People always think they’re the good guys in their stories. What you described in your post…..is two shitty people with equal blame for the disintegration of a marriage. You were just as much at fault judging by your own story.
Dump him. If you ask your partner to quit their job and follow you to another country where you have a job lined up and they don't, then it is your responsibility to support both of you until and unless your partner gets a job making something equivalent to what they were able to make in their home country. You sacrificed your career for him, and now he wants to punish you because of it.
Look, this guy is on a victim trip. Emotional abusers are like that. You need to get on with your life without him. You should feel anger that he made no effort to understand and help you. When you can feel that, you can start to heal.
What is amazing is you spend your time endlessly spamming this and several other posts. All of which get removed within a few min. At what point do you start spamming psychiatric subs for some help?
Thank you so much for being a voice of reason.
People always think they’re the good guys in their stories. What you described in your post…..is two shitty people with equal blame for the disintegration of a marriage. You were just as much at fault judging by your own story.
Dump him. If you ask your partner to quit their job and follow you to another country where you have a job lined up and they don't, then it is your responsibility to support both of you until and unless your partner gets a job making something equivalent to what they were able to make in their home country. You sacrificed your career for him, and now he wants to punish you because of it.
he feels betrayed
he told me i was fucked up
Look, this guy is on a victim trip. Emotional abusers are like that. You need to get on with your life without him. You should feel anger that he made no effort to understand and help you. When you can feel that, you can start to heal.
Can I ask how you would phrase it?
And of course it is common phrasing as this isn't a common scenario
What is amazing is you spend your time endlessly spamming this and several other posts. All of which get removed within a few min. At what point do you start spamming psychiatric subs for some help?
This is the definition of my mom, lol.