Unfortunately Jacob makes really good money and his parents come from money. I don’t think he’ll be suffering financially. That’s a good idea to look at that stuff, thank you for the suggestion
I mean, the whole grooming issue aside (which, tbh, ew), unfortunately anything HP related is for ever linked to the author, and the comments she made. Now, your partner clearly was hurt by those remarks since they attack xer identity. That being said, I am a strong believer that nothing is ever black or white, and that author and work should be judged separately unless the work is a blatant representation of the author's views, but if I knew something I read or enjoyed caused my partner hurt and offense, I would give it a second thought. With all that in mind… Please leave the teenager alone, you're almost thirty ffs.
Unfortunately Jacob makes really good money and his parents come from money. I don’t think he’ll be suffering financially. That’s a good idea to look at that stuff, thank you for the suggestion
Agreed. Just pointing out they aren't 100% effective in case anyone was unaware.
I mean, the whole grooming issue aside (which, tbh, ew), unfortunately anything HP related is for ever linked to the author, and the comments she made. Now, your partner clearly was hurt by those remarks since they attack xer identity. That being said, I am a strong believer that nothing is ever black or white, and that author and work should be judged separately unless the work is a blatant representation of the author's views, but if I knew something I read or enjoyed caused my partner hurt and offense, I would give it a second thought. With all that in mind… Please leave the teenager alone, you're almost thirty ffs.
I agree, but wanted to point out that the pull out method is NOT smart either.
Yes! Why did he keep doing what he was doing when OP was not responding, reciprocating, or in any way indicating that she wanted it?
And this, class, is what we call projecting.
That's my point, you're the one who was arguing absolutes