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Date: October 23, 2022
Have you ever heard the saying ‘win the battle, lose the war?’
Being ‘right’ is a very subjective measure. Yet you are treating it as an absolute and refusing to see other points of view. That’s not great for relationships. It’s also not great intellectually, where it is important to play ‘devil’s advocate’ and challenge your own thinking as a way to learn, grow, and sharpen your own arguments.
Almost every decision has pluses and minuses. Let’s say you are picking a restaurant. One option might be cheaper, but take more time, and the food is inconsistent. The other might be fast and predictably good food, but is expensive.
If you definitely want a good meal, option two is the right choice. If money is tight, option two is not a great move. In fact, maybe you should cook instead.
You are unilaterally deciding that your ‘pluses’ are more important than your gfs. You are STILL digging in that not risking this event is more important than letting your gf make decisions. That you would rather be ‘right’ and single than ‘wrong,’ but still on a train platform with your gf by your side. Do you want to win the battle, or the war? It’s too bad it’s come to this, but your gf told you she’s beyond fed up. Believe her.
I have made ‘good’ decisions that turned out terrible. I have made ‘bad’ decisions that turned out great. If you miss the train you can just change plans and go walk around town somewhere. Life will go on.
But it isn't illegal to be tits out on Sunset. It's been legal for a while, but yes no one does this.
Because I know that's what everyone will say. And I know it's a good idea but I want other perspectives before we go ahead with that. He doesn't believe so much in therapy so I am holding off on that unless I feel we are on the brink. At this point, I am still hoping for other answers besides that generic albeit valid response. Like someone is in this type of relationship could tell me whether separate meals and activities severely debilitate(d) their relationship? As an example.
Well obviously this is highly abusive. When he's gone tomorrow, change the locks. Let him know that its over, block him on everything.
My ex gf got confirmation from him she told me this awhile ago.
Everyone in my high school made fun of seniors who dated freshmen
I feel sad for your wife. It sounds like you had her for happy years and would leave her in sad years. It will be more difficult for her to find companionship now (as it is for all women as we get older, even without chronic health issues and the depression that can come along with that). You shouldn’t have married her in the first place.
You can do whatever you want but you still haven’t told me how I was wrong. I’ve explained a few times how what you made was an assumption. You can tell me they are educated guesses but they are still assumptions. They are not more an educated guess than an assumption. There I’ve done it again. Now you’ve repeatedly said I was wrong. Yet you keep dodging the question. So how was I wrong?
Tell him what you said in this post. You need to enforce boundaries in the future though
Thank you so much!
That makes it even worse. Way too much back and forth bs for two weeks and she admitted she doesn’t want a relationship with you.
From what you have said you were not together with each other when he went to visit her and he slept with her so in that case he didn’t cheat on her with you.
That doesn’t mean though that your feelings are not valid because they are valid and you have various different reasons for feeling worried and concerned that he might actually cheat on you in the future based on the other things you said in your post.
Me personally I would advise you to just end the relationship for good, because clearly you don’t trust him at all in any way and he also hasn’t done anything to make you feel like you can trust him that ultimately your relationship doomed to fail now regardless of anything that he does to try and make it better and to try and make you feel more trusting of him. Once that trust is broken and gone to this extent you can never ever get it back to anywhere near that previous level. You will always continue to feel like that and worst still if he promises to change things and for example he promises you that he will delete the apps from his phone and he promises you that he will also do this and that so you will feel better what always happens is that you will then think that something must be up and that he is cheating but now he is being more clever about doing it so you can’t really win either way. He has destroyed your trust and that is the be all and end all of it and you will always feel that you can’t trust him
Get a lawyer to sort this out. Also check your tenant laws or squatters rights in your area.
Make sure all your valuables are in a safe place ahe can't reach in case she go haywire.
All communication with her should be recorded as well as putting up cameras in your house and property is a must.
still being her 2nd choice
this is literally nowhere in the post. you're making shit up.
This is ridiculous. You should not be married.
Being a bad partner is so hilarious!!! Har, har, har!
Yeah, this relationship isn't going to be fun if he carries on, this woman is majorly controlling, I'd both love and hate to see these 2 a year from now.
Your mindset is pretty disgusting. Does she know you think like this?