I don’t find this cheating and personally wouldn’t get upset, but I think this is more a boundary thing. Some female friends get dressed or naked around each other etc. and some don’t, he might think that crosses a boundary to see your friend naked. Is it probably not rational or from insecurities? Of course, but it seems he’s not cool with you seeing friends naked, so that’s gonna have to be a conversation on where those boundaries are. I personally don’t think it’s that big of a deal unless you felt her up or something during it or touched them lol.
I would say definitely not typical however I could imagine a scenario where it could happen. Then again, why announce it unless it’s a passive come-on for something more. Being done while drunk and high I could definitely see and would give a pass if it were my friend.
Perhaps instead of putting the effort into finding him a therapist, find yourself one. I always question my relationship when I’m depressed. Take care of yourself and deal with that insecurity. Since you typically leave relationships after 2 years it makes sense that you’d feel this way. Your relationship with your partner can only be as good as your relationship with yourself.
I don’t find this cheating and personally wouldn’t get upset, but I think this is more a boundary thing. Some female friends get dressed or naked around each other etc. and some don’t, he might think that crosses a boundary to see your friend naked. Is it probably not rational or from insecurities? Of course, but it seems he’s not cool with you seeing friends naked, so that’s gonna have to be a conversation on where those boundaries are. I personally don’t think it’s that big of a deal unless you felt her up or something during it or touched them lol.
“ is this something that guys just ask?”
I would say definitely not typical however I could imagine a scenario where it could happen. Then again, why announce it unless it’s a passive come-on for something more. Being done while drunk and high I could definitely see and would give a pass if it were my friend.
Narrr babe gave your kids drugs that's serious abuse
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But he said he hasn’t met anyone that he could date right? That means he doesn’t think of me that way right? :/
You already know. You just can’t admit it right now. Good luck.
Because no antidepressants or anxiety medication ever makes you feel high ?
I actually haven’t thought of that, it sounds like a good idea. I might have to look into it. Thank you so much for giving me that idea
Perhaps instead of putting the effort into finding him a therapist, find yourself one. I always question my relationship when I’m depressed. Take care of yourself and deal with that insecurity. Since you typically leave relationships after 2 years it makes sense that you’d feel this way. Your relationship with your partner can only be as good as your relationship with yourself.
Of course!! I hope it goes well!!
Babe…. I did the dishes and laundry.