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Date: March 20, 2023
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Ya I’ve struggled with regret about not letting her see the phone right away, but I didn’t like how she just started going through it like taking it upon herself and stuff like that. It was just massively uncomfortable and I felt like she was violating my privacy.
There's a few things important to address here. First, there's no hard and fast rule about this sort of thing. Ultimately, “too fast” from the perspective of worrying if someone else might be a rebound is based on whether or not you have residual feelings for your ex or not. Anecdotally, while I'm now happily married, I was previously in a six year relationship that had gotten bad to the point I'd long since checked out prior to it finally coming to an end. As such, when it did, I got right back out there, because doing so wasn't me using anyone to fill any sort of void.
To come back to you, if that's where you are emotionally, then you're fine. If, however, you can't or you're unsure, then you might want to take a step back. If we were talking about just random hookups, then it is what it is. You're allowed to have fun. But if we're talking about considering pursuing a real relationship (which seems to be the case here), then you'd be setting yourselves up for failure because you wouldn't be all in. Just take a step back and be honest about it.
Next, don't worry about what anyone thinks. There's nothing wrong with being a relationship person so long as again, you're not using them to fill a void or because you have an inherent need not to be alone. You should never need someone; you should want someone. That's far more important to consider for yourself than as a worry about what other people think. It's really none of their business.
So yes, figure out if you're independent. Ultimately only you can know that. Good luck.
You can completely end her suspicions by, instead of saying “uhh nothing is going on we're friends” .. say to her:
“Oh my gosh I am so sorry, I never meant any harm to your marriage by befriending (coworker) and I had no idea you were unaware of our friendship, I have no interest in any way of disrupting your marriage so I will GLADLY stop speaking with him!”
Don't push her away it makes you look bad. You are not the victim here. She is. That's her HUSBAND. You're a child my dude. Back off. That isn't your husband. That isnt your partner. You can make other friends. If you continue trying to be friends with him you're going to break up a marriage. You have the power to back away right now.
Don't ask him “what should I do?”
Omg if there was someone like you talking to my husband I'd be livid too, “um I'm not doing anything wrong?” Yes you are. Knock it off. You're 25. Grow up and stay out of other people's marriages ffs.