry. He’s an addict. He needs rehab – likely inpatient but ag a minimum outpatient. There isn’t anything you can do if he doesn’t want to do it. He has to want to get well and clean and he’s not likely able to do it himself. Literally nothing else will make a difference unless he wants to get clean. Believe his actions not his words. Addicts are liars and manipulator; it’s the nature of addiction. He’s not the man you know or married right now. If he doesn’t want to get clean; you have 2 choices. Stay and live this way or leave. Maybe a separation helps him see how serous this is, maybe not.
In the meantime, you were prescribed the medication for a reason, he’s not just a junkie dinghy now, he’s risking your mental health too: lack of meds and living in a very difficult situation. This isn’t healthy for you, also.
Wishing you both better days.
This isn’t something that pops up naturally. It’s a question that you ask. But don’t ask what you are, ask her to be your girlfriend. It’s not that complicated.
I feel like your bf is doing an absolutely dog shit job of helping you navigate their relationship, but I am certain they are platonic friends.
You need to have a long chat that ends in a resolution you can live with or you'll implode the relationship.
Do they? They CAN work, yes. Some don't.
Usually, the determining factors are if you both are working towards being together, it is temporary, the bond is strong, both are dedicated to the relationship and each other, etc.
Yes, the longer it goes on, the harder it is to make work. People want someone there with them, not a phone.
How?
There's obviously a lot to kind of unpack in this post.
While a lot of the time, we can't help how we react to certain things, it's usually instinct or a knee jerk reaction, but the way you reacted, the insults I'm sure you spouted, were likely very hurtful, and probably transphobic, or homophobic. You may also be influenced (unconsciously at least) by the attitude of your father and fear or shame was possibly a factor there too.
Obviously, the way she went about dating is wrong. She's young, was likely hoping to find someone and wait until they were in a good place, before revealing that part of herself. I have the feeling she's incredibly naïve, thinking love will solve everything and her bio parts won't matter to anyone, because, according to Disney, love conquers all. Unfortunately, it doesn't work like that and I hope she doesn't get herself into dangerous situations. The shit LGBTQ+ people have to go through is scary. If she comes across the wrong guy, who's transphobic or feel like they've been made a fool of, it can get pretty dicey. I've heard stories circulate before.
Honesty is the best policy. I think people do need to be upfront about these things. Whether that's their sexuality, orientation, or gender identity, etc.
She was living in a fantasy where one day she would carry her own children and name them and live as a biological woman. Putting it like that breaks my heart for her and other trans people. I do feel bad for her, but she lied, and there aren't many excuses for that. She made you feel incredibly fooled and confused. She wasted not only your time, but hers, and your feelings and choice/consent were also disrespected.
I do think you should take some time to cool down. Later, if you're able to, have a conversation about the position she put you in. Explain that you would rather keep your family out of it and she has no business involving them. Go in calm, try to understand her, hopefully she'll try to understand you, and maybe you can leave on a good note.
Explain that it's not the fact that she's trans that's the part that hurts the most, but that she waited so long to tell you, broke your trust, lied, took away your choice, and created an illusion of your future.
I understand you're hurt and that's so very valid but, please, please, advise her on safety. Or ask someone else to. Direct her to trans support groups for dating advice, safety tips, etc.
This doesn't make you transphobic. Everyone has the right to decide what they want in a partner. Some don't care and others do. It boils down to respecting each other's choices, whether that means being in a romantic relationship or not.
I'm sorry you ended up so hurt. I hope you can find some closure, take a breath, and recover.
religion is a disease
I mean it absolutely would be punishing her. Being crushed be debt on the one hand, and then dumped by someone you love for no other reason than the debt you are already struggling to deal with.
I’m not saying that making that decision makes you a bad person. Far from it – it’s a totally reasonable decision to make. I would just ask that, if you love her like you say, you try and see things from her perspective as well.
Kick her out of your house and demand child support. She's the one that ruined the relationship
Sorry you’re going through this. You appear to be a very literal guy by hanging on each word she has told you. But you’re missing the bigger picture: she’s done with this relationship and is moving on. It ain’t about her mom, dad, Jesus. It’s about her. No amount of reasoning, discussion, prayer is going to turn the ship around. So time to be an adult and accept her decision with dignity. Block her, invest in yourself, and move on. Don’t get swallowed up by the details; the headline is all that matters.
I dont find it puzzling at all. Sounds like he wants to take advantage of you financially.
You don’t have to feel bad about it, it’s normal to wonder. It’s a unique challenge that you face when you’re one of the few whose high school relationships actually work out. But it’s also a unique honor and privilege, and something super rare and special that you get to be a part of.
I’m so sorry I wish you the best
OP please don't be this stupid. This is wildly inappropriate and he is CLEARLY going to cheat.
Yeah no need to get disrespectful over the internet right? Lol
You make 0 sense brother, just say “please don't bring gifts”
This is why. I know someone with this exact issue.