i truly don't understand this. He keeps showing you exactly who he is and what he wants and you keep ignoring it. You have ended this 3 freaking times.
why do you feel this is the best you deserve? you are 20! go live your life , go be single, go get therapy so you can understand why you choose to be with a man that doesn't want to be in a relationship with you and keeps manipulating you into becoming friends with benefits and you keep going along with it!
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He's given you no indication that he's changed at all. Why do you think he'd even want to give you an explanation? He treating you like he's allowed to just walk in and out of your life when he feels like it…
It's natural that you're hurting and still have feelings but he hasn't really earned it. Especially if you dont even know why he left. That's bound to shake the self esteem.
i truly don't understand this. He keeps showing you exactly who he is and what he wants and you keep ignoring it. You have ended this 3 freaking times.
why do you feel this is the best you deserve? you are 20! go live your life , go be single, go get therapy so you can understand why you choose to be with a man that doesn't want to be in a relationship with you and keeps manipulating you into becoming friends with benefits and you keep going along with it!
The only effort you need to put is into yourself.
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Our marriage counselor told us that every marriage has had or will have regrettable actions and words. Congratulations, you guys have now crossed this bridge! I joke, but seriously, all marriages will have regrettable moments. Agree that the sooner you two get into counseling, the better your chance at a good outcome.
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Never speak to her again. She just raped you.
I’m so sorry this happened to you
Dont. He dropped you like a sack of potatoes.
He's given you no indication that he's changed at all. Why do you think he'd even want to give you an explanation? He treating you like he's allowed to just walk in and out of your life when he feels like it…
It's natural that you're hurting and still have feelings but he hasn't really earned it. Especially if you dont even know why he left. That's bound to shake the self esteem.
It feels like there is something wrong cause there is. You have written many indicators. Read your post/replies and jot down a list. They add up.
To my wife. I do know deep down that I'm allowed to be happy for myself and not to be happy because of others. Or at least dependent on it
Yeah, if you broke up with him and you live at his parents house, you should leave immediately so he has somewhere to go to. Just leave already.
You should probably challenge him to a duel
You should probably challenge him to a duel